In the first semester of the second semester of junior high school, Hu Xinyu's grades in online classes at home declined, and the class teacher reported the situation to her parents.
Li Lianying discussed with her husband and brother and decided to transfer Hu Xinyu to a private middle school in a neighboring town, Hekou Town.
Hekou Town is nearly 30 kilometers from the village, and Hu Xinyu began his boarding life.
During his junior high school in Taoyuan Middle School, Hu Xinyu signed an early admission agreement with Zhiyuan Middle School after his grades came up, and was admitted to Zhiyuan Middle School with 531 points, according to which the first semester fee was reduced by 1,500 yuan and paid 7,100 yuan.
The admission score ranked 650th out of 1303 high school freshmen
Ranked 58th out of 65 students in the class
Hu Xinyu's grades in this private high school where "masters" are gathered are not very good
Private high school fees are merit-based
According to Hu Xinyu's normal performance in junior high school, it may cost very little money to enter Zhiyuan Middle School. Although Zhiyuan Middle School gave a scholarship of 1500 according to the agreement, the Hu family still spent 7100 yuan!
7,100 yuan is a lot of money for parents who work and farm all year round. The sensible Hu Xinyu has had psychological pressure since he attended this private high school.
Because he knew that it was not easy for his parents to support his education, in addition to a large amount of tuition, he also had to pay his living expenses and accommodation expenses every month.
During the summer vacation after the middle school entrance examination, Hu Xinyu went to Fujian to play with his mother Li Lianying as usual
During the holidays, Li Lianying took a lot of photos of him, and the mother and son had a lot of fun. In mid-August 2022, afraid that inter-provincial travel would require isolation, Li Lianying took Hu Xinyu back to his hometown more than ten days in advance.
During this period, Hu Xinyu said that he wanted to run, and he got up at six o'clock every day to go out with his playmates
On the 30th, Li Lianying took Hu Xinyu to the school to register, and in the dormitory of the eight-bed room, Hu Xinyu chose the upper bunk on the right side of the window.
Li Lianying then returned to Fujian to continue working.
Hu Xinyu started his freshman year of high school
According to Hu Xinyu's personal diary
This procrastination problem has not changed, the homework is written every time in the last period of time, resulting in the straw mat being dealt with on the last day (not very dry, but at least I can sleep), and it also caused my father to forget about feeding the chickens, and I remember to go down the stairs.
But grandma called and asked me to make 2 o'clock? Look, really vomited, as a result of the hurry and forget, alas, this procrastinating problem must be changed, absolutely must be changed, must be changed.
From these details, it can be found that during the period of Hu's study, the whole person was not in a very good state, and the dislike of school was more serious.
On September 27, Hu Xinyu spoke with his mother three times for a total of 43 minutes, crying that he did not want to study and wanted to go home. I also told the head teacher that I was under pressure to study and wanted to quit school.
This is a series of teacher and student visits after Hu Xinyu's disappearance.
During the November holiday in 2022, Hu Xinyu asked his brother for a voice recorder, on the grounds that there were things he couldn't understand in class, and he could record it and listen to it after class, and he could record any testimonials.
On October 9, Hu Xinyu, who was at school, called his mother after receiving the voice recorder, which was the last time he contacted him.
On October 14, Hu Xinyu disappeared from the school
School monitoring showed that at 5:49 p.m. that day, Hu Xinyu, wearing a white sweatshirt, black sweatshirt and black pants, appeared at the door of the dormitory, and he was not seen in the surveillance since.
After 6 p.m. that night, the class teacher found that Hu Xinyu had not arrived in the classroom and reported to the school leaders
That night, the school searched the hillside in the school, the teaching building and outside the school wall, and also checked the surveillance, but did not find Hu Xinyu's whereabouts.
At about 11 p.m. that night, Hu Xinyu's head teacher informed parents that their children were missing.
After Hu Xinyu disappeared
Jiangxi province, cities and counties set up three-level joint investigation teams, the public security system dispatched more than 100 police personnel, Hu Xinyu's parents offered a reward of 50,000 yuan for providing valuable clues.
Netizens have also put forward countless search suggestions, but Hu Xinyu is like evaporating from the world, without any clues.
According to a notice issued by the Shangrao police on January 29, 2023, the body was found in a "hanging" state, and the public security organ determined that the deceased was Hu Xinyu after DNA testing of the deceased's biological examination materials; The family agreed to the autopsy
A voice recorder was found during the on-site investigation, and according to previous media reports, Hu Xinyu had a voice recorder with him when he disappeared;
The police use very cautious language, "hanging"
hanging, that is, "strangled with a rope"; To hang is to hang yourself. The police report did not say whether he hanged himself or was hanged by others.
Not to mention when he hanged on the tree, in the 106 days that Hu Xinyu disappeared, if he was "hanged" at the beginning, how did the "body" remain to this day? "Hanging" does not mean hanging suicide in the sense of the surface, nor does it exclude suicide.
The location of the hanging, "Jinjishan Regional Forest of Hekou Town".
Since Hu Xinyu's disappearance, there have been many conspiracy theories on the Internet
After Hu Xin Universe disappeared, there were too many conspiracy theories on the Internet. Suspicion of school surveillance, suspicion of police attitude, suspicion of class teachers, suspicion of school violence, etc.
But many people have not analyzed Hu Xinyu's transformation from junior high school to high school, the transformation of his mental state, and the pressure he faces academically.
Of course, some netizens said that he had long been in love with him for various problems, but many people felt that this was not the reason for his disappearance
Why did Hu Xinyu repeatedly want to go home and not want to study, if Li Lianying, who was a mother at that time, could let Hu Xinyu go home and rest, or did not put so much pressure on the child, would Hu Xinyu leave school?
When a child sends a signal for help to his parents academically, should parents consider it from the child's point of view?
Hoping for a child to become a dragon is the wish of parents, and they have never considered the child's endurance
Sensible children will face their parents' dedication to themselves and let themselves endure again and again. But when he can't bear it, will he collapse psychologically!
The police have done their best in the search for Hu Xinyu's case, and we must trust the official report
If everyone wants to infer Hu Xinyu's disappearance according to their own wishes, it is actually wrong, because we must believe in the public security bureau's ability to handle cases and the law-abiding attitude of the case-handling personnel in a scientific and rigorous manner.
Hu Xinyu's death is an unshirkable responsibility for parents and schools
As we all know, high school life is the most depressed memory of youth, because to get ahead in the college entrance examination, if you have a high school student in your family, can you provide him with another choice in addition to taking the college entrance examination.
The college entrance examination is not the end of life, just the beginning.
But for rural parents, the topic on their son's list can not only change the life situation of the whole family, but also change his future development direction. When parents give their children their lifelong expectations, can they see how much they can bear.
As Zhiyuan Middle School, when facing students' boredom with school, did the school find a professional psychologist or psychiatrist to assess the child's entire mental state, and did not counsel the child. High school students' boredom with school is not only mental stress, but also the tense learning atmosphere of the school.
We always pay attention to our children's achievements, but forget that they are only 15-16 year olds, and we should pay more attention to what children think and what parents can help their children.
In the face of children crying and complaining that they don't want to study, do parents have the confidence and courage to let their children take a year off from school?
There are no children in the world who are not, and they cannot choose their parents and births. There are parents in the world who are not, because they put too much pressure on their children, resulting in children being unable to bear the weight of life.
I hope that Hu Xinyu's tragedy will not be repeated again, and I hope that more parents with children will care more about what their children want, rather than what kind of person you expect your children to become.