Author | Bamboo hidden green cream
Source | Confucius old book network dynamics
Many book lovers are worried that the books have been lent out and have not returned, and they are sorry and distressed.
I think that people who don't like to read will find someone else to borrow books. Of course, those who like to read books will also borrow, but most of them borrow from the library, and it is not good to sit there and see what they want to see.
The only thing that looks for someone else to borrow books is urgent use (it is too late to buy, and there is nowhere else, except for this). There are people who don't like to read books at all, just see them on a whim, so they borrow because they don't care, so they won't pay you back.
Looking at the dynamics of brother Kong Net's "Gu Cai" (I am his fan), when it comes to his bandit friends, I don't like this kind of friend very much, I don't have a friend like ''Zhao Jun''' And no matter how good the friendship is, I think I should know the measure in other people's homes.
Actually I don't have that kind of trouble, really. Because I never let my friends into the study. In my opinion, the study is as private as the bedroom, how can people prying eyes?
Most of my social networking is solved outside, for example, cafes, book bars, restaurants, tea houses, studios. There are generally two kinds of people who can come to the house as a guest, one is a pure friend who is very good friends, and the other is a relative at home. The former activities are generally chatting in the living room, or drinking tea and talking about the old, if you share anything, I will take it out to see. So the guests are basically sitting, and when it's time to eat, they go out to eat together, and then they leave, which is a situation.
There is also a situation where you come home from a meal outside, and even more when you sit at the tea table and talk for hours, and you don't have time to read my books, will you walk around in other people's houses? They are all cultivated people, so friends borrowing books does not exist.
Relatives come, eat, drink, play mobile phones and play computers, there is really no one to turn over my books, there are a few young people who are going to college with a little interest in it, come to my house is to let the wind come, one by one shy to die, send him, and lazy to take the kind. No one really asked me to borrow a book.
So, borrowing books, that's a library thing. Is it the kind of person who can enter your study that you lend out and are not willing, or who dares to open your mouth and does not know your heart?
