Just brushed the video, saw a video of a guest at home not letting his daughter-in-law eat at the table, the woman was very angry, and also posted a video to tell her grievances.
Later, I clicked on the comments and looked at it, and sure enough, there were no sane people.
It just so happened that the other day I had the same experience with this woman. But my mind may not be so detailed, nor do I think so much.
I am also a distant marriage, and Xuzhou is married to Nantong Rudong.
The day before yesterday was January 19th, and in the morning my mother-in-law told me that today my uncle came to see her, that is, my mother-in-law's second brother, who has not been to my mother-in-law's house for about thirty years (some people will definitely ask, are there any relatives who have not been here for decades in this era?). Yes, my mother-in-law is 75 years old this year and can't ride an electric car, and my second uncle is 92 years old this year and can't ride any car. At such an age, it is estimated that even if he can ride, the family does not dare to let him ride, so when the child does not have time, the old man has no way to go out for a walk)
At about eleven o'clock in the afternoon, my cousin drove my second uncle and my second uncle's son-in-law together.
The dishes for drinking, we are ready, the second uncle they arrived, we beckoned them to wash their hands and eat, the table where our family eats is a square table, one side to make two people loose, sitting three people will be very crowded, at that time there was on the table, the second uncle and father-in-law did the front, my husband and cousin did one side, the second uncle and son-in-law did one side, and the two children did one side, which means that me and my mother-in-law can only have one person to sit.
I asked my mother-in-law to sit because it was her mother's family, and her mother-in-law was an elder. My mother-in-law asked me to eat, and she said she came to cook the vegetables. I said I'll burn and you eat. The mother-in-law said, if you don't go, I won't go. I said, you cook vegetables, I'll give you a hand. Then I cooked all the hot dishes in the kitchen with my mother-in-law.
After cooking, my mother-in-law left a little of each hot dish and then brought it to the table.
After the soup was cooked again, my mother-in-law specially left a bowl to put in the kitchen, saying that it would be left for me to eat with her.
My mother-in-law brought out all the dishes, went back to the kitchen, and asked me, can we eat in the kitchen? I said yes.
After eating, my mother-in-law wanted to clean up the dishes and chopsticks, I stopped her from cleaning up, I said, you have to go to your aunt's house later, quickly go back to the room to change clothes and clean up, I will wash these. I can see that my mother-in-law is very excited today and very happy to change clothes.
The mother-in-law is also a woman, and she is also a former girl, and she also has her own expectations.
If I eat today, my mother-in-law doesn't ask me, and doesn't let me go to the table to eat, I will definitely be unhappy, but my mother-in-law didn't do this, she felt that I should go to the table to eat, she can not go when she is older, I don't think so, I think it's all daughters-in-law, my mother-in-law doesn't go to the table to eat, for me who is afraid of society, I don't want to go to the table to eat.
The mother-in-law also came from the daughter-in-law, and the daughter-in-law will also be a mother-in-law in the future, if the mother-in-law's family cannot treat the daughter-in-law as a family and really get along with each other, they also target the daughter-in-law everywhere. To put it mildly, such a mother-in-law is a stumbling block to family harmony.