#天南地北大拜年 #
As the saying goes, "People are strangers in a foreign land, and they think of their relatives every festival...".
The annual Spring Festival is coming, but some people are happy and some are worried, some people are celebrating the festival, and some people seem to be crossing the calamity, and different ages need to bear some different pressures.
Middle-aged people are under economic pressure, young people are under pressure to urge marriage, as long as you are not married when you reach the age, both men and women will be urged to get married, and many people can be said to be tired of it during the Spring Festival.
The old people's thinking about marriage is very simple, they will only require that their children must get married, and no matter who you marry, it doesn't matter how you live after marriage, anyway, you just need to get married.
In fact, for most young people, it is not that they do not want to get married, but it is difficult to find a marriage partner, do not want to fool themselves at will, and are not responsible for others.
Today's young people's view of marriage and love is no longer the outdated thinking of the eighties and nineties of the last century, and most of today's marriage needs economic foreshadowing, not just depends on the eye.
Recently, in Zhuanghe, Dalian, Liaoning, a woman went home for the New Year, and her family knew that she had no partner, and the next day she opened the marriage urging mode, and the seven aunts and eight aunts all came to admonish.
At first, she could cope easily, but as time passed, she was urged to marry by the elders in the family, and gradually felt broken, and what she was most afraid of every day was sitting and chatting with her parents.
Even if she tried to stagger the time, she could not escape the pursuit and interception of her elders, and his mother and aunt went directly to the room to pull her up and sit on the bed to listen to them teach life lessons.
Mother said: You don't want what others introduced, and you can't find it yourself, tell me when you can marry yourself off?
The aunt is also on the side to help, girls must get married early, it is difficult to find later, as you get older, the chance of meeting that particularly suitable partner will become smaller and smaller.
Your mother and I are both from here, and we both hope that you can get married early, complete life events, and your parents can worry less about you.
Counted down by her mother and aunt for a while, just like a Tang monk chanting, the woman was a little annoyed and directly wrapped her head in clothes, no matter what they said, anyway, they just didn't listen and insisted on being themselves.
Some people may wonder how this picture came out, the video was taken by the woman's sister-in-law, and when she saw her sister-in-law being burned by the urge to get married, she felt funny and posted it on the Internet.
According to the woman's sister-in-law, my sister-in-law is 27 years old this year, and my mother-in-law is particularly anxious, and every year when she goes home for the New Year, she will urge marriage, and now three years have passed, and my sister-in-law still has no partner.
In order to solve her life's affairs, the family did not worry less, relatives have helped her introduce seven or eight boys in recent years, and in the end she did not fancy any of them, and her mother-in-law had nothing to do with her.
This year, she just returned home, even the aunt came to persuade, he was speechless by the two elders, covering his clothes the whole time, I looked at it and thought it was funny and filmed it, this young man is really too difficult.
Similar to the above situation, many older young people must have encountered it, parents will urge marriage, but many elderly people have not thought about some deeper problems.
Girls are slightly better, even if they do not have any material conditions, as long as they are willing to marry, put their position, do not climb high or marry, marriage is generally not too difficult.
Boys are very different, it is easy to get married but difficult to fall in love, love only needs you and I will, but when it comes to marriage, the bride price RV three gold or hardware must have, without tens of millions can not be done.
Many young people are single, not because they don't want to find it, but because they can't afford to get married, so most of the unmarried young men are passively single.