As it goes, "Children avoid their mothers, women avoid their fathers"!
When children have gender awareness, parents should instill the concept of male and female differences in them, so that children can form correct gender awareness.
We have listed many tragic cases caused by the lack of sex education before.
The prerequisite for forming correct gender awareness is first of all to have a correct gender concept for parents!
However, some parents do not think so.
Previously, we talked about an account that took short videos to record the daily life of father and daughter.
There is nothing intimate between father and daughter, and even reflects a strong family affection, but the performance of the father and daughter in the short video is very uncomfortable to watch.
Because many of the father-daughter performances in the video have exceeded the boundaries of father-daughter intimacy.
Like what:
In a video of Qixi, a family of three went out and opened a big bed room, and the father and daughter lay together like this!
When filming the daily life of the father and daughter at home, the father is naked and holds his daughter tightly in his arms!
And this one, the daughter's chest is half-exposed, and it is obvious that she has begun to develop, so she lies in her father's arms!
I often hug each other face to face!
Make a lot of inappropriate and indecent movements.
Some netizens even found that in a father-daughter playing video, when the father let his daughter sit on his lap and hold it, the father actually had a physiological reaction!
In short, looking at it, it is difficult to feel that this is a father and daughter, and more like a couple! Very uncomfortable!
And the daughter's contempt for her mother and attachment to her father in the video show a strong father-love complex.
If you do not guide at this time, but encourage, it will have a great impact on the child's future view of marriage and love!
It can be seen that if parents do not give their children enough respect and space since childhood, and enough gender concepts, even if the child does not understand when he is young, the child will understand sooner or later! On that day, the impact of a parent's deformed love on the child is self-evident, and it can even lead to the breakdown of family relationships. As parents, you should understand that your child is an independent individual, and you must learn to let go!