"Children who were once disliked, but now they feed the entire Deyun Society"
Guo Qilin, as Guo Degang's son, has been very difficult along the way from a big fat man who no one cared about at the beginning, to a big star in the full bloom of film and television, variety shows, and crosstalk.
And the initiator of his suffering was his father Guo Degang.
Guo Qilin was born in 1996, and giving birth to a boy should have been a happy thing, but it became a problem in the Guo family.
At that time, Guo Degang did not have a serious career, and only his wife Hu Zhonghui could make some money stably at home, but since he was pregnant with Guo Qilin, his belly was getting bigger and bigger day by day, and Hu Huizhong could not work.
As a result, the family's livelihood was in dire straits.
Hu Zhonghui has always advised Guo Degang not to think about becoming an artist, to find a job and support his family first, but Guo Degang just doesn't listen, and is always immersed in his dream of being a master.
Hu Huizhong was also helpless, and could only take care of Guo Qilin alone, but as the days went by, the resentment in his heart became stronger and stronger, and he divorced Guo Degang in a fit of anger.
And Guo Degang was thinking of going to Beijing for development, so in the face of the son left by his wife, he simply lost it to his parents in his hometown and embarked on the road to the north alone.
So when he was a child, Guo Qilin actually grew up in the family of his grandparents.
During this time, lacking father's love and mother's love, he gradually became reticent, watching his partners play outside every time, and he became the only child who did not fit in.
It was not until he was 6 years old that Guo Degang returned to his hometown to pick up his son to Beijing.
But Guo Qilin, who has no impression of his father for six years, was not a surprise when he heard a man say "I am your father", but a shock.
Grandparents were overjoyed to see Guo Degang return, but Guo Qilin broke free from his grandmother's embrace and silently turned around and walked into the house.
Fortunately, after the persuasion of his grandparents, Guo Qilin recognized his father, and within a few days he followed Guo Degang to Beijing by train.
However, at that time, Guo Degang was in the most difficult stage, and even eating, dressing and keeping warm was a problem.
In order to keep himself and his son alive, he took on everything, even if he was locked up in a glass house and watched as a monkey, because only in this way can he make money.
However, in 2003, a virus suddenly struck, and Guo Degang could only return to Tianjin with his son.
After returning to Tianjin, Guo Degang took Guo Qilin to eat a hamburger, and this was the first time he fulfilled his son's wish, so this happy moment has always been an unforgettable moment in Guo Qilin's heart.
But what Guo Qilin didn't expect was that with Guo Degang's second marriage, the sweetness he had just tasted was completely gone.
At the same time, he also experienced a terrible thing.
Once followed his grandparents to a fast food restaurant, when Guo Qilin went to the toilet, suddenly an uncle made all kinds of provocative behaviors towards him, and he was young and ignorant and instantly panicked.
The experience of "pseudo-harassment", coupled with his stepmother in front, Guo Qilin, who was only 7 years old, endured the pain that his peers could not bear.
Since then, his personality has become more introverted, even his smile has become much less, and the only way to relieve his stress is to eat all kinds of non-nutritious junk food.
In this way, he gradually became a little fat man who was not welcomed.
However, this is not only enough, the father's education of his son almost forced him to collapse.
Despite being his own son, Guo Degang still forced Guo Qilin to be measured when talking to him, and he must also use honorifics, and if he said something wrong, he would be scolded.
In addition, when the brothers of the same disciple came to the house as guests, Guo Qilin also had to have the ability to see, add tea when there was no tea, cut it when there was no fruit, always wait at the table, and obey his father's instructions at any time.
In terms of diet, Guo Qilin's least favorite dish in his life is Chinese cabbage, but instead of accommodating his son, Guo Degang deliberately stewed a pot of Chinese cabbage for Guo Qilin and let him squat on the stairs to eat.
Whenever Guo Qilin cried to eat the delicacy on his table, he directly kicked Guo Qilin away and made him roll away and cry.
But Guo Qilin, who has lacked his father's love since he was a child, has never been dissatisfied with his father's strict discipline, he just can't understand why his father treats him like this.
By 2005, the reputation of Deyun Society gradually rose, Guo Qilin mixed in the crosstalk circle every day, and gradually became interested, and in 2009 he worshiped Yu Qian as a teacher.
Maybe he felt the sense of achievement brought by crosstalk, or he wanted to engage in the same industry as his father and get his father's attention, he was originally a top student who jumped the grade, but he resolutely gave up the opportunity to study abroad and stayed in Deyun Club.
And he knew that in addition to slipping on stage, image was also crucial, so he forced himself to diet and fitness, and finally spent three years to shake off more than 80 pounds of fat.
It stands to reason that the son is so desperate, when the father should encourage it, but Guo Degang is biased, and even sets stricter rules for his son.
At that time, Guo Qilin not only had to memorize the lines in a shorter time, but also dealt with the pressure of performing in advance at any time, and in fact, there was no performance time ahead at all, it was all deliberately done by Guo Degang, in order to hone his mentality.
And Guo Degang cared for his apprentice, but ignored Guo Qilin, and every time he saw Guo Qilin injured, he didn't ask, and in the end, Guo Qilin could only take out the medical kit with the wound and bandage it himself.
In fact, there were also senior brothers who couldn't look past it and wanted to help him, but they were all reprimanded back by Guo Degang, and in the long run, everyone also turned a blind eye to Guo Qilin's suffering.
In life, acting is even more stringent.
In 2012, Guo Qilin was suddenly stunned during the performance, which caused an embarrassing scene in the performance for a period of time.
Afterwards, Guo Degang cursed at him in front of all the apprentices in the Deyun Society, and before Guo Qilin went to bed that night, his ears still seemed to surround his father's scolding.
The outside world thinks that Guo Qilin is a "second generation of stars", but in fact, every experience of his has nothing to do with the word of this scenery, and even the most basic apprentice is not as good.
According to Guo Degang's words, the reason why he educated his son so harshly was to let Guo Qilin suffer from the hardships in society in advance, so as not to get a little setback in society, he would give up on himself and ruin his life.
However, when Guo Qilin just appeared in front of everyone as a comedian, everyone did not know that he had such a bumpy experience, only knew that he was the "son of Deyun Society", and they all talked about his identity.
So in 2016, Guo Qilin won the fourth place in "Happy Comedian", and instead of affirming his performance on stage, everyone angrily criticized him for his poor level, and if there was no daddy Guo Degang, he couldn't survive a round.
After "I am an Actor", because the judges unexpectedly gave Guo Qilin more votes, the hot search for "Guo Qilin Pin" has been high.
At this point, Guo Qilin, who has just entered the entertainment industry, has been labeled as a low-energy label of "no strength" and "relying on fighting".
Perhaps Guo Degang's stick education has been effective, Guo Qilin has never said a word about these criticisms, allowing the outside world to rise sharply, he stood still, and even took the initiative to ridicule himself with the "second generation of stars" in the program.
Such a peaceful handling also gained him a small number of fans.
And in 2020, Guo Qilin, who handled things well and was polite, finally shined in the entertainment industry, constantly appearing in front of the screen, and became a frequent guest in many variety shows.
Especially when the epidemic just hit, Deyun Society faced the dilemma of retreat, and only Guo Qilin continued to bring money to Deyun Society by participating in various variety shows.
During that time, it was no exaggeration to say that he supported the entire Deyun Society on his own, and even Guo Degang, a strict father, finally came forward to affirm his son's efforts.
Although Guo Qilin is still young, he seems to live like an old artist in his heart, always cautious in his words and actions, and has never acted out of line and out of line, and many stars have publicly praised him on Weibo.
And the other rich second generation in the comparison circle, either by virtue of their parents' fame in the film and television industry, or their private lives are chaotic, and they are constantly exposed to all kinds of black materials that destroy the three views.
In this way, Guo Qilin is really a clear stream in the "second generation of stars", and has won the recognition of the outside world with his smooth and humane style.
Like pouring tea, once when cooperating with Hua Shao, Hua Shao accidentally poured too much tea, and then remembered that "tea cannot be poured", Guo Qilin, who remembered that "tea cannot be full", immediately took the cup of tea and drank it.
Even after the fire, Guo Qilin always restrained himself and faced every job sincerely and steadfastly.
Although occasionally there are still people who comment: "You are Guo Degang's son, without your father, you are nothing." But Guo Qilin has long been indifferent to this and has never deliberately avoided it.
In fact, for the fact that his father is a crosstalk master, Guo Qilin is very clear in his heart, he knows that he can become famous now, and a large part of the reason is because of his father's reputation.
But looking back, if Guo Qilin himself was not working hard enough and not good enough, even if his father was Guo Degang, he would not be able to achieve today's achievements.
It is also because of this that Guo Degang, who saw his son's strength, gradually changed the way he got along with his son.
In fact, since 2021, during Guo Qilin's busiest period, Guo Degang has shown his concern for his son everywhere, not only moving the recording venue of "Deyun Dou Laughing Society" to Guo Qilin's crew, but also often praising Guo Qilin's dynamics.
Guo Degang, who used to eat and drink no matter where his son was, sometimes became interested, and would take the initiative to call Guo Qilin and ask him to go home quickly to have two drinks with him.
Another time, the drama starring Guo Qilin for the first time was premiered, and Guo Degang secretly bought a ticket and sat under the stage without telling him.
Before that, Guo Degang had never been to see his son's performance in person.
At that time, after the performance ended, after seeing his father on stage and hugging him, Guo Qilin was like a baby who missed his father, and he cried directly regardless of the scene full of audiences.
Seeing his son so excited, Guo Degang may be deeply sorry, so he took his son's hand and said a rare praise of "my son's play is better than mine".
A simple and extremely simple hug made Guo Qilin wait for 24 years, and he, who had never enjoyed his father's love, finally burst into tears at that moment.
In fact, looking back, before the strict education of Guo Qilin, Guo Degang had already tasted the warmth and warmth of people in Beijing, and all kinds of unfair things were experienced by him, so he urged his son so much to cultivate his son's "big heart".
Now, Guo Qilin, who has become more and more mature in mentality, has finally experienced his father's good intentions.
It is worth mentioning that the relationship between Guo Qilin and his stepmother Wang Hui has also quietly changed.
When Wang Hui returned to the stage again, Guo Qilin also specially recorded a short video with his brother to send sincere blessings to Wang Hui.
Wang Hui saw this video on stage, and she felt a lot for a while, and being able to get Guo Qilin's blessing is definitely the most important affirmation in her life for her stepmother.
Some people once imagined that if Guo Qilin was a selfish second generation of stars, there might not be the explosion of Yue Yunpeng, Qin Xiaoxian and others.
Such a humble young man is rare in the impetuous entertainment industry, but I hope that Guo Qilin can maintain his original intention, as always, with a low profile and humility, to deal with the next life, while realizing the value of life, but also become the pride in his father's heart.