In the mythology of Westerners, the god of love is the little angel Cupid, and in the history of Chinese, the red line has always been the "old man" of the old man, then, Xiaobian wants to ask, is Cupid's arrow more reliable? Or is the red line of the old moon more reliable?
According to legend, Cupid has two kinds of arrows, one is a golden arrow, the other is a lead arrow, the person who is shot by the golden arrow will deeply fall in love with the first person to see, and the first person shot by the lead arrow will hate and refuse to see the first person, so cupid's arrow is full of uncertainty, we don't know what arrow he will take out next!
In contrast, in Chinese mythological stories, the predecessor of the moon elder is "Di Cao", that is, the meditator who is in charge of the marriage in the underworld, so the power is great, and it is said that the old man of the moon has a book in charge of the marriage, and the two people who have a fate are tied together with a red rope, and the marriage is fixed, so it looks like a lot more reliable!
From these two points of view, Cupid's arrow is more like a child's innocent feelings, ignorance, impulsiveness, changeable, more like unrequited love, after all, we don't know whether the first person we see likes us or not! And in case a child shoots blindly with an arrow and shoots at a non-single person, you say that if the first person you see is a spouse, it is okay, in case not, you say that this arrow can be counted? Isn't this a proper destruction of the family!
Cupid said, "I'm only in charge of archery, I don't care about anything else."
And the red line of the old moon will at least be a match between single people! When people go to the Moon Ancestral Hall to ask for marriage, what they think is not all in the hope that the heavens can give themselves a good marriage, and the two people who have been led by the red line of the moon elder may experience the twists and turns of life, but in the end they will return to each other, which is a fate destined by heaven, which is also related to traditional Chinese culture, in ancient times, it is not said: "A thousand miles of marriage is a line, there is a fate to meet thousands of miles." The old man of the moon is like a worried old man, first see if the two people are suitable, and then see if the pairing index is high, and finally think it is OK, so he arranges for the two to meet, and finally enters the palace of marriage! Sure enough, when you are old, you can look at it reliably!
For example, just like Romeo and Juliet, Cupid's arrow shot them both together and fell in love with each other, but the old moon did not give them a red line, which led to the two people having no fate to accompany each other for a lifetime, and finally because of the feud between the two families, they were martyred and died, if the old moon could get the red line, the ending might not be so tragic.
Although Cupid's arrows are often shot, isn't it still useless without the red line of the moon! We will never be shot by an arrow in our lives, and we will grow old with the first person we see, although there is such a thing, but this situation is still very rare, whether we can catch up or not has to say another! Speaking of the young people now, which one has not been shot by Cupid several times, in the end, it is not the elder who arranged a suitable person to finally enter the palace of marriage.
Suddenly feel that such a combination of two people is not bad, one is responsible for finding targets and the other is responsible for matchmaking, so that the majority of singles will not soon get off the list!
Cupid's arrow is like the western people's feelings of love at first sight, and it is very open, it can also be said that because of this concept, there is a god of love Cupid, and the concept of Chinese is more conservative and calm, as the saying goes: "A hundred years of cultivation to cross the same boat, a thousand years to cultivate to sleep together." We pay more attention to fate and cause and effect.
Of course, whether it is the old man of the moon or Cupid, it is the most important thing to find true love, I hope that Cupid can no longer shoot arrows around willfully, and the old man of the moon is also careful that the old eyes are dizzy and pull the wrong line, and he is more worried about the emotional problems of young people!