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Marriage is not only two people who love each other living together, but also a long companionship for two people for a lifetime.
In marriage, not only love is enough, but also involves complex things such as personal contacts, economic disputes and so on.
In marriage, some women without vision only want to manage money, while women who are really good will only manage these three things.
One: Take care of your heart
Your partner is your lover, but he cannot be the only one in your life. Some women fall in love with someone and love them wholeheartedly, giving them all their hearts.
But you have to know that deep love is not long-lived, and sometimes the love you give is too heavy, but it will make the other party feel breathless.
Really smart women, they will manage their hearts, and when they love each other with their hearts, they will also leave a part of their hearts to love themselves well.
They can maintain their own personality independence in marriage, and will not regard each other as their own, only in this way can the marriage be more durable.
If you love someone too much and lose yourself in love, then you will gradually lose yourself as you are. He fell in love with the independent and thoughtful you who used to be, not an echo bug who was full of eyes just him.
Two: Take care of your money
Instead of thinking about managing men's money, it is better to manage your own money first.
Although many people think that after marriage, two people are a family, and his money and your money are actually family money, but this idea is very dangerous.
Marriage is not a sword, it is not unbreakable, once your marriage has a rift or even breakdown, then you will face a very real problem of property division.
If there is a confused account between you, how much you earn and how much you spend, you don't know everything, then you will only lose in the end.
Managing your own money is not for you to be a miser, but for you to know how much income you have, how much you have paid for the couple's common life, and how much of the property in the family belongs to you.
You don't necessarily need to have it in your hands, but you need to at least have it in mind. Once a marriage breaks down, you can at least fight for your legal rights.
Three: manage your own ability
Many married women face a balance between family and career, and some women are full of dedication, they are willing to be the woman behind the man, take on the family responsibilities for them, and be a full-time wife.
Such an option is great, but at the same time risky.
You are putting your whole life on the conscience of that man, and if he has any other thoughts, then when something happens, you will be powerless to fight back.
Women should not give up their own promotion even in marriage, you can not work, but you must at least have the ability to work. Don't turn yourself into that yellow-faced woman who only surrounds the kitchen stove, and don't give up communication and communication with the outside world.
Even if you are a married woman, you are also an independent person, do not give up on improving yourself, and marriage should not be a chain that restricts your ability.
If the marriage doesn't make you better, then you should change it.
Marriage should be the mutual achievement of two people, not the sacrifice of one party, so managing these three things in marriage is the most far-sighted approach.