It's really not superstition! Who holds the child when it is born is very particular, many people do not understand, after reading it, I understand!
The birth of a child is like life is full of hope for a family again, and it will also re-stimulate the vitality of a family, so the arrival of a new life is very happy for everyone, of course, any member of the family is also very looking forward to the birth of a child, so when the mother is giving birth, the family will wait anxiously outside the delivery room, hoping to see the child for the first time.
Generally speaking, the family members waiting anxiously outside the delivery room are nothing more than the man's parents, the woman's parents, or some brothers and sisters, and so on. So the largest number of people, nothing more than five or six people, but recently there is a news that has attracted everyone's attention, that is, a mother gives birth to a child, accompanied by nearly 30 and more than 20 family members outside the delivery room, which really scares doctors and nurses.
The mother is 25 years old this year, and she only had this child three years after she married her husband, and her husband has more relatives, and her husband's sisters are only six or seven, plus these sisters are also married, so plus her husband's sister There are a total of twelve or three people, after all, it is three years to get this child, so everyone is more concerned about a family of people who come to the delivery room and wait anxiously.
The mother herself because it is the first time to give birth, and the child is also in the spotlight, so she herself is also very nervous, he himself also hopes that there are more people to accompany him, so that everyone will also give him a little advice, he himself will be at ease, but the problem is, there are so many people waiting for the birth of the child outside, after the child is taken out, who can be the first to hold the child?
You know, after the child is born, the first person to hold him is very important, which is not a superstitious statement, but there are many reasons.
1. People who are sick with a cold cannot hold their children
Newborn children often have poor resistance, so there must be a healthy person to hold him, if it is already sick with a cold, it is impossible to be the first to hold the child, or even can not approach the child without wearing a mask, because it is easy to bring viruses or germs to the child, causing the child to get sick.
2. People with taste
What does this taste mean? For example, the smell of second-hand smoke, the smell of hair dyes, and the smell of heavier perfume, I believe that the harm of this does not need to be said, everyone also understands, so it is not recommended that people who smoke often, or people who have sprayed perfume to approach children, these chemical components are a harm to children.
3. People who are not careful should not hold children
Holding a child is a very important thing, never sloppy, so it is best to let a more careful person hold the child, so as to avoid the child will be bruised, fall or hold the posture is incorrect, resulting in injury to the child's spine and so on.
So, what kind of group of people is more suitable to hold children?
1. Experienced family members
Holding a child is not so simple as hugging, he is a technical job, especially a newborn child, if you are not careful, you may hurt him, so it is best to choose a report child, and the personality is more careful.
2. People who are emotionally stable
The birth of a child is indeed a happy thing for everyone, but emotional stability at this time is often more important, especially when people come and go, if everyone says twitter, very noisy, and also affects the rest of the child.
In general, try to choose a person with a more stable mood, a gentle personality, and then a more careful person to be the first to hold the child, so as to ensure the absolute safety of the child.