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I am Ye Feifei YFF, a non-famous emotional mentor, who writes heart-to-heart emotional texts, hoping to use warm words to bring you some spiritual comfort.
Yishu said: "People's hearts become cold day by day, leaves turn yellow day by day, stories are written slowly to the end, and love becomes unlove because there are too many disappointments." ”
Women have always taken their feelings very seriously, as long as you really cherish her, she will be dead set on you in this life.
However, if in the process of getting along, you do not cherish the woman, let her be wronged again and again, resulting in a cold heart, even if she loves you again, she will bear to let go of the pain.
Because, in her heart, you are not the most trustworthy man in this life, and she can't continue to consume.
A relationship, if you can't see hope, women will not be persistent, and eventually they will let go ruthlessly and stop loving you.
Therefore, men must love women with their hearts, and don't let her be cold, otherwise, once she denies you from the bottom of her heart, sooner or later she will break with you.
In the end, the signs that a woman is not in love are mostly "two words": silence, don't understand.
First, if you don't love, there will be no attachment to you
Once a woman is no longer in love, she will become particularly ruthless and will never have a trace of attachment to you again.
When getting along, she doesn't care about you at all, your words and deeds are air in her opinion, she has no place for you in her heart, and naturally ignores you.
Even if the woman does not leave you, in her eyes, you are no longer a man worthy of love, she will only be silent to you.
Whenever you look for her, she doesn't want to talk, and it feels superfluous to look at it more, no matter how you treat her, it can't touch her heart.
In relationships, women are like this, they are especially gentle and considerate when they love you, and once they don't love, they won't put you in their eyes at all.
She began to deliberately distance herself from you, no longer have any communication with you, and everything in the past is not worth nostalgic in her opinion.
Therefore, men must not let women feel cold, if you don't care about her, don't be responsible for her, and wait until her heart stops, she won't love you.
At one time, she regarded you as the most important person in her life, but you didn't cherish it, and she couldn't continue to consume it.
Therefore, she will not expect anything from you, and after being completely disappointed in you, she will gradually escape your sight.
In life, she begins to draw a line with you and does not want to communicate and contact with you too much, which is how she slowly puts you down.
A woman, from loving you to being silent, must have experienced a lot of sadness and grievances, and when she has no attachment to you, the relationship will come to an end.
Second, getting used to silence means that she is completely dead
We know that if a woman really loves you, she must have endless words in front of you, and she wants to be with you all the time.
Whether it is a trivial part of life or an emotional communication, she will actively share it with you.
However, when you fail a woman's infatuation, she feels that she cannot walk into the future with you, and will quickly deny you.
Therefore, she no longer wants to communicate with you, does not bother to tell you anything, and is used to being silent in front of you, which is a manifestation of her dead heart for you.
In a relationship, the most feared thing is not arguing, but silence, and when a woman refuses to communicate with you, it means that she is not in love.
Friend Miss Xu is a beautiful girl, when she and her boyfriend first fell in love, she liked to talk the most, no matter what, she had to share it with her boyfriend.
Miss Xu loves to laugh and talk, almost becoming a "pistachio" around her boyfriend, and her feelings are very harmonious.
However, after the two fell in love for a year, the boyfriend met his ex-girlfriend and had frequent contacts, and soon snubbed Miss Xu.
At first, Miss Xu thought that her boyfriend was busy, but later found that he and his ex-girlfriend were ambiguous, and she instantly felt cold.
Since then, Miss Xu has stopped sharing the trivialities of life and emotions with her boyfriend, nor laughing, and has become silent.
When her boyfriend realized the change in Miss Xu, he wanted to save her heart, but Miss Xu was completely cold, and the relationship quickly collapsed, and her boyfriend regretted it.
Therefore, if a man does not cherish the woman who loves you, fails her infatuation, makes her cold and disappointed again and again, and when she is silent and completely dead, she will say goodbye to you and will not come back.
Third, be indifferent to you and refuse intimate contact
It has been said that "the indifference of speech is often the most hurtful." ”
Indeed, in the relationship, if a woman is not in love, she will completely deny you, and it is impossible to bet her life's happiness on you.
At this time, she will be particularly indifferent to you, mainly manifested as cold speech, physical rejection of you, and refusal to have any intimate contact with you.
A woman begins to use her body to repel you closer, this is a sign that she does not love you, if you do not take care of her in time and save her heart, the relationship will definitely not go on.
Many men get along with women, do not know how to care and love women, do not respect and accommodate, make her heart cold again and again, which will make her heartbroken.
When she can't see hope for the future, she will definitely put it down in pain and won't love you anymore.
It can be seen that a woman really does not love, she will not have your place in her heart, whether you change or not, she does not care.
Therefore, even if she is with you temporarily, she will not let you close, but whenever you come over, she will be very defensive.
For physical contact, she does not have extravagant expectations at all, whether it is holding hands, hugging, kissing, she has no expectations.
Whether in love or marriage, when a woman physically rejects you, it means that she really doesn't love you anymore.
Once, you did not cherish her, let her be hurt physically and mentally, now, she will not consume it, sooner or later she will leave desperately.
Ye Feifei YFF emotional message:
Le Clézio said: "This is often the case in the world, and when it is painful, a few years later, it is just a memory. ”
I think that women treat feelings the same, no matter how much she loves you, as long as she doesn't get your pity, once she puts it down, she won't have any intersection with you in the future.
She will love herself well, actively improve herself, to know a better man than you, when she meets the real right person, looking back at the past relationship, there will be no waves in her heart.
To sum up, the signs of a woman's lack of love are mostly so silent:
If you don't love, there will be no attachment to you; Accustomed to silence, it means that she is completely dead; Be indifferent to you and refuse intimate contact.
Men should understand that when a woman loves you, she will take the initiative to give tenderness, the desire to share is very strong, once she is not in love, her tenderness will disappear.
When a woman has saved enough disappointment and is extremely cold, she will not consume it, and will eventually wave goodbye to you, and will no longer linger in this life.
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Author: Ye Feifei YFF, focusing on the creation and sharing of emotions, using emotions to communicate your and my hearts, I hope you and I meet and know each other here, please pay attention to me if you like it.