Author: Zi Mo
In the warm winter sun, enjoy the bright time, the sunlight shines through the window, gently falls on the fingertips, and also leaves the dappled traces of the season on the opposite wall, and the light and shadow are intertwined, which is an impression of a relaxed life.
In ordinary days, the happiness that you can have is to be able to see the sunrise and sunset every day, treat life with a simple and peaceful mentality, find a quiet in the gap of the years, in the vicissitudes and vicissitudes, let yourself be quiet and relaxed, and calm your mood.
Time is like water, flowing through the ordinary things around us, perhaps, we all feel that this is nothing, in fact, the time we are accustomed to is the most precious.
The beauty of life, perhaps like this, starts from every morning, from the light of the morning sun, in the warmth of every day, looking forward to meeting beauty, meeting the most true self, meeting people you like, being at ease with every moment of joy, enjoying the bits and pieces of life, simple and happy, real and simple life.
Therefore, it is happiness to warm the heart, let life have temperature, let life have poetry, let yourself smile to face reality, and walk slowly towards the future.
Put a peace in the bottom of your heart, affection for life and seasons, let all the noise and complexity in life, go away with the wind, let the troubles of life, with the joy and peace of mind, slowly disappear, so that it is beautiful.
Perhaps, we will say: life is like a dream, everything is illusory.
But not quite, life is like a dream but not a dream, life is impermanent but also ordinary, only by letting yourself live truthfully, can you feel the existence of beauty in life.
Some people say: "Time is like water, life is like tea." "Time is like water, we slow cook time, in the gentle and gentle, put a few Qinghuan, it will be fragrant, and when we taste slowly, there is also a faint bitterness.
Time comes and goes, we are grateful, walk along the way, encounter various scenery on the road of life, also experience wind and rain, but also have beauty, endure pain, and harvest full happiness.
Therefore, life is a journey, not everyone has the same feelings, but walking on different roads, looking at different scenery, and having different happiness and beauty.
Even so, Xiangmei's heart is the same, for the fate of life, the same path, all point to the harmony of life, life is quiet.
Mr. Ji Xianlin once said: "To live in the world, a person must deal with three relationships: first, the relationship between man and nature; second, the relationship between people; Third, the relationship between the contradiction and balance of thoughts and feelings in the individual's heart. ”
Man and nature live in harmony, people treat each other with sincerity, please themselves, let the heart be calm, be at ease, and keep the mind balanced with less desire, so that life can be safe and sound.
If you can adapt to the environment, grasp the rhythm of life, do what you like to do, live a poetic life, find a quiet world in nature during the happy time, love life, love everything around you, please yourself, and live a simple life, you will also live up to this life.
Sometimes, in life, there will be things that disappoint us, not that you are good to others, others will definitely be good to you, and not all your efforts will be rewarded.
Romain Rolland said: "There is only one kind of heroism in the world, that is, to love life after recognizing the truth of life!" ”
However, even so, life is impermanent, life is bitter, life is not experienced, it will not mature, it will not make itself indifferent, and it will not have happiness and wisdom in life.
In the face of the impermanence of life and the unpredictability of the world, we have good intentions, when we see the truth of life, we still love, when we see the flowers falling, we know how to cherish and compassion, when thousands of sails have passed, we know that letting the past follow the wind, ordinary and ordinary is the most long-lasting beauty.
Cao Youfang said: "To grow is to accept whatever happens in life. State. Even if it is unfortunate and bad, face it, solve it, and minimize the damage. The so-called growth, the so-called intelligence, the so-called maturity, are nothing more than that. ”
In interpersonal relationships, it is necessary to have its own mature landscape, when you see a person's hypocrisy, you don't have to expose it, leave some face for the other party, and leave a little leeway for yourself.
If you hate a person, stay away, don't have to turn your face, don't need to solve it with hatred, and be able to be okay with each other and not disturb each other, which is the best ending.
In life, there are always some people and things that you are not used to, face them indifferently, let go, understand them, and laugh at them if they can't understand, so that they can be happy, happy and beautiful, and they will come as promised.
Remember Sanmao said: "Life is a kind of slow progress like summer water, we should not be anxious, when we are thirty years old, we should not be anxious about things at the age of fifty, when we are born, we do not have to expect the coming of death." It all comes. I want you to quietly learn the emotion of waiting for the time to ripen, and I want you to keep this effort and perseverance outside of waiting. ”
People's maturity lies in hard work and persistence, but also in indifference, maturity does not lie in age, but know how to give up, learn to be harmonious, know that there is no dispute, in order to go to the poetry and distance of life.
There are two most beautiful states in life, one is pain without speaking, and the other is laughing without speaking.
Life is like that, it is a cultivation. Some bitterness is painful, not because I don't feel it, but because I know that it is the same whether to say it or not; Life is like this, it is also a practice and self-healing, some pain, not that I don't care, but know how to fade slowly, self-solving and healing.
However, many times, at the beginning of man, the nature of goodness, the simplicity and innocence of nature, will be drowned by the complexity of red dust.
As we age, desires continue to breed, and we will be blinded by our hearts, lose our hearts, and lose our happiness and beauty.
Only by experiencing life, allowing the mind to have a destination, and life to be quiet, can the mind and life return to the original state of simplicity and innocence.
A person's life can only be "never forgotten to be the original intention". If the original intention is lost, not only will life become more and more confused, but finally, perhaps, you don't know yourself, how can you talk about a beautiful life and a happy life?
Life has come all the way, the first half of life pursues, but the second half of life needs to be quiet, on the way back in life, with a quiet and indifferent, natural mentality, to care for the peace and health we want.
Whether it is the scenery encountered on the road of life, whether it is beautiful, or in the parting station, singing a bleak song.
Whether it is sorrow and joy, or gathering and dispersion, life is a process of walking and cherishing, gradually understanding and gradually understanding, and life is constantly simplified.
If you know how to cherish it, everything you encounter in life is beautiful; If you know how to give up, your heart is calm, what you gain is calm, and what you lose is indifferent.
We must know how to treat ourselves kindly, love life, enjoy the most beautiful time of life, and cultivate the realm of life.
For example, when we sit in the depths of the years grazing the soul, the mountains are one way, the water is one way, in the red dust and the vicissitudes of the years, let the years be unharmed, and spend life with joy.
A person's travel, understood in experience, has in indifference.
Thus, let yourself understand that there is no unified standard for happiness and beauty in the world, and there is more than one way to be happy, have a cherishing and understanding, the original intention is still the same, live the ordinary days poetically, let the complicated life nourish life in silence, in this way, is the happiness of life we want, a beautiful life.
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