It is not a simple thing for a man to pretend to love someone deeply, pretend that it is okay for a while, and pretend to be a lifetime. When I read Cao Yu's "Thunderstorm", I felt that Zhou Puyuan's Lu Gongping was completely selfish. He bears unshirkable responsibility for Lu Gongping's tragic experience.
However, as a passer-by, I seem to understand a little. Zhou Puyuan's Lu Gongping is destined to be forgotten for a lifetime. Otherwise, he wouldn't have shown so many touching details. He always wore clothes that Lu Gongping had embroidered flowers on his shoulders. There was a photo of Lu Pingping in the room. The doors and windows in the house are often closed, because Lu Pingping was afraid of the wind when she was pregnant. He has been remembering his "deceased wife" for decades. This is not a good seller, and by no means a "hypocrite".
Rather, he was young, he had, he was loved. This is a manifestation that he cannot forget his "lover".
Ouyang Xiu wrote that "ten years of life and death are vast, and he does not measure himself." self-forgettable", this is also the pursuit of his deceased wife. Because of the deep feelings, because of the love to the unforgettable.
Lu Youzhi Tang Wan, who wrote the classic "Phoenix with a Dragon", faced with the bitter love ending of the different sides of the world, issued an ancient sigh of "a cup of sorrow, a few years of leaving the rope".
Throughout these beautiful love talks, they are all the end of a breakup. It seems to respond to the smooth song "everything that can't be eaten is fishy, everything that can't be forgotten is energetic, there is always a worry that you can't get, and you are always tired of the day and night."
The world looks forward to "having lovers who will live together for thousands of miles". People are looking forward to "gold list titles, cave candles". It is a pity that men have been popular since ancient times, and those who regard women as treasures are simply rare.
Mrs. Li, the ancient emperor Liu Chezhi, can be called a pair of beautiful people in the world. There are beautiful people in the north, peerless and independent, and they care about the city of people, and then they care about the country. The wise Mrs. Li is seriously ill and knows that "color is weak and loves to be relaxed". So he would rather die than meet the emperor. Caused Liu Che to be in a trance and love to madness.
A man cannot forget a woman, and his performance can be summarized in the following 4 points
Always can't help but contact you
Love, what a magical guy. Anyone who is addicted will be unable to extricate themselves. It is said that women are love brains, and if they fall in love with someone, they will moth to the fire and ignore it. Why not men? There are many lovers in the world, and they are also eager to move women.
Can't forget, just want to contact, even if it is a side inquiry, even if it is unintentional to get the other party's news, always as soon as I hear her name, I am anxious and blushed. I can't help but want to send a message, or simply make a phone call, I can't wait to hear the other person's voice right away and see her immediately.
This initiative is an instinct. From the heart. There is no consideration and no reason. It's just that missing it so much has made him lose his mind.
Low brow for love. Putting down his body, regardless of dignity, this man should be "worshiped under the pomegranate skirt" to this woman.
Always give you a hundred thousand surprises
Watching "My Child My Home", the burly and honest Da Gang saw Lin Jing, who was crazy with hunger, and suddenly felt that this was the woman he wanted to marry. He loved her so much that he couldn't help but send her a lot of good food. Until she proposed to marry him, even if he knew that the other party's purpose of marriage was only to escape the original family and go to Shenzhen. He still had a wedding with her and bought her a ticket for the next day.
On his wedding night, he didn't touch her, and he didn't want the love he longed for to turn into a deal.
He could stand the loneliness, newly married on his honeymoon, and guarded the empty room. A year later, he went to Shenzhen to look for her, and her high cold made him break down to cry. Every time he parted and turned his back, he cried bitterly, just to love her. He did his filial piety for her parents, and he did it without reservation.
He always surprised her too much, a digital camera that was enough to be a luxury at the time, and he overwhelmed her. However, she ended up "red apricot out of the wall".
Love is like this, I can't tell how much magnetic force there is, it just makes you feel that for her, even if you are very heartbroken, it is to please her.
Fall in love with you and he will become "soft-hearted"
There is a song called "The Heart Is Too Soft". This shows the appearance of a man falling in love with a woman to the fullest. When a man falls in love with you, he will cry alone until dawn. Fall in love with her without complaint or regret, but not be as strong as you imagine. When a man falls in love with a woman, he will carry all the problems he encounters.
It's easy to fall in love, it's too hard to get along. Once a man and woman in love fail to get along, he will be infatuated with the man who loves you. Yes, a man who falls in love with you will be wholehearted. Even though you can't give him a full score, he still makes "sacrifices" to you at all costs.
He will push himself to be better in order to get your approval
Love is a youth hormone and a motivation to inspire.
There was a boy who liked a girl, his family was poor, he was stupid, he didn't get good grades, and he refused to improve. But the girl is a proper student. The boy met her and was fascinated by her at once. Vowed to fight back, to be worthy of her, and to be ready to grow up and marry her.
The girl is like a banner, let him run wildly all the way, finally, he was admitted to a first-class school, he became famous, he held flowers, and his heart was full of flowers to confess to the beloved girl the love buried in his heart for more than ten years.
Of course, the girl understands and pays attention, but the smart girl always hangs the boy, and she adopts a roundabout love tactic, and the boy succeeds, and the girl is indispensable.
The boy said, you are the goddess of Venus in my heart, and with you, I feel that the thorns and thorns are full of strength. The girl said, you pursue all the way to climb, so handsome.
Good love is a baptism. It can transform you. Let you hang all the way to life.
Loving someone, that feels amazing. To love someone, the energy that comes from nowhere, is always full of interest and passion. Loving someone, walking and re-walking lovesickness, dotted and speckled memories, always make people cry. Love someone, you can't hide, you can't hide. Truly loving someone, your performance, can't help it. It's all self-defeating.