In recent years, with the better and better development of cities and more and more job opportunities, many rural young people will choose to go to the cities to work. Generally speaking, as long as they are willing to endure hardships, even rural people without academic qualifications can gain a foothold in the city, and sometimes even more likely to get ahead than ordinary college students.
Although the state has a lot of subsidies for farming, due to the changes of the times, few rural people now cultivate land. But the problem is that there are limited jobs in cities, and if all rural people move to cities, it will inevitably lead to further deterioration of the employment situation. This is the case now, many ordinary college students cannot find good jobs and have to choose to enter graduate school or join the editor.
It is precisely for this reason that allowing some rural migrant workers to return to their hometowns can fundamentally solve the employment problem. Moreover, the long-term abandonment of rural land is not a good thing, and after urbanization construction reaches the set goal, the state will also shift its focus to rural construction, hoping to let more rural people return to their hometowns to work. In this way, the phenomenon of "pseudo-couples" in rural areas will gradually disappear.
1. The phenomenon of "pseudo-couples" in rural areas
In the past 20 years, many rural people have moved to the city to work, but because there are elderly children at home, it is impossible for the husband and wife to go out. In most cases, it is the husband who goes out to work, and the wife stays at home to take care of the elderly and children. When we go to the countryside, we can often see the hostess busy before and after, and rarely see the figure of the male host.
In fact, taking care of the elderly and children, the physical hard work is secondary, mainly because you can't see your husband for a long time, and it is easy to have a sense of emptiness and loss in your heart. Over time, the relationship between husband and wife will gradually weaken, and conflicts will be more likely to occur. Generally, husbands only return home during the Spring Festival and return to work in the city less than a few days after being reunited with their families.
Coupled with the increasing flow of people during the Spring Festival, if you can't buy a ticket, you may have to stay in a foreign country for the New Year. Although the two are married and have children, they do not see each other several times a year, and people also call this phenomenon "pseudo-couple".
2. The phenomenon of urban "pseudo-couples"
In fact, this phenomenon is not only found in rural areas, but also in many urban couples. As the cost of living gets higher and higher, if you want to get better conditions, you have to devote more time to work and simply do not have time to deal with personal emotional issues.
In addition, many people get married for the sake of marriage, and after starting a family, they are busy with work and neglect to take care of their families. Generally speaking, urban couples are when the man works outside the home, and the woman stays at home as a full-time wife, except for seeing each other in the morning and evening, and is in a state of "separation between the two places" at other times.
For husband and wife, the most important thing is not to make money, but to get along together and solve problems together. But in the face of real pressure, few couples can do this, and if the two live in different cities, the possibility of conflict will be higher.
We should all know that the divorce rate is getting higher and higher, which is also related to the increasing prevalence of this "pseudo-couple" phenomenon. Therefore, the problem of rural couples has gradually spread to urban families, which further shows that the problem of population concentration brought about by urbanization construction has overwhelmed people and needs to be solved as soon as possible.
3. The root cause of the increasing divorce rate
With the increasing development of the Internet, even two people in different places can communicate by video, which is much less than in the past. But we all know that looking at each other in mobile phone videos and looking at each other in real life are two completely different feelings.
The two people live in different places, mainly for life, and if there is no man to work outside, life will not go on. Without a hostess at home to deal with the chores of life, the whole family may experience more trouble. For this reason, husband and wife must help and support each other in order to ensure the integrity and stability of the family.
In this case, the importance of communication is highlighted, many men are introverted, unwilling to take the initiative to confide their ideas, and do not have enough time and energy to open up with their wives. Many women are more emotional, and when they encounter unhappy things, they will think badly and are not willing to communicate well with their husbands.
As long as couples now quarrel, they will basically mention divorce, which is completely different from the past. Nowadays, "pseudo-couples" have become a very serious social problem, if it continues to develop, it will only lead to more and more divorced couples, and will also have a negative impact on the younger generation.
Experts often say that young people do not like to get married and do not want to have children, and they simply have no sense of responsibility and responsibility. But looking at today's social reality, the too heavy pressure of life has made young people overwhelmed, they have difficulty supporting themselves, how can they bear the responsibilities of the family?
epilogue
In general, if you want to reduce the phenomenon of "pseudo-couples", it is still up to the state to change the situation of overpopulation in cities, appropriately reduce employment pressure, and at the same time reduce prices and housing prices, so that ordinary people can feel the warmth and happiness of home, and naturally some people will be willing to get married and have children.