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Recently, I saw a girl on a social software sharing the story of how she changed from a good student to her most hated "adopted daughter", and my heart hurt for a long time after reading it:
"My parents are both from the countryside, and I live on a pitifully small monthly basis, less than half of my roommate's. But I am so strong by nature that I don't want to be worse than others. ”
Once people feel weak, when describing the whole thing, they will begin to defend themselves as soon as possible.
"He likes me, I want to get tangled"
There is also a netizen who left a direct message:
I am a female college student in the acting department, and after attending a dinner today, I talked to a middle-aged man. He has a family. But he said that he wanted to see me every day, and if I wanted to, he could rent me a house in the city center, and he would pay me a considerable pocket money, in fact, it was a package! I'm a little hesitant, don't spray me, I just want to ask what you think?
What else can you think in this situation? Look at the individual! People have a house and a room, throw this olive branch, you also want to pick, can't pick it, once you choose the wrong one, you may become a rat crossing the street.
"You open the room first, I'll come after class"
In her junior year, a girl ran to find a part-time job, worked hard and only got 80 yuan a day, and spent a second that night and had to post it backwards. Looking at the same companion and coquettish with her parents, one luxury item will arrive, she envies, she also wants.
In fact, she can understand her parents' difficulties. However, it is precisely because of this understanding and the pursuit of high consumption that she got carried away her mind and chose to "overtake on a corner", which comes at a price.
When the eldest brother found her, her feelings were complicated and indescribable, but for the objective number of 3333, she still accepted his request.
The girl said, "You go to the room first, and I'll come after class."
In this way, she got what she wanted, but also lost what she loved, and her boyfriend of 3 years finally knew and chose to break up.
"I earned a month's living expenses in 2 hours, but now I regret it"
"When I have money, I can buy what I want to buy, without thinking about it, without feeling distressed, and no longer having to go on a diet and shrink my clothes to save money."
I can get a month's living expenses after going out for 2 hours, and I am happy.
Will it really be so down-to-earth? The one who got a month's living expenses in 2 hours finally contracted a venereal disease, and was also stabbed by her daughter-in-law, ripped off the fig leaf, and her studies were also affected.
In real life, there is no wasted effort, let alone a chance success, do not rush, let alone step on the red line, only by relying on your own efforts, can you be at ease; Only by working your own can you smile brightly.
01
"After 4 years of captivity, I have committed suicide 7 times"
I once saw a news report like this:
Xiaoqian was the president of the street dance club in college, with a beautiful face and a tall figure, and her popularity among boys has always been very high.
It wasn't until her senior year that she was interning at a company in Hangzhou that Xiaoqian met her boss, a man who changed the trajectory of her life.
He is in his thirties, humorous, steady, and exudes the charm of a mature man in every word and deed.
She also took special care of Xiaoqian, not only personally guiding her at work, but also bringing her with her every time she entertained, saying that she could see the world more, and often sent her some gifts that were not expensive, but very intentional.
Under this round of emotional offensive, Xiaoqian finally fell and had a relationship on the night of her birthday.
Since then, the two have maintained an ambiguous relationship, and he has been more generous, and he has not been stingy with brand-name cosmetics.
And Xiaoqian has also become a happy little girl who is still immersed in the dream of love although she is raised.
But this dream was shattered when she accidentally flipped to his mobile phone.
Xiao Qian found a video of herself and his intimate in a group chat on his mobile phone, and the group was full of some unbearable foul words:
"Okay, you got another one, is it cool?" "Look at this woman's expression, it's too yindang, no, I'm going to unload the fire." "Today's female college students are too easily blinded, and it is difficult not to be played."
Xiao Qian, who couldn't believe her eyes, took her mobile phone to question him.
And at this time, the man finally revealed his true face:
"Do you really think I'll like you, don't dream, I just want to taste what a female college student is like, I don't want to be made fun of by those friends."
Sometimes what you think of as love is just a trap that has been designed long ago.
After being exposed, instead of apologizing, he used these intimate videos to threaten Xiaoqian to accompany his clients.
"If you don't go, I'll send these photos and videos to your parents and classmates, and weigh them yourself!"
Xiaoqian, who was forced to helpless, could only compromise under this shameless coercion. Since then, her life has fallen into an endless dark abyss.
For the next 4 years, he was completely reduced to the plaything of those old men, and she had to be there whenever and wherever they needed them.
During this period, Xiaoqian, who could not bear the humiliation, tried to swallow sleeping pills to commit suicide 7 times, but they were all rescued.
In the words of a man: you still have use value, you can't die now.
And Xiaoqian can only suffer on this nightmare day until they find a new love, and then throw her away like garbage.
Sometimes, you think God will take care of you, but you don't know that this is just the beginning of tricking you.
Girls, sober up, there is no love for no reason, and there is no good for no reason.
Love at first sight, mostly only exists in fairy tales.
At the end of the day, you may be sold and still counting money for others.
02
"It is possible to be trafficked, to have an abortion, to be infected with diseases"
There are some "godfathers" who, in order to better control, directly involve girls in drug-related cases.
In 2018, an Australian sugar daddy helped sugar daddy escort drug smuggling, and 93 kilograms of cocaine in the suitcase could be worth more than $21 million.
Australian police say it is the largest drug smuggling case solved in recent years.
And what about the girl's final ending? He was sentenced to 8 years in prison.
And all kinds of abduction, human traffickers... Because you don't know whether the other party is a human or a ghost, the weak party can easily fall into the trap set by the other party.
Even without these risks, the most realistic problem is the handling of "sexual relations."
What if the other person doesn't want to wear a condom? What if I am pregnant? If the other person has AIDS or even other diseases, how to deal with it???
Everything that is gained has a price.
When you focus on the great material temptation in front of you, have you ever thought about the risks and costs behind it?
And any of the consequences I mentioned above are something we can't afford for the rest of our lives.
03
"I had an abortion three times and I can no longer have children"
Many girls think that raising a package is a cost-effective deal that uses the minimum cost to obtain the maximum benefit.
But in fact, this is the most loss-making transaction in the world.
My class leader in college, Bingbing, can be said to have ruined his life by being raised.
When she first graduated, she worked as a clerk in a company in Beijing, with a salary of only 2,000 yuan, and her life was very poor.
Coupled with the inexperience of the newcomer and the lack of improvement in her work, the pressure on both sides made her feel inferior and hopeless for a while.
What she felt during that time, she said: "At that time, all I thought about was how to make more money, as long as I can have money, no longer live this kind of poor life, let me do anything." ”
God seemed to hear the cry of her heart and gave her a chance.
But it was an opportunity that she would regret for the rest of her life.
At that time, the owner of another investment company came to talk about cooperation, and she was in charge of reception.
When she was alone, the boss took a fancy to her appearance and figure, so he bluntly said that he wanted to take care of her and asked her if she agreed or not.
When Bing Bing first heard the word Bao Yang, she trembled with anger, wanted to splash the hot tea in her hand directly on her face, and then slammed the door.
But when she heard the conditions, she hesitated, her heart moved, and her heart began to wander between self-esteem and reality.
Finally, her pride and self-esteem were completely shattered in the face of money, and she agreed.
After that, Bingbing often had trysts with him, as for what to do, I believe I don't need to repeat it.
And the person who raised Bingbing was never willing to wear a condom when she did it with her, so Bingbing accidentally became pregnant three times and had an abortion three times.
By the last time, doctors told her that the walls of her uterus were too thin to have children again in her life.
At that moment, Bingbing finally regretted it.
She regretted exchanging her right to be a mother for luxuries that seemed gorgeous, but meaningless.
Zweig wrote in " The Severed Head Queen " : " She was too young at the time to know all the gifts of fate , and had already secretly marked the price. " ”
Like Bingbing, she used her body as a bargaining chip, thinking that there was no price, all she had to pay was to endure the nausea of being with an old man.
However, God is fair, if you want to take something, you have to pay the corresponding price, and there is never such a thing as unearned gain.
What you gain, you lose, from ancient times to the present, without exception.
04
"No money, I can only beg him for forgiveness like a dog"
Some people say that girls like the above are too stupid.
They only know to squander the money they raise, but they don't know to use it to do something else.
Maximizing the benefits and finally successfully exiting should be the wisest thing to do.
In this light, they seem to have a little truth in what they say, and it seems that package farming can be a very low-cost investment opportunity.
But this kind of words, like the prodigal son turning back and the prostitute from the good, are mostly wishful thinking of people.
Xiao Han is a girl from a rural village in Jiangxi, and her life has been very difficult since she was a child.
So she worked hard to change the status quo of poverty so that she and her parents could live a good life.
The hard work paid off, and she was eventually admitted to a university in Shanghai, taking the first steps in a new life.
However, I believe everyone has heard about how high the consumption level in Shanghai is. Even if she works and spares, her life in college is very difficult to maintain.
Just when she was in her junior year and she really couldn't stick to it, a middle-aged man took a fancy to her and proposed the conditions for her upkeeping.
Although years of education and morality kept telling her that she would never agree to this, in the end, she succumbed to the cruelty of reality and agreed to the man's request.
This package is two years.
In those two years, she lived a worry-free life, driving luxury cars, living in villas, and there was never a shortage of luxury goods.
But I have to say that she is still self-motivated, although she lives luxuriously, but her work has not been pulled down, and she is also conscientious.
Two years later, the boss was tired of playing with Xiao Han, so he mercilessly let her go.
Although he was unwilling, Xiao Han could only choose to leave after making a big fuss in the mall once.
After all, they didn't have a contract for this relationship.
After leaving, Xiaohan found a new job, and she was confident that she could start a new life.
But in the end, she found that she had long been unable to adapt to her current life.
After getting rid of the bag, there are no luxury cars, no villas, no luxuries that can be used to show off in daily life, and the work is harder than before.
Only then did she realize that she had long been accustomed to the kind of days when she could buy whatever she wanted, and she could no longer go back in time.
In the end, she couldn't stand such a difficult day, so she went to the man again and begged him for forgiveness like a dog.
For her, people are already dirty anyway, and it's not a big deal to break the jar again.
It's just a pity that she hopes to be able to go back, but the man won't, and there are already younger and more beautiful girls by her side.
Desire is like a drug, just try it once, even if you quit, but only need an introduction, it will pull you back into the abyss.
Cha Gaujidi once said: Once man becomes a slave to desire, he can never be freed.
In the package trade, your desires are infinitely satisfied, but at the same time your will is slowly eroded.
Eventually, you become a canary, and even if you open the cage door, you will eventually choose to fly back