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It is difficult for a person to be persuaded, and no one can persecute him unless his heart wants to change.
When I was young, I also heard so-called life experiences and old sayings, which I probably didn't understand at the time, so I didn't want to believe them.
Now that I have grown up, the road I have traveled has verified little by little how real and relevant those life experiences I used to be.
Anyone who is trying to get better will not miss these life lessons, after all, life is short, and we all want to achieve our goals early:
Freedom of wealth + freedom of spirit.
Knowing those truths early and practicing them seriously will make you less detours, suffer less, and live the life you want to be your own sooner.
01. Put down your posture and work a little harder than others
I don't know why, when effort became a shameful thing.
Maybe you put in more effort than others, and the end result is the same, or even inferior to others, and you will feel that you are stupid and feel worthless.
But how can it be exactly the same, the confidence you feel and the determination to challenge the fulfillment in this process are unique in the world, what matters is what you feel in your heart.
Be bold and work hard for what you love in your heart, because then your whole person will shine.
02. It is your duty to help others, not to help
Don't take other people's kindness to you for granted, whether it's for friends or partners, people will leave when they have saved enough and are disappointed.
Especially in the era of material development, there are many ways to accompany and entertain, and one person can live well without another person, and even because of his own alone, it is getting better and better.
Please go out of your way to be grateful to those who helped you and to be understanding for those who did not.
03. Do one thing to prepare in advance
Whether it's study, work, or your own career, if you are well prepared to go again, you are already ahead of 95% of people.
Most people delay until the last day, and when they are upset and have to go to work, preparing ahead will bring you a relaxed and confident and happy mood.
In such a situation, as long as you stick to it for a long time, you will definitely achieve something.
04. Health is the foundation of everything, and everything has to give way to health
Health is the foundation of everything, we must pay attention to it, don't wait until you enter the intensive ward, and regret it when time is running out, the cost is really too high.
Incorporate the belief in staying healthy into your daily life, and before you know it, you can save a lot of money for healing and use it to do what you love.
05. Don't leave bad temper to your parents
People are really strange and always leave the worst temper for those closest to them.
I am an acute child, and I used to like to work against my parents or sulk. But after every argument, there is not a single time that is not regretted.
You know, tantrums are tools used to impose your own views on others.
But in this world, there is no single standard of right and wrong, everyone has their own uniqueness, to understand tolerance, do not change.
06. Do things silently, and don't publicize them until you don't succeed
Love a quote:
People who are fragile in their hearts will open their teeth and dance their claws. Truly powerful people are gentle and firm.
Do what you are doing, don't go around preaching your achievements, and be happy as if you are the only protagonist of the world. No one will care about you all the time, only when you are so good that others can't catch up, they will follow you and admire you.
07. Cook more for yourself and take out less
Try to do three meals by yourself, buy your own vegetables, cook your own meals, don't neglect each meal, and do your best to enjoy the process of cooking.
Slowly, you will also fall in love with this life full of fireworks, and you will have a self-sufficient warmth in your heart.
08. Praise and encourage those around you
When you learn to stop thinking about changing others, but to understand them and encourage them.
First say what they want to hear, first do some warm little things for them, and what you say will be listened to carefully and have weight.
Learn to be a warm person, tolerant of everything in this world, and grateful for what you have.
09. Do things for at least a year
As long as you persevere for a long time, many difficulties will be solved, but many people can't wait for that moment.
Either start and don't give up, or don't start, other options are more wasteful of time and energy.
10. Be financially independent at all times and have savings
At any time, don't give up what you have left. Instead of waiting for someone to give you an umbrella, have one yourself.
Try not to depend on anyone financially, and that is the beginning of your easy and simple life.
11. Keep reading, even if it's just one page a day
No matter what book you read, it's useful, and it's okay to start with a simple novel.
But you must have your own thinking, your own opinion, even if it is very outrageous.
You always have to remember:
There is never absolute right or wrong in this world.
Recommended reading: "A Brief History of Mankind" and other trilogies
After reading these three books, you will feel that you have never lived in this world so freely and easily, the world is in your eyes, and you begin to have curiosity and exploration interest in some things.
12. Exercise every day and feel the changes in your body
Try to do a little exercise every day, and slowly standardize the movements to focus on feeling the changes in your body.
Over time, your inexplicable fear of exercise will be healed.
13. Making results is more important than blind effort
When you were a child, as long as you sat there and wrote homework, someone would praise your efforts, but when you grow up, your efforts will only be mentioned and recognized if adults make results.
Everyone works hard, but the results are strange, and the results are better than anything else.
14. Poverty alleviation is more important than single-handedness at any time
When you are young, you can fantasize about marrying a rich man, or marrying a rich woman to reach the pinnacle of life; But this probability is too low, it is better to rely on yourself to be real and secure and dignified.
At no time should we rest on the illusion of being saved, it is more important to get rid of poverty than to get rid of the list.
Learning to swap idol dramas for documentaries, memoirs, celebrity interviews is the beginning of your embrace of reality.
15. Be sure to do what you love, it's not for nothing at the moment
Be sure to do what you love, only hoping that the job that gets paid will exhaust all your enthusiasm for life, and over time, people will become numb and walking dead.
Only by doing what you like, your efforts will be willing, your efforts will be rushed, and your enthusiasm will always stay.
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