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Mothers all over the world are the same, and they must take their children with them wherever they go. Especially at night, what if the child is hungry, wakes up in fright, and wakes up in the middle of the night? You have to sleep together to be at ease. But how do you solve the "sexual happiness" between yourself and your partner?
Straight away from "snapping"
With the mother by the side, the baby's sense of security is guaranteed, but have you considered the inner feelings and needs of yourself and your partner? Some people choose not to snap and do ascetic hatred, and there are really many such cases
- Drive your husband to the sofa to sleep. Stay away from snapping ever since
- The baby is 7 months old and basically does not snap
For mothers who have little or no willingness to snap, the advice is: whether you are too tired with children or recovering after childbirth, please pay attention to your inner feelings and needs and those of your partner.
In love, snapping is not flattery, nor rights and obligations, but the language of love. Ask your lover or family to share the pressure of parenting, and leave yourself and your lover a little time and space to let love grow.
The baby sleeps on his side, "snapping" as usual
Many parents will choose this method, which can be said to be a battle of wits and a lot of fun, and this wit has also captured a lot of likes.
- The child is now two years old. It is less likely to snap within one year of age. After the age of one, he would often play games, one of which was in which an adult knelt on the bed and let him ride on his back as a horse. Later, we can usually play a horseback riding game with the cover of the quilt to snap, and the child is so immersed in the game that he is very happy, completely unaware of the wrongness.
- When the baby was nine months old, I once had a conversation with my husband, and when I was excited, the baby woke up, stared at us for a long time, and suddenly saw Neinei, crawled over and sucked, but was ruthlessly pushed away by my husband, crying miserably hahaha
But I believe that everyone is like me, it is the brain that makes up the miserable picture of the baby crying, and I can't help but want to laugh and like.
In fact, in front of the baby, don't think that the baby doesn't understand anything, the baby's memory and cognition are beyond your imagination. In this way, there may be a bias in the baby's gender perception in the future, so it is recommended that parents do not take this way to satisfy their desires.
If you want to "snap", you can do so
Then many people asked: what good suggestions can be given to us, not only to meet the internal needs of their partners, but also not to want the baby's gender cognition bias in the future. Regarding this problem, in fact, the message has given us a lot of good methods, you can learn from these methods:
- When the baby sleeps and goes to another room, the home is equipped with monitoring, and the monitoring is turned on when going to the other room, so that we can respond to the child in time when he has a situation
- Directly next to the room, the baby sleeps fragrantly, and the adults are not embarrassed!
- From pregnancy to the child's more than one year old, I didn't want to snap, and my husband was depressed to death. Finally recovered the feeling, the child was particularly fond of milk at night when she was not weaned, and she always wanted to breastfeed, and when she finished eating and fell asleep, the two secretly just started the war The child cried, and the feeling immediately ran... Later, I thought of a way, set a night to snap during the day, go to another home at night, and the child lives with grandma at night, so that it is more arbitrary. Snapping next to the child really has a shadow ... My husband said that he didn't dare to move so much, I didn't dare to scream, I panicked... And you have to take a standing position, run to the balcony there, it's fine in summer, it's called cold in winter...
- We tried snapping directly on the floor, or going straight to another room. Want to snap, not afraid to find a place
Go to the study, go to the living room, turn on the monitoring to go to another room, hand the baby over to other family members, pay the baby out... are all good solutions, both parents can learn from.
Parents should not only have the blood of and urine, but also have the little fun of fighting wits and courage. Whether you are a wife, husband or children, the most important relationship in all our relationships is with yourself, so love yourself to better love your family.
Countless people asked, "How can I be a good mom and a good dad?" "
In fact, loving couples are the best parents.