Jiangsu Wuxi TV has a host who once hosted "60 Minutes Tonight", whose name is Wei Xiao.
Her name is full of joy, but it gives her parents and new husband too many tears and regrets.
Celebrate the birthday on the 15th, hold hands on the 16th to receive the certificate, and prepare for the banquet.
He died on the spot in a car accident on the 17th, and the scheduled wedding became his own funeral.
This is what happened 3 days before the 25-year-old Wei Xiao died.
I really answered the saying "tomorrow or the unexpected don't know which one will come first".
Now 13 years after Wei Xiao's death, her elderly parents are being taken care of by her husband.
Her husband, who received her license 13 years ago, still remembers her...
Young and uninformed
Born in Wuhu, Anhui Province in 1983, Wei Xiao, as the only daughter in the family, has been cared for and loved by the whole family since she was a child.
"Xiaoxiao loved to watch the news when she was a child, and one day she told me that when she grew up, she wanted to be like an aunt on TV, sitting in front of the stage and talking, powerful and beautiful. I said you should study hard and become a TV host in the future. ”
The mother finds it interesting and the child remembers it.
Wei Xiao really studied harder after that, and even wrote "being a host" in large characters and pasted it in front of his desk.
At the end of her primary school career, the little girl advanced to the local No. 1 junior high school with excellent grades.
While learning the textbook knowledge, practice Mandarin pronunciation with the tape recorder.
The Wei family father saw his daughter working so hard, so he signed up for a language class and an eloquence training class for him.
With a lively personality and a flexible mind and quick response, Wei Xiao quickly won the "first place in debate" and "first in speech" in the eloquence class.
She then made frequent appearances at campus events.
Three years passed in a flash, and Wei Xiao was unsurprisingly promoted to a key high school.
With the support of my parents, I worked tirelessly to make the School of Communication a goal.
Unexpectedly, in her busy daily life, the little girl still turned around and found a "follower".
"When Qi Ji went to school, his grades were better than Xiaoxiao, and in today's words, he was a top student. At first, I always heard her at home say that she would surpass Qi Ji in this exam, and then they were admitted to a university, and I learned that this girl was in love..."
Wei Xiao is the announcer of the school radio station, and Qi Ji, as the class representative, regularly submits papers to the radio station.
For good and beautiful people, people will always subconsciously pay two more points of attention.
After meeting a few times, Wei Xiao began to pay attention to the polite and sunny Qi Ji.
And his own words spread through the corners of the campus through a sweet voice.
Qi Ji unconsciously felt a strange feeling in his heart.
For this feeling, he also began to pay attention to the announcer Wei Xiao.
The two did not communicate with each other, but would nod to each other when they met in the corridor.
Wei Xiao's smile was very sweet, so that Qi Ji couldn't help but his heart beat faster.
A strange affection rose, and he wanted to get closer a little bit.
Take the initiative to speak when submitting again, and take advantage of the gap after class to secretly stuff the snacks I bought...
The young flowers of men and women are silent and let their feelings flow.
Fortunately, they all know that learning is the most important thing at this stage, so they encourage each other to learn together.
At the end of his third year of high school, Wei Xiao was admitted to the ideal campus in his heart.
Qi Ji followed Wei Xiao and was admitted to the university that the other party wanted.
The two held hands on campus and enjoyed this wonderful time.
He also continued the road of becoming a top student, chasing his dreams and paving the way for his future life.
Still determined to become a host, Wei Xiao never misses professional courses.
Having set his direction on a college campus, Qi Ji wanted to become a journalist.
What is the campus love life of Xueba? Wei Xiao and Qi Ji lived in their studies.
They are together almost every day.
After coming out of their respective dormitories, they went to the same classroom, ate together after school, and studied together in the library in the evening.
Qi Ji wanted to do social research, and Wei Xiao carried a notebook with a schoolbag to make supplementary records.
Wei Xiao wants to participate in the school host competition, and Qi Ji accompanies his girlfriend to practice oral broadcasting, simulating the coping methods of on-site emergencies.
Unconsciously, the affection has deepened
Good love does not make people retreat, but will push the two people in love towards a better future.
The parents of the Wei family and the Qi family are very supportive of their children's love, and have long regarded these two children as their prospective daughters-in-law and sons-in-law.
During their four years at university, the two young people built up their strength in their chosen fields.
Walking out of campus with a wad of certificates and awards, they all became interns at Wuhu TV.
One learns from seniors in the office, and the other watches seniors do interviews on the news scene.
The immature two were humble and cautious at the beginning of their careers.
Give twelve points of effort and encourage each other to go through the probationary period smoothly.
The TV station staff was also quite attentive after knowing that this motivated young man and woman were a couple.
"They're lovers coming out of school, and the relationship is genuine, and we're all willing to take care of it." If it affects our feelings because of our work, in fact, we don't want to see it, and they are so good..."
A colleague from the TV station said this in a later interview.
And Wei Xiao and Qi Ji also officially knocked on the door of the TV station with their assessment results three months later.
Wei Xiao was assigned by the leadership to put down roots in the Wuhu news radio program.
Qi Ji appears on various scenes, and occasionally connects with lovers in live broadcasts.
Continuing the pattern of getting along in school.
The two who already have a deep relationship with each other are still inseparable.
During this period, they have also honed their skills at the forefront of journalism.
Fast forward to the first half of 2007, when Wei Xiao and Qi Ji were 24 years old.
At that time, Wuxi Radio and Television Group recruited hosts and announcers nationwide.
Wanting to develop himself on a larger platform, Wei Xiao was worried that he would be beaten down in this national selection.
At the critical time, Qi Ji stood up and gave encouragement.
"You have to have confidence in yourself, we are excellent in ourselves, even if we lose, it doesn't matter, we are still young and have opportunities!"
Injected with strength by her boyfriend's words, Wei Xiao pulled Qi Ji to sign up together.
"Go together, say it's not good to choose, we can still be together."
It's just that the wish is beautiful, but the reality does not "pity the fragrance and cherish the jade".
Selecting 10 people from more than 3,000 people, Qi Ji, who had been working as a reporter, was stunned, and Wei Xiao was admitted very smoothly.
This result means that the two who have not been different since the third year of high school will have to experience separation.
Wei Xiao was sullen about this for many days.
Or Qi Ji does the enlightenment work for his girlfriend.
He said that as long as Wei Xiao's job in Wuxi was stable, he would quit his job and go to Wuxi to develop.
Wei Xiao was both happy and worried about this.
I am afraid that my boyfriend will not develop well after quitting his job, and I am happy that if the other party comes over, I will not be alone.
And in the tangled emotions handed over the work of Wuhu TV.
In November of that year, Wei Xiao reluctantly went to Wuxi and began to work hard in a brand new environment.
"When I first went, Xiaoxiao would call back every three or five, and she didn't say that she missed her parents, but asked us how we were doing lately, and whether we had encountered anything interesting or embarrassing. If she doesn't say it, I know that she is homesick..."
Calling your parents can still maintain your emotions, and calling your boyfriend will let the emotions flow.
Wei Xiao would tell Qi Ji about his loneliness and helplessness, and he would also say that he really missed him.
And while talking and feeling pretentious, she changed the topic and said that she would definitely overcome loneliness and achieve self-achievement.
8 years with you for life
Work actively during the day, not afraid of hard work, organize the news after work, be organized and introspective every day.
Wei Xiao didn't talk much in the eyes of her colleagues, she was more quiet, but very serious.
Although he is a host, he will also run the scene like a reporter.
Sometimes when she gets the clue, it's after work, and she will go back to the TV station to sort it out.
If she encounters complaints from the audience, she will immediately make an appointment for the on-site interview, and then arrive as soon as possible.
With a down-to-earth attitude, excellent personal ability, continuous self-motivation.
Wei Xiao was designated as the host of "60 Minutes Tonight".
And from the on-camera reporter and host assistant who just entered the station, she sat in the position of a female anchor in a column with a high rating on the TV station.
It only took her two months.
A bright future is just around the corner, and happy girls can't help but share good news with their family and boyfriend.
She didn't know that Qi Ji, who was far away in her hometown, had quit her job and was preparing to leave for Wuxi.
In the first half of 2008, Qi Ji appeared outside the building of Wuxi TV Station without greeting.
Wei Xiao, who ended the day's work, chatted with his colleagues and walked out of the unit.
As soon as she looked up, she saw her boyfriend standing not far away full of her thoughts.
Screaming, he threw himself over and hugged each other, introducing "This is my boyfriend" in the surprised and curious eyes of colleagues around him.
The long-distance relationship for half a year ended here, and afterwards I knew how the two fell in love.
Wei Xiao's colleagues were all envious and full of blessings.
After that, Qi Ji did not continue to work as a journalist.
Instead, he became an executive in a media company in Wuxi.
He has more free time than Wei Xiao, so he will take more care of each other's life on weekdays.
After spending more than half a year to stabilize his work, Qi Ji wanted to marry Wei Xiao.
Take out the ring in the warm candlelight, and an 8-year love that came from the campus came to fruition.
Both parents have long been looking forward to this day for their children.
So they bought a house for them in Wuxi.
After that, the parents of the Qi family chose a day to hold a lively wedding in their hometown.
One day in December 2008, Wei Xiao asked the leader of Taili for leave with a smiling face.
The leader also asked jokingly at that time: "Xiao Wei, this is a happy event, smiling so happily, why, are you going to get married?" ”
Wei Xiao smiled even more happily, immediately nodded yes, and then said that he must arrive at work on time and distribute joy candy to colleagues when the time comes.
The leader was also happy to approve the leave, and said to the colleagues in the office: "Let's all wait, Xiao Wei's candy will arrive soon!" ”
Wu Bilan, a reporter for "60 Minutes Tonight", was the last among her colleagues to see Wei Xiao.
On the same day, she took leave to accompany her friend to go shopping, bought beautiful clothes, and finally sent them to the train station.
"She was happy all afternoon, telling me she was happy and wouldn't cry again. Because her childhood sweetheart will accompany her and will make her happy all the time. She was still laughing when we separated, but why did she make people like this, she was so young..."
December 15, 2008 was Wei Xiao's 25th birthday.
Take my parents and the Qi Ji family to eat dinner lively.
The next day, two young men went to the Civil Affairs Bureau to obtain a marriage certificate.
On December 17, 2008, Wei Xiao and Qi Ji, who had ended their eight-year love run, were ready to return to their jobs in Wuxi.
But the ruthlessness of fate is revealed at this moment, it does not say hello, without any warning.
In the happiest and most defenseless moment of the couple, the blood of the two families flowed into rivers
The world is impermanent, cherish the present
At the moment of the car accident, Qi Ji only had time to turn his head to look at his wife.
Wei Xiao, who was sitting by the window, was seriously injured and fell unconscious on the spot, and Qi Ji was shocked, but there was no danger to his life.
When paramedics arrived.
I saw a man whose clothes on his shoulders and legs were stained red with blood, holding a lifeless young girl.
His face was full of panic and tears, but he also shouted to the doctors and knelt down to beg them to save his wife.
That day was less than 2 days after Wei Xiao's 25th birthday.
It was less than 24 hours since she and her lover received their licenses.
After that day, there was no girl called Wei Xiao in the world who was deeply loved by Qi Ji and chased for many years and never gave up.
Newlywed is parting, the wedding is unsuccessful, and the funeral goes first.
Qi Ji couldn't accept this reality, and he locked himself in his room and saw no one.
Wei Xiao's parents were also unable to accept this tragedy, and fell ill and were admitted to the hospital.
And the parents of the Qi family comforted their son with tears in their eyes, and also went to the hospital to take care of their in-laws.
This pain lasted in the hearts of these people for more than ten years.
Awakened by the deteriorating physical condition of his parents-in-law.
Later, Qi Ji walked out of the door to the hospital.
He knelt in front of his parents-in-law's bed and vowed that he would take care of them for the rest of his life and give them peace of mind.
After calming the 4 old men and waiting for them to calm down, Qi Ji returned to Wuxi again.
He moved into his and Wei Xiao's wedding room and prepared a double copy of everything.
Place a photo of your loved one prominently in your home.
For years, whenever he came home, he would shout "I'm back."
Carry the old age of 4 parents on their shoulders.
Qi Ji is tired of running for life and wants to give them the best life they can.
And in the passage of time, he changed from a handsome guy in his 20s to a mature uncle in his 40s.
But for the love that arose when he was young, he always remembered in his heart his wife who died early.
In the early years, the Wei family's parents advised Qi Ji to find another girl to marry and have children, and get out of the past.
The parents of the Qi family are also worried about their son's future, hoping that he can let go of his heart knot and live a new life.
But no matter how the elders on both sides enlighten and persecute in the next 13 years.
He was unmoved, only saying "I have a lover, but she left first, I don't want to like others".
13 years is a snap of the fingers.
People who shed tears for the story of Qi Ji and Wei Xiao may occasionally recall the story with a sigh.
But in the past 13 years, he has not forgotten that the wound in Qi Ji's heart has never subsided.
People often say that the world is impermanent, and life is impermanent.
In the present moment when tomorrow and the unexpected do not know which will come first.
Although the words "cherish the present" are repeated, they are also sincere.
Cherish the people in front of you, cherish the things in front of you.
Don't wait until tomorrow for the person you love to stop tempting.
Don't leave irreparable regrets in life, don't know that everything is difficult to return after loss.
Wei Xiao's life ended on his happiest day.
But her relatives experienced life-threatening wounds on this day.
I hope that Qi Ji can look away and be happy no matter what future path he chooses.
I also hope that his 4 parents can be healthy and worry-free, forget the unspeakable pain, and embrace happiness as well.