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A mother posted a bill on the Internet, took the two children, ate a Haidilao hot pot, and only spent 10 yuan! Many netizens were very surprised after watching it, and they continued to question.
But the mother was triumphant and felt that she would save money. But soon, it was drowned out by some objections: "I want to take a bad child, I really want to be ashamed of the child", "No quality, stingy, take advantage of the small, isn't it shameful?" ”
Here's what happened: Lili is a fashionable woman, although she has been married for many years. However, in her spare time, she likes to post bits and pieces of her life to her circle of friends to share with friends.
On this day, when Lili was browsing Weibo, she accidentally saw a news that you can eat a meal of Haidilao and hot pot strategy for only 10 yuan. It's quite novel to think about, so I plan to take my children and challenge me according to the strategy to see if I can really eat a Haidilao hot pot for only 10 yuan.
Just do it, and the next day, Lili took her 2-year-old daughter to the Haidilao hot pot restaurant. According to the guide, she only ordered a raw egg for 10 yuan. In addition, I asked for two free plain water, and I didn't order anything else.
After the waiter left, she came to the seasoning area, made a pot base according to the ratio in the guide, and by the way, took some vegetables and small snacks provided free by the store for the children.
After doing this, she asked the waiter for the couple's staple — some free baby noodles. After the noodles were served, Lili poured a slice of beef selected from the beef sauce in the seasoning area on the noodles. Sprinkle with some complimentary shallots and coriander, and a large bowl of beef noodles is ready.
Then she put the free tomatoes she took from the seasoning area into the pot, beat the raw eggs bought for 10 yuan, and opened the fire, and after a while, a pot of tomato egg soup was ready.
In this way, Lili only spent 10 yuan to have a full meal with the baby Haidilao hot pot, and by the way, she also made a nail for free. Thinking that she only spent 10 yuan to eat a meal of Haidilao, Lili burst with pride.
So, I couldn't wait to post my experience to my circle of friends. I thought it would win the recognition of netizens, but I didn't expect it to attract a lot of scolding.
It is no wonder that sometimes people in the bureau will inevitably not recognize the real situation of their environment, and what they think is interesting, others do not necessarily agree.
Lili thought that she had successfully challenged and only spent 10 yuan to eat a Haidilao hot pot, which was interesting. But I don't want my behavior to inadvertently bring bad influence to my children.
The pattern and vision of parents will have a certain impact on the future pattern and vision of the child. If parents often habitually take advantage of their children, in the future, when the children grow up, they will also follow the nature of this love to take advantage, and the result is really unimaginable.
What impact will unintentionally cultivating a child's character of taking advantage have on the child's future?
First, steal needles in hours, steal gold when big
It is said that stealing needles when you are young, stealing gold when you are big, if parents often take their children to take advantage of some small advantages, let their children develop the bad habit of loving to take advantage of small advantages.
Then, it will definitely have an adverse effect on the child's future. Because love takes advantage, children will get used to this mode of thinking, will become selfish, calculating, and only care about themselves in everything, without considering the feelings of others.
As the child's growing vanity is not satisfied, the child will find various opportunities to take advantage of others to satisfy his own desires.
It may be okay to take advantage of it occasionally, but if you deliberately take advantage of others and cannot control yourself, then the child is very likely to go down the road of crime in the future.
Second, isolated, no friends
If the child is young, he develops the bad habit of taking advantage. When he grows up, he may be isolated and have no friends. Because no one likes to be with people who love to take advantage, when a person is self-centered in everything, narrow-minded and does not know to share with others, only knows to take advantage and calculate, his situation is extremely dangerous.
Because no one likes to be with such a person, no one wants to be taken advantage of, and the people around him are bound to exclude and ridicule him, which will bring a major blow to his life and physical and mental health.
Without normal interpersonal relationships, the child's career will not be able to develop favorably, and if the career is sluggish, the child will naturally not have any good deeds. In this way, the child's life will be spent in nothingness and confusion.
Third, influence the overall situation, only pay attention to the small profits in front of you
If a child develops the bad habit of taking advantage, it will have an extremely adverse impact on his pattern and vision. When faced with problems, he skims the big picture, only sees small profits in front of him, and ignores the bigger opportunities in the future.
Imagine how much such a person can do in this situation? If you want your child to become a talent, as a parent, you must lead by example, usually you can be more atmospheric, at least don't show your greedy side in front of your children.
In addition, it is necessary to deliberately cultivate the child's overall view, to make the child aware of many things, not only look at the surface, but also know how to be far-sighted, not blinded, by some fly heads small profits carried away.
Summary: Although diligence and thrift are a good virtue, this character must also be used in the right direction, and using it in the wrong place has become a bad habit of taking advantage. Don't do this kind of thing of picking up sesame seeds and throwing watermelons, because the gains outweigh the losses.
Parents are like a mirror of their children, every word and deed may have an impact on children who are curious about the world, if they do not correct this wrong cognition in time, it will inevitably affect the child's pattern and vision in the future.
If the child grows up and only knows the small profit in front of him and does not see the long-term development, then his life will not achieve much.
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