A friend who is a teacher once complained to me that the children in the class were either "zi" or "han". For example, Zixuan, Zixuan, Zixuan, Zihan, Zihan, Zihan.
In class, 4 or 5 people can stand up and answer: "Teacher, are you calling me?" "Every time she felt tired.
After finally staying up until these children grew up and ushered in a new birth, she found that the "Zihan" craze of all staff had faded, and a new batch of bad street names had come, and she felt helpless as a teacher.
One: A new batch of "rotten street" names are coming
It may be due to the fact that the previous batch of children had too many duplicate names. This generation of parents, in the name of their children, either racked their brains and was different, or simple and rude, random names.
The first thing to bear the brunt of is the rare word.
Come on, let's see, how many names can you name the children in the following class?
Before teaching, I have to go home with a roster to read the dictionary overnight and make up for my language knowledge.
It's just that this kind of rare name is not the teacher who is most affected, but the child himself. A girl on the Internet said that because of her special name, she couldn't do it!
What is her name?
Tong Wei.
At first glance, I thought that the word 堔字 was the same as "right". Later, I looked up the dictionary and found out that it was originally pronounced dí.
Because the name is too unfamiliar, many systems cannot enter it. Then, she often ran into trouble.
For example, during the exam, the system does not match the name on the ID card; It is difficult to get through security checks on the plane; When you encounter something important, you have to keep issuing certificates and going through procedures.
What makes her most sad is that she can't guarantee research. It is estimated that this girl also wants to cry without tears about her name.
In fact, she is quite good, after all, there are not many strokes of the words, and it is simple to write. But the following children, when it comes to writing their names, will really cry directly.
For example, this boy named "Hongda", even if I took my father's reading glasses, I didn't understand, what is his last name?
It's really bitter baby!
There is also a little boy who is nervous as soon as he arrives at the exam, because his name is "Chu Wei Yunhao". I counted carefully, and the name had as many as 67 strokes.
Everyone else's test paper is half done, and he is still wiping his tears while trying to write his name.
This kind of rare word is indeed different, but it will cause trouble for children from childhood to adulthood.
It is said that there used to be a family surnamed Huzhang, and his four daughters were all beautiful as flowers, but none of them came to the door to ask for their relatives. Because matchmakers don't pronounce their names.
Each word is symmetrical, each word is a 4-word superposition, each word is level, but no one knows each word. How worried should a child be when he faces his name?
In addition to taking rare words, this generation of parents is also particularly naughty. What aesthetic, poetic, chic, I don't want all, as long as personality and flamboyance.
As a result, the children were greeted with a batch of "strange" names.
For example, the child surnamed He, his name is He Bing. I don't know if their family has staged any wonderful stories.
There is also this child surnamed Guo, to say that his parents are really wise, and they have long understood the true meaning of life. No matter how vigorous life is, you have to return to the pots and pans in life.
This kid called Tied Hands, is your name serious?
And this parent, I seriously doubt that you are showing off your wealth.
Of course, some parents choose names for their children, and while it is simple and easy to remember, they do not forget to add their best wishes. For example, this child who was born "won at the starting line".
These unique and unfamiliar names do have personality and unusual paths, but the impact on children is far-reaching.
Because in our opinion, the name represents the person, and it is the first impression that others know about you.
If it is too different, the child may be laughed at by classmates and friends, and may encounter more trouble in later life and work.
And if a name means good, under the effect of suggestion, the child will also feel that he is beautiful and keep moving in this direction.
So what should we pay attention to when naming the baby?
Two: 3 aspects to pay attention to
When we choose a name for the baby, we can pay more attention to the following 3 aspects.
(1) Do not take ambiguous names
When we choose a name for a child, in addition to looking at the meaning of the word alone, we must also read it in conjunction with the entire name to see if it will cause ambiguity.
Like this child named Tongcalc, the name is fine, but adding the surname, it is misleading to pronounce.
My daughter's school also has many children with ambiguous homonymous names. For example, Qin Shou, Hong Green Light, Guan Yin, etc.
Children are not sensible, and when they hear these ambiguous names, they may laugh or take nicknames. This will bring psychological damage to the baby, even difficulty in making friends, and may also have low self-esteem.
(2) Pay attention to the father's surname + mother's surname
I don't know when it became popular to name the baby with the father's surname + the mother's surname. My daughter has a friend named "Zhang Yang". This name is actually not bad, simple and easy to remember, and with a little personality.
But when I heard a child called "Wei Zhu", I couldn't help but spew out all the tea that had just entered my mouth. Parents, don't you think about it anymore?
The father's surname plus the mother's surname are actually no problem, but after we take it, we still have to consider it again to see if it will bring misunderstanding.
(3) You can take a positive name
We always say that people are as they are called.
Most of the people named "Wen" seem to be relatively quiet. And the person named "Wu" does seem to be more lively and active.
This may be because the name affects the child's perception of himself. He will feel that the name represents him as a person, and unconsciously internalize the name into his own appearance.
Moreover, we will also have different expectations for children because of the name.
For example, a person whose name is "Wen", our subconscious will feel that he is more quiet, and thus more recognized by his quiet behavior. For a person named "Wu", we may be more tolerant of his active behavior.
These small factors will invisibly affect the child's behavior and personality. Therefore, when we choose names for children, we should avoid taking some negative names and take more positive and positive names.
Although a name is just a symbol, it is also a sign of a person that will follow the child for life. When we choose the name of the baby, we still have to think carefully.
We can choose from verses and verses, and if we are afraid of "bumping into names", we can avoid words that are used a lot.
Choosing a name is a science, do you have a name around you that impresses you? Let's talk about it~
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About the author: Cuckoo mother, a mother who is observant, thinks and has a way. Focus on children's psychology, read that children are easy to raise, and pay attention if you like it~
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