In the past few days, the hit drama "Wind Blowing Half Summer" ushered in the finale.
This TV series can be described as high and high. Not long after the broadcast, the Douban score soared to 8.4 points, becoming the first in the popularity of the whole network.
Zhao Liying once said:
If men have heroic dreams, why can't women?
And the banxia she played interpreted this sentence very well.
A divorced woman who has risen from a small scrapyard owner to a business elite, and in the steel industry where men are crowded.
Banxia played a bad hand of cards into a king fried and lived as an enviable "Iron Woman".
Netizens praised angrily: "Zhao Liying's appearance of making money is really beautiful and sassy!" ”
The heroine is no longer a low-eyebrow and pleasant gas bag, but a heroic and sassy heroine.
After chasing this drama, I understood that in this life, people should see through 7 social truths.
Xu Banxia's birth was a tragedy.
Her mother died in childbirth, and her father, a Chinese medicine practitioner, was full of resentment and named her Banxia, because the birth of Banxia was poisonous.
Later, the father remarried and had a young daughter.
Banxia's family status is even more embarrassing, becoming the redundant one.
After graduating from university, Banxia became an ATM for her father and stepmother, and was called "Sister Fang'er".
However, when she lacked funds for business and went home to borrow money, her father and stepmother turned their faces faster than they could turn books.
On one side is the stepmother's cynicism, on the other is the father's inaction.
Later, her father lent her 300,000 yuan and took advantage of the fire to rob the house left to her by her biological mother.
The original family brought half a summer of wounds, but she lived as a ray of light of her own.
She went from being a scrapyard owner who couldn't get on the table to a glorious steel company boss.
Without a backer, he worked his own, tears swallowed in his stomach, but there was always a bright smile on his face.
Families of origin often bear the blame for unfortunate lives. It seems that being born unfortunate is doomed to the tragedy of life.
Some people do not struggle while feeling sorry for themselves, which is the disaster of the original family.
We can't choose our origin, but the injuries of our original family can be healed by ourselves.
Your strength will heal the wounds you have suffered.
Without a backer, you can be self-reliant and live as your own backer.
In the play, Tong Xiaoqi, Chen Universe and Xu Banxia's "steel triangle" are deeply emotional.
Xu Banxia and Chen Cosmos are small, and the two opened a scrap collection station together.
Tong Xiao was in a hurry to raise medical expenses for his mother, stole the manhole cover in the middle of the night to sell it at the scrapyard, and Banxia stuffed all the money on his body to him.
Later, Tong Xiao rode for Banxia to fight unevenly, injured people, and was imprisoned for 5 years.
After being released from prison, Banxia made him the vice president of the company and organized a convoy.
When the company was in trouble, Tong Xiao rode and led the team to play with life to pull sand to make money, helping Banxia to support, but he had a car accident due to fatigue driving.
Banxia's entrepreneurship is tied to Chen Universe.
He wears many hats, guarding polluted mudflats every day.
Steel prices fell, and hordes of creditors came to the door, holding on alone, serving tea and water, and being punched and kicked.
Even if he coughed up blood when he was sick, he kept it hidden for half a summer until he was found to have advanced lung cancer.
Banxia was remorseful and did everything he could to make up for it and help his parents who supported him.
Tong Xiaoqi, Chen Universe and Xu Banxia were willing to go up the Dao Mountain and the sea of fire for each other.
Their feelings have been tested by years and tribulations, but they are still as sincere as they were at first sight.
Bai Juyi wrote in the poem:
It is difficult to walk, difficult to walk, not in the mountains, not in the water, only in the repeated human feelings.
There are many people who are crowded during the scenery, but it is the true friends who are willing to accompany you at the trough.
Adversity sees people's hearts, and good feelings must have quacks, feelings and righteousness, and treat each other with sincerity.
Not long after the start of the play, Banxia switched from collecting scrap to collecting scrap steel. In order to make a big business, she borrowed money to build a yard and a fleet.
Then, he formed a "entrepreneurial five" with Wu Jianjian, Qiu Bizheng, Guo Qidong, and Feng Yu, went to Russia to buy scrap steel, and was deceived.
All 4 bigwigs have returned to China, and only Banxia has left a dead stumbling.
She kept going to the police station and steel mills to ask questions, seeking help from international students, and finally caught the scammer at the market.
She managed to bring back 50,000 tons of scrap and also earned herself a voice.
After returning to China, steel prices fell, and she was besieged by debt collection and prosecution, and was embattled on all sides.
Even if Banxia fell ill, he gritted his teeth and insisted. She survived until steel prices picked up and made a lot of money.
A divorced woman who collected rags and started a family, several bosses disdained at first, but Banxia impressed them with his strength and offered to cooperate.
Their title for Banxia also changed with the situation, switching between "Xiao Xu" and "Xu Zong".
The whole cooperation went through intrigue, falling apart, and finally reconciliation.
In business competition, there are no eternal friends and enemies, only eternal interests.
When you succeed, many people rush to make friends with you in order to get a piece of the pie;
When you fail, they immediately abandon you in search of more useful people to form an alliance.
Your right to speak depends on your strength.
Zhao Lei, a senior executive of a foreign company, was shrewd and rational and was called a "profiteer", but he was moved by Banxia.
In the middle of the summer, he wanted to go to Russia to buy scrap steel, but he lacked funds and was in a hurry, and Zhao Lei sent charcoal in the snow.
The entrepreneurial fivesome were scammed in Russia, and he was worried not about the money, but about the safety of Banxia.
Steel prices plummeted, and Zhao Lei's company took the opportunity to force Banxia to sign a "death contract", and he would rather offend the company's senior management than intervene to stop it.
After Zhao Lei left, Banxia rented a house for him and hired him with a high salary.
Many people fell for him, but Banxia stood firmly by his side.
After several twists and turns, the two achieved positive results.
Even in a long-distance marriage, neither of them gave up their careers. In their respective fields, each leading the way and going hand in hand.
Zhao Lei read countless people, but he was attracted by Banxia's daring energy and sincere and frank personality.
The two people are strong and strong, because they are the same travelers, can resonate at the same frequency and cherish each other.
Truly mature love is evenly matched and goes both ways.
You are good, I am not bad, there is no need to cling, but alone in the arms of your lover.
As Shu Ting's verse says:
I must be a kapok near you, standing with you as the image of the tree.
After graduating from college, Banxia married early in order to escape his native family.
But the ungood person he encountered, the husband cheated and domestic violence, cut the mess quickly in the middle of the summer, and resolutely divorced.
When building a yard, money is spent like flowing water, and it is difficult to fund in half a summer.
Doctor Lao Su took out the deposit to Banxia, and Banxia resolutely resigned. Banxia knew that Lao Su had an interest in him, and once he took this money, his nature changed.
Banxia wanted to gain a foothold in the steel industry where men were crowded, and the bigwigs persuaded her to find a good man to marry.
She said: "I'm so young, I don't want to make money, what do I think? ”
After looking at the mudflats, she said with confidence:
I promise that in three years, not only our yard and dock, but also this piece will be lit up.
Her ambitions eventually came true.
After falling in love with Zhao Lei, they lived apart, and Banxia did not give up his career to become Mrs. Kuo.
Moreover, she offered to do a notarization of pre-marital property.
Independence is a principle that Banxia has always adhered to.
When her husband cheats, she is not stalking, but stops the loss in time;
She doesn't use her feelings in exchange for money, and if she doesn't love him, don't spend his money;
She is not attached to men, and as much money men can earn, so can women;
After marrying Zhao Lei, she remained sober and independent.
First make a living, then seek love, have ambition, Banxia is no longer the traditional "gentle and virtuous little white flower", but a self-reliant and self-reliant heroine.
Banxia said:
Rely on others, there is no eternal meal ticket, only on yourself! If you can earn money, you will have more confidence.
Independence is a woman's greatest strength.
When they started their business, in order to build a storage yard, the three of them took a fancy to the beach in the village.
They wanted to rent the land, but the village chief sat on the land and raised the price, and the rent rose from 200,000 to 500,000 a year.
Everyone was disappointed.
The next day, the village chief called and agreed to lease the land.
Banxia rushed to the beach in a hurry, but was dumbfounded. The mudflats are all contaminated with engine oil and gasoline, and the stench is foul.
Banxia instantly understood, returned to the company and beat Tong Xiao fiercely, asking him to leave.
Later, Chen Cosmos got lung cancer, which had a lot to do with beach pollution.
Later, the company flourished and prepared to go public, and various events thundered one by one.
Wu Jianjian illegally discharged pollution, pit nearby villagers; Qiu Bizheng signed a yin and yang contract and was investigated by the tax department;
Banxia is also involved in commercial disputes; Pollution from the tidal flats was also reported by villagers.
In the 90s, small and medium-sized enterprises grew wildly, regardless of white cats and black cats, as long as they caught mice, they were good cats.
Many people exploit loopholes and do whatever it takes to gain benefits.
However, the shortcuts that were once taken have later become holes dug for themselves.
In life, many people want to take shortcuts, be opportunistic, and even crooked.
However, coming out to mix, sooner or later it will have to be repaid.
Today's shortcut may become a dead end later.
Many times, take your time, but go faster.
Like dominoes, all kinds of lawsuits, dunning followed, funds were short, companies stagnated, and they had to be tried by the courts.
Banxia faces two paths: take the initiative to confess guilt, or let Wu Jianjian take the blame.
Banxia decided to take responsibility for his past mistakes.
Banxia has always had a troubled conscience about the pollution of the tidal flats, and she wants to give an explanation to the victimized family.
She has also been compensating the families for years.
Banxia announced that the company would not go public for the time being, and she went to plead guilty and turn herself in, leaving no stain on the company.
Half a life of hard work has come to naught, which is embarrassing, and it seems that everything has returned to square one.
However, all efforts will not be in vain.
The experience and lessons accumulated along the way will lay a solid foundation for her comeback.
People who have truly seen the world can enjoy both the best and the worst.
Stands up to praise, and can withstand blows.
Everyone will encounter difficulties, and it is the real high person who can keep the low place of life.
As the theme song sings:
A ray of light of the times hits the sea level of life, like a telescope, illuminating the wind and waves in the distance.
Small and medium-sized entrepreneurs represented by Banxia have experienced a difficult entrepreneurial process and completed self-growth under the agitation of the times.
Banxia, who used to be unprofitable, finally understood that no amount of money could buy emotions and people who left.
So, she completed the reconciliation with herself, her loved ones and her opponents.
The raw half summer is poison, and the cooked half summer becomes medicine.
The reason why Banxia can move people's hearts is because she is also the epitome of ordinary people.
From her, we see more real humanity, and also see the sincere, kind, brave, confused self, but all the way in the stumble.