I am often anxious that I don't have enough time, but I squander what little time I have.
Are you talking about you now?
Less than 90 days before the exam time, the revision progress is not smooth, and I began to wonder if I should not register;
The planning has not been completed, and the leaders have suddenly arranged overtime and disrupted the plan.
So annoying!
The more irritable and anxious you are, the more you want to play with your phone. It was hard to have a little time, found that nothing was done, and the time passed in a hurry.
Why do we always do this? Is there too little time, or is there another truth?
<h1 class="pgc-h-arrow-right" data-track="14" > Why is there never enough time for me? </h1>
1. A lot of procrastination, not that we don't want to solve it, but we don't dare to face it.
In fact, we don't have time, but when we have time, we don't use it particularly well. Dragging has become the norm. But the reason for the delay is not that we do not want to solve the problem, more often than not, we dare not face it.
For example, the work report explained by the leader will reveal that there are no achievements this year, the performance is hopeless, the bonus at the end of the year is destined to be not much, and where the motivation is written. The feeling of not being satisfied and not daring to flee is really going to desperately pull away the motivation for us to open the computer and write a report.
For example, if you are reviewing and preparing for the exam, once you go in to study, you will expose that there are too many uncognized and uncooked, and when you see that the time is too tight, you can judge that this exam cannot pass, this is not the first time. The sad feeling of failing again really doesn't want to open the book.
It's too hard!
2. A lot of time is wasted on meaningless self-consumption and self-diss.
Many times, you are alone quietly brushing your mobile phone, in a daze, in fact, your heart has long been chaotic:
Think of someone who seems to be better than himself, what people have achieved; think of the person who looks inferior to himself, as if he is better than himself, think of a friend casually saying "what have you been busy with lately", you can't answer it yourself, I want to say what I'm doing, but I'm afraid of failing in the end, I can only say "nothing"
Therefore, all kinds of emotions are rolled in, and round after round of self-criticism begins, just like a justice, not only judging himself badly, but also having to add another criminal officer to torture himself round after round of mental torture.
You're so yourself.
3. More time, spent in a daze when confused, extremely dissatisfied with the status quo, but do not know where to go.
Have you been confused lately, is there anything you can't think of? If you dare to ask, 100% of people will answer yes.
Some people are not confused, but some people are confused and still move forward, and more people want to stop and think clearly before starting.
Because of fear, afraid that they are not young now, in case of the wrong choice, there is no chance of overturning, who is willing to cooperate with a person who is not very young; afraid that they have failed to invest several times, invest again, in case of failure, not only will the previous hole not be plugged, no one will lend money to themselves in the future.
The more confused the more unclear, because when confused, you want to quickly seek results, and good results are the special experiences of others, even if you copy them as they are, you may not have 100% of the results of others. More often, I look at several, but I don't know which one to choose.
So when I am confused, I am often in a daze, extremely dissatisfied with my current life, but I don't know where to go.
<h1 class="pgc-h-arrow-right" data-track="100" > Second, where does time come from, and where should it be used to not be so upset? </h1>
Sharing 3 new insights about time will allow you to find a new state of life when rebuilding your time consumption and time allocation habits.
1. The habit of not comparing
Time management master, still not enough time, because he wants to do more than you want to do, and it is even more difficult to do.
In fact, it is not that you alone do not have enough time, nor is it that you are alone and anxious because of this, everyone is similar, even if others look at a stable horse, but in fact, they are the same panic.
For example, when I was worried about the recent time to get the self-media monetization class out, the students waited urgently, and the person who wrote the class was even more anxious. I am also worried about the adjustment and optimization of the operation mode of the book club, and I am worried about more order-taking resources to negotiate and allocate. In short, those of us who seem to have a good time schedule still don't have enough time.
Because there are too many things we want to do, and it is more difficult, it is not something that can be done by one person by hard work, it needs to coordinate multiple resources, and it needs to be confirmed repeatedly. Sometimes you are busy, and you may not have to make more money than you do.
When you want to do things that you can do on your own, please have fun secretly, at least the control is in your hands. If you want to do it today, do it. And when we have to rely on coordination in everything, the control is not in our own hands at all, the time is still urgent, we are more worried, and the hair falls more than you.
Don't compare with us, we are more difficult. Having money doesn't necessarily mean being happy, hahahahaha, it's true.
2. The habit of compound interest
Some time ago, Chosin Lake was on fire, did you see it? Did my parents see it? What about after watching it? No more?
However, many people around me, after watching the movie, sent a film review, circle of friends, micro headlines, movie ticket money earned back not to say, even after the end of the show with friends to drink and string money out.
That is to say, the person who is good at arranging time is not more time than you, and it is not that he is very good at breaking eight hundred petals in a minute to use, but he can always spend time once and output more content.
Some of my friends have a habit of liking to write.
After eating, go back to write a public review, write more to become a master, people eat wherever they are discounted.
Get together, go back and write a circle of friends, talk about who you met, what you have gained, mention it to everyone, and privately send friends, thank you for meeting, give friends a lot of touch, next time he has something to help ah.
Watch a movie, go back and send a micro headline, get a hundred thousand shows, tens of thousands of readings, dozens of dollars of income, easy movie tickets to earn. This is not the end, the small film review 1500 words a word, on the story + feeling + inspiration, did not see to write out what depth, but the people's movie is already hot, click is another meal of income, the money for the dinner came out.
What emotions do you have, don't sullen yourself, and complain in the micro headlines, the result netizens looked at it, good resonance Oh, click a like comment, and it is 20 yuan again.
3. The habit of making plans
In fact, the plan is not used to complete it in an all-round way, but to direct oneself not to think about the east and the west.
Some people plan to do it in detail, get a schedule, draw a handbook.
Some people plan to do rough things, just write what they plan to do today, list 123.
Whatever you write, it's called planning, and it's better than aimlessly doing it today.
There is no bad method, many soil methods are more effective than advanced methods, because it is too simple, you immediately start to work.
It's not that the method is easy to use to make you successful, it's that you do it yourself, and you succeed!
So in this article, I did not give you any specific methods, but only gave direction, gave cognitive adjustments, and hoped that you would boldly take a step forward.
Let go of emotions, don't be confused and entangled, think what is the use of that thing?
It's done, don't think about it.
Pay attention to @kite small money, accompany you to grow together!