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It doesn't matter if you're a layman or an internet celebrity
Sun Xiaochuan, I don't know if everyone has any impression of this person. An internet celebrity with 3 million fans on the Internet, he mainly relies on e-sports live broadcasts to get out of the circle. Although today's topic is about this unknown Internet celebrity, the editor does not want to spend too much space talking about things related to him, but will focus on the discussion, the truth behind the divorce of a couple.
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A little explanation
Although, the editor said that he would not write too much about Sun Xiaochuan. But also a little explanation why the editor mentioned this person. First of all, Sun Xiaochuan and his wife Yan'er began to engage in prostitution outside less than half a year. Secondly, since his prostitution was exposed, his wife has also made up her mind to divorce him, and the whole marriage has been for a total of 5 months. Now you should understand why the editor mentioned Sun Xiaochuan. So let's get to the point now, "Want to have a perfect partner, dream!" Whether the other party is a celebrity, an Internet celebrity or an ordinary person, if you want ta to fully meet all the expectations in your heart, the editor advises you to dismiss this idea as soon as possible.
Because....
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An important part of family relationships
In the current economic situation, I do not believe that a couple can divide their labor so that there is no overlapping crossover. What you are responsible for making money to support the family, I am responsible for being beautiful as a flower, it is better to say "I am both responsible for bragging". Completely independent and perfectly completed division of labor, there is really no intersection between those two people, but the intersection of emotional life and marriage life will not be limited to two people. A sophisticated family is still unable to do its "share of work" without distraction, not to mention that the vast majority of ordinary families will think more about who carries more.
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Division of labor in the world of love
So take a step back, the division of labor cannot be clearly divided, it is inevitable to build a handle, take responsibility, fulfill obligations, can you expect your partner to be perfect in one thing? Let's ask yourself if everything is perfect. Then touch your own bottom line, what is the fault tolerance rate, and also probe the other party's bottom line, how much room for improvement. Instead of expecting the other person to think and act exactly according to your will, it is better to expect the other person to calm down and listen to your thoughts objectively at each conflict, and then reflect on their behavior and make changes.
For example, I am a person who thinks meticulously and has strong ability to act, and my boyfriend has thick lines + procrastination. So when it comes to a specific thing, it is easy to evolve into "you don't care about what we plan" and "you can't think of me" in my eyes. But every time we are a willing coaxing, one finds the bottom of the steps, and then talks things away. I'd rather trust him to be a little more attentive, or a little more attentive in matters involving both of us, and act a little more before me, rather than whimsically expect him to be a replica of me. Similarly, I can't afford the role of the perfect partner, and many times he does a better job than me.
At last
Reasonably expect your partner, on the other hand, look at yourself pertinently, don't be proud as if you have carried everything and don't thank your other half for your efforts. If TA is dragging oil bottles, you would have run away long ago, and there is still a chance to not know how many pounds and taels you have, and ask for this and that for the other half as you should!
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