Author: Wei Lan Editor: Jia Fangfang
Source: Journal of Marriage and Family
There is a drama that is particularly popular during this time, that is, "Tang Dynasty Strange Stories".
Many people around me say that this drama not only has a rich storyline and progressive layers, but also the actors' acting skills are online, which can be said to fill the gap of suspense dramas in recent times.
Looking through the production team of this drama, I found that it was carefully created by Guo Jingyu's team, and there are also familiar faces in the play.
For example, Yue Lina.
She is Liu Yingniang in "Niangdao", Na Suzhi in "Hitting the Dog Stick", and Qiu Xiang in "Tie Li Blossom".
The shaping of every character is inseparable from Yue Lina's wonderful interpretation, and even more inseparable from the careful polishing of director Guo Jingyu.
She and Guo Jingyu from campus to marriage, from the most difficult time to only afford to eat boiled noodles, to now stand firm in the film and television industry, the two have walked hand in hand for more than 30 years.
Looking back, their stories are breathtaking.
01
For his dream, she eats boiled noodles in a rental house
At the age of 17, Yue Lina was admitted to Chengde Art School in Hebei Province, and met Guo Jingyu due to a misunderstanding a few days after the start of school.
She didn't know the way to the bathhouse, so she asked Guo Jingyu, but Guo Jingyu pushed that she wanted to go home for dinner and go again at two o'clock in the afternoon.
As a result, Guo Jingyu slept until 5 o'clock. When he returned, the hot-tempered Yue Lina had already rushed into the boys' dormitory and threw his quilt on the still wet ground after mopping.
Guo Jingyu not only did not worry, but went to the pharmacy to buy a bottle of vitamin B2 and gave it to Yue Lina, who was on fire, as compensation.
In this way, both men left a deep impression on each other. Guo Jingyu feels that this girl is very special and wants to pursue her; Yue Lina, on the other hand, simply felt that this boy was very different.
Since then, Guo Jingyu has begun to take care of Yue Lina meticulously, often taking her clothes and quilts home to wash, bringing her food, and helping her organize her housekeeping. And Yue Lina also enjoyed this feeling of being taken care of.
The two came together naturally, and after graduation, they both entered the drama troupe.
Yue Lina quickly had a suitable role, but Guo Jingyu could only pull the curtain on the side.
At this time, Guo Jingyu's mother began to urge marriage, although Yue Lina gladly agreed, Guo Jingyu flatly refused.
It's not that he doesn't want to marry Yue Lina, but he feels that he has nothing at the moment and wants to make a career first.
To his delight, his ideas were understood and supported by Yue Lina.
When they first arrived in Beijing, they could only borrow and live in a 6-square-meter house, and they could no longer fit anything other than a bed, a set of tables and chairs, but none of this affected their feelings.
Yue Lina is busy acting to make money and take on various roles, even if it is a role she doesn't like at all. Guo Jingyu is making scene notes while working hard in the direction of the director.
However, it didn't take long for the troupe to ask them to go back to rehearsals or else they would be fired. In desperation, the two had to go back.
In that drama, Yue Lina was the starring actor, and she was also praised by the leader for her outstanding acting skills, and Guo Jingyu's most important job was to scatter flowers, a small transparent piece, which made him begin to doubt himself.
Fortunately, Yue Lina was there, and she said to Guo Jingyu:
"I was so out of mood today that I forgot even the words, and when I looked up at the light, I saw snowflakes falling earlier than every day. As soon as I saw this snowflake, my emotions were immediately aroused, and tears welled up in my eyes, so I performed better today than every day. In fact, it's not that I play well, it's that your flowers are scattered too timely, and you are the greatest artist in my heart. ”
This passage gave Guo Jingyu great encouragement and made him feel that he could do it again.
After returning to Beijing, almost in a play, he moved forward step by step from scene notes to assistant director to executive director, and also got the opportunity to learn the later stage because of the director's favor.
When Guo Jingyu told Yue Lina the news, Yue Lina agreed without the slightest hesitation.
She knew that if she wanted to be a director, she had to learn this. Although Guo Jingyu may have no income in the short term and there will be some difficulties in life, those are temporary, and she can also make money from filming to maintain.
But in fact, at the most difficult time, Yue Lina could only eat white boiled noodles.
Recalling those days, Guo Jingyu said with great distress: "Often when I open the door, Yue Lina will squat there and cook noodles in an electric pot. ”
But even so, Yue Lina never flinched. She said to Guo Jingyu: "I am very happy with you every day and have never regretted it." ”
Guo Jingyu worked harder to film and gradually grew into a director who could stand on his own. And Yue Lina is constantly honing her acting skills in the performance.
Gradually, Yue Lina began to appear in film and television dramas directed by Guo Jingyu. They have taken a big step towards their dreams with their own efforts.
With the improvement of his career, Guo Jingyu finally married his beloved girl with peace of mind. In 1999, they got married.
Years of hard work have finally achieved a staged achievement, but fate has not stopped testing them.
02
Nearly dying of a brain tumor, they finally had both children
Fast forward to 2010, the filming of "General" directed by Guo Jingyu began, and Yue Lina starred in Yumi Higashino. As a result, in the middle of filming, Yue Lina suddenly fainted.
Guo Jingyu hurriedly took her to a nearby hospital for examination, but found no problem. They were transferred to a better local hospital for examination and had an MRI on the advice of their doctors.
As a result, as soon as the doctor saw the lesion clearly, Yue Lina went into shock because of an allergy to the contrast medium. Suddenly, the corridor was full of doctors running around, which really frightened Guo Jingyu.
Fortunately, in the end, Yue Lina was rescued, and the doctor told them that Yue Lina had a pituitary tumor, but because of contrast agent allergy, they could not cure it.
Back in Beijing, they sought medical advice everywhere, and the results were the same.
When she was annoyed, Yue Lina actually said to Guo Jingyu: Since it can't be cured, then this tumor should not be treated.
Since then, Yue Lina has worked hard as usual, and she wants to have a child more and more, and even said to a friend: "Jing Yu is so good, I must give him a child." ”
Guo Jingyu was shocked by Yue Lina's strength and open-mindedness, and also put his energy into the present, during which he was also nominated for the 17th Magnolia Best Director Award for "Tie Lihua".
Maybe it's a longing, there must be an echo, just when they were traveling abroad, they accidentally found that Yue Lina was pregnant. But because Yue Lina is an elderly mother, the doctor recommends bed rest and not to travel long distances.
As a result, they had to extend their visas and stay in the local area to secure their babies. At the same time, Guo Jingyu also changed Yue Lina's role in "The Red Lady" to someone else.
After more than ten years of marriage, they finally had children.
After the birth of the child, in order for Yue Lina to have a good rest, Guo Jingyu took the initiative to take the task of taking the child at night. He often holds his children while writing scripts with a recording pen.
Soon, "Hitting the Dog Stick" was ready to start filming, when Yue Lina had only given birth for a few months, and all aspects of her body had not fully recovered.
But Yue Lina knew that "Hitting the Dog Stick" was a story about the Guo Jingyu family, and he wanted to make it into a film and television drama as early as when he was in school, and she didn't want to be absent in such an important drama.
Later, after discussion, they decided that Yue Lina would play Na Suzhi. Yue Lina became the female number one in her husband's drama for the first time.
Because during lactation, Yue Lina can't lose weight through dieting, and can only start the crazy exercise mode. After filming officially started, in order to facilitate filming while taking care of their children, they also moved their family to the vicinity of the film and television base.
If the filming is not busy that day, Yue Lina will go home to feed the child when the time comes, and if it is busy, the family will send the child to the crew to feed. In the evening, she recited her lines while taking her children.
In the end, "Hitting the Dog Stick" achieved good results, and Na Suzhi's shaping was also very successful. Their journey to realize their dreams has come to a great end.
03
She went bankrupt for him and he called her "parent."
Guo Jingyu has his own obsession with filming, whether in the selection of actors or scene layout, it is inevitable that there will be a situation of exceeding the budget.
When filming "Tie Lihua", the overexpenditure was 6 million, the investor was unwilling to invest more, and the crew and actors were still waiting on the set to finish, and at least 1.8 million was needed to solve the problem.
At this time, Guo Jingyu called his wife to explain the situation, and Yue Lina decisively sold all the family's stocks and rushed over with two large boxes of cash.
During the filming of "Hitting the Dog Stick", Guo Jingyu overspent again, and this time, Yue Lina sold her family's house again.
With Yue Lina's unconditional support, Guo Jingyu's career has developed better and better, and the relationship between the two is still the same.
Whenever he recalled the story of the two, Guo Jingyu would always talk about how he looked when he first met Yue Lina.
Once, several actors who auditioned for the play came to ask Guo Jingyu for a phone, and Guo Jingyu replied that there was no phone because "the tutor is strict."
Although Guo Jingyu later explained that he politely refused, the subtleties can also see the importance of Yue Lina in Guo Jingyu's heart.
Now, the 3 children are gradually growing up, and Guo Jingyu's treatment of his wife is also looked at by several children, and the friendship between the children is even more enviable.
Once, if her daughter wanted to eat fruit puree, Guo Jingyu, who spoiled her daughter, had to suspend the meeting and go out to buy a box. But after getting the puree, the daughter only ate two and stopped eating, saying that the rest would be divided between her brother and brother.
Whenever my brother goes out to film, he also wants to bring gifts to his sister and brother, and he will also notice that his sister likes pink and his brother likes dinosaurs.
And no matter how busy Yue Lina is, she will not neglect to take care of her children's life and homework.
Perhaps life is like this, the little bits and pieces of triviality merge into a big life scene, and the subtle intentions write a capital happiness.
After experiencing so many ups and downs, Guo Jingyu still said to Yue Lina: No matter when it comes, you are the big parent of me and my children.
Among Guo Jingyu's achievements along the way, it is difficult to say how much of it is Yue Lina's contribution, and Yue Lina's happiness now can't tell how much is because of meeting Guo Jingyu.
Some people say that there are two kinds of people in this world who are the rarest of them, one is the woman who accompanies you to suffer when you are young, and the other is the man who accompanies you to enjoy happiness when you are old.
And Yue Lina and Guo Jingyu have undoubtedly met the most cherished people!
I hope that you who read this article can be lucky to meet the right person and protect your own happiness!
Resources:
1. "Super Interview Yue Lina Guo Jingyu The Secret of Running a Marriage"
2. "Look Who's Coming: <娘道>Starring Guo Jingyu Yue Lina and his wife tell life stories"
3. "Chunni's Weekend Time: Guo Jingyu Yue Lina Crazy Dog Food"