Feng Xiaogang is very sorry for his ex-wife, and he admits that he just can't change the stinky problem of liking the new and disgusting the old.
And Zhang Di is not "vegetarian", she dragged Xu Fan's youth for seven years, even if she has no feelings with Feng Xiaogang, but this operation did not let Feng Xiaogang get any benefits.
What's going on with all this?
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Zhang Di was born in an ordinary family, and after graduating from university, she was directly assigned to a hospital in Beijing as a nurse, although she was not rich, but with the iron rice bowl of "nurse", she could rest easy for a lifetime.
One day, Zhang Di's cousin came to the hospital to find Zhang Di and joked: Do you have a boyfriend? Let me introduce you to one.
Zhang Di did not refuse, very quickly agreed, on the weekend, she dressed up beautifully, changed into a newly bought dress, and when she arrived at the date place, she found that her cousin introduced herself to a runny man, Feng Xiaogang.
When Feng Xiaogang was young, he had a pointed mouth and monkey cheeks, long hair, and jeans, which looked like he was engaged in art.
When he saw Zhang Di for the first time, Feng Xiaogang was fascinated by her, and then frantically pursued the other party, in his own words, "love at first sight is often lustful at first sight."
Subsequently, he painted several self-portraits of Zhang Di, unexpectedly, these paintings are more effective than sweet words, Zhang Di feels that Feng Xiaogang is a literary and artistic youth, very talented, secretly affectionate.
Between the two and back, the two confirmed a romantic relationship, Zhang Di's parents knew about it, they were very opposed, Feng Xiaogang's appearance was put aside first, he did not have a proper job, and in the eyes of their generation, people who engage in art are usually improper people.
Feng Xiaogang is very good at sweet talking, Zhang Di wants to marry him with one mind, even if his parents are against it, there is no way.
Another point is that the combination of Zhang Di and Feng Xiaogang is somewhat rebellious, the more her parents oppose it, the more she has to make it for them to see, and finally, Feng Xiaogang married his bride under the opposition of his family.
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After marriage, they didn't have a decent piece of furniture, and the room was dilapidated, but Zhang Di was very happy at this time, cooking for Feng Xiaogang after work and cleaning the house.
In 1990, Zhang Di gave birth to her daughter Feng Siyu, which was a happy thing, but unfortunately, her daughter had a severe cleft lip and palate and needed immediate surgery.
Feng Xiaogang borrowed money from relatives and friends, and did not raise a few eldest sons, just when he was worried about what to do, Feng's mother was paralyzed in bed again. Feng Xiaogang completely collapsed.
Right now, he needs a lot of money, and the only thing he can do is fight hard. Finally, under the recommendation of his friend Zheng Xiaolong, he met Wang Shuo, a bigwig in the Beijing circle.
In order to show favor to Wang Shuo, Feng Xiaogang invited the other party to his home, Zhang Di made a few good dishes, Feng Xiaogang praised Wang Shuo in every sentence, and also recited Wang Shuo's works, asking the other party with adoration.
Wang Shuo couldn't stand Feng Xiaogang's kind words, so he directly accepted Feng Xiaogang as his younger brother and arranged him to serve as a screenwriter in "The Story of the Editorial Department", and the family's life finally came to an end.
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Feng Xiaogang's work is getting busier and busier, and he turns a deaf ear to Zhang Di, and when he sees his slovenly wife holding her daughter busy, he has an indescribable irritability in his heart.
Because she had to take care of her daughter and paralyzed mother-in-law, Zhang Di also neglected her husband, and the two gradually had conflicts, and finally Feng Xiaogang ran away from home, and often used "busy work" as an excuse to no longer go home.
In 1993, Feng Xiaogang's career reached an upward stage, and he was preparing for his work "The Great Sa".
It was also in this crew that he met Wang Zhiwen's girlfriend Xu Fan, and remembered that at the first meeting, Feng Xiaogang said to Ge You: Good looks, but poor acting skills.
Who knew that Xu Fan was behind, Ge You awkwardly moved Feng Xiaogang with his elbow, and Xu Fan was not to be outdone: Evaluate me, and don't look at what you look like.
Although the two were not optimistic about each other, Feng Xiaogang had to admit that Xu Fan was beautiful and had a good personality, much better than Zhang Di at home.
With the kung fu of stalking, Feng Xiaogang began to pursue Xu Fan, and at this time, Xu Fan was swept out by Wang Zhiwen, and the relationship between the two had reached the point of no healing.
In the end, Xu Fan seamlessly connected with Feng Xiaogang, and even confessed: He is my benefactor for life.
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Zhang Di is a smart person who turned a deaf ear to her husband's scandal and let it go, dragging Xu Fan for seven years. By the seventh year, Feng Xiaogang had openly participated in activities with Xu Fan, and the two were not husband and wife.
In the face of the wife of the chaff, Feng Xiaogang really couldn't fault it, but Xu Fan was already in his thirties, and she really couldn't afford to wait.
In the end, Feng Xiaogang and Zhang Di had a showdown and left the family's house and savings to his wife, which was a small compensation. The two divorced smoothly, and Zhang Di said to her daughter: Your father is also not easy, no matter what our relationship is, but your father will always love you.
The more his ex-wife was like this, the more Feng Xiaogang felt guilty, and later, he found the best school for his daughter, let his ex-mother-in-law live in his house, and always did his best when the family had difficulties.
Zhang Di also made concessions, although she has nothing to do with Feng Xiaogang, but still takes care of her former mother-in-law, Feng Xiaogang often inquires about his ex-wife's situation from his daughter's mouth, and tears rain down every time he listens, what he owes Zhang Di in this life, he can't pay it back in the next life.
As the old saying goes: Don't throw away a wife who. But after a man has a little achievement, he will forget this old saying, and nowadays, reporters often harass Zhang Di, but she is very bland: don't bother me, I just want to live quietly.
Gritting his teeth and stamping his feet, Zhang Di walked out of the marriage grave, and Feng Xiaogang also lived the life he wanted and fulfilled each other, which is very good.