In 2000, Liu Xuehua, who was 41 years old, happily married Deng Yukun, who was 13 years older than her, after experiencing the complicated wrong love with Liu Dekai that she still remembers to this day.
After marriage, she has been with her husband and lived a good life of concubine, but unfortunately, this happy life lasted only 11 years and came to an end.
In 2011, at the age of 52, she experienced the loss of her father, and less than three months after her father's death, her husband died unexpectedly.
Liu Xuehua, who lost her father and husband one after another, has been immersed in great grief since then, and only reappeared in front of the public in 2015.
Since the death of her husband, Liu Xuehua has been living alone, everyone thought that she would always stick to her husband, but in the 10th year of her living alone, that is, in 2021, she actually revealed the idea of wanting to remarry.
Liu Xuehua, who has lived alone for 11 years now, what has she experienced after the death of her father and husband one after another? How is it now?
One
Liu Xuehua, nicknamed "Yaya", was born in November 1959 in Beijing to a family of high-ranking intellectuals, her father graduated from Shanghai's Hujiang University, the predecessor of today's University of Shanghai for Science and Technology, and the famous poet Xu Zhimo was an alumnus of the university.
Liu Xuehua has many brothers and sisters in her family, she is the youngest, and there are four brothers and sisters above her, because of her young age, both her parents and older siblings love her very much.
Although she was born in Beijing, Liu Xuehua did not grow up here, and when she was 5 years old, her family moved from the north to the south to live in Hong Kong.
Since their parents are intellectuals, they naturally hope that their children can become literate people, so from childhood to adulthood, Liu Xuehua and her brothers and sisters have received a very good education, in addition to maintaining good cultural performance, but also to study various extracurricular courses.
At the age of 12, under the arrangement of her father, Liu Xuehua began to learn to paint, although she was young, but she was very talented in art, and each painting was full of strong personal color, and she could be praised by her teacher every time.
Seeing that Liu Xuehua's talent in painting was so high, her father also intended to let her work hard in the direction of painter, but she did not go according to her father's expectations.
When she was in middle school, it happened that the Hong Kong entertainment industry was rising, and many star artists emerged and developed very well.
Liu Xuehua, who has an outstanding appearance, naturally wants to enter the entertainment industry to show her strength, so that more people can see her and become an artist that everyone likes.
After learning her idea, her friend Lin Chuchu also supported her very much to pursue her dreams and encouraged her to apply for a film company, but her father raised strong opposition to this.
In her father's opinion, the water in the entertainment industry is particularly deep, and it is very hard, it is not easy to get through it, it is better to study well and find a stable job in the future.
For her father's dissuasion, Liu Xuehua did not listen, and she wanted to enter the entertainment industry, and after graduating from middle school, she embarked on a journey to chase her dream.
Two
In 1978, 19-year-old Liu Xuehua gave up the opportunity to continue studying after graduating from middle school and was admitted to Great Wall Film Company.
Due to her pure appearance and particularly good temperament, not long after entering the company, she was arranged to participate in works such as "Can't Help It", "The Unhappy Family", "Tongtian Linji", "The Legend of the White-haired Witch" and so on, but unfortunately the attention attracted was not high.
Seeing that the development of Great Wall Film Company for three years was tepid, in 1981, when Liu Xuehua was about to expire, he cooperated with Hong Kong TVB, commonly known as TVB, two works: "His Life" and "Thief of Magic Hands".
Although TVB's two works did not make her popular, TVB's senior management took a look at her development prospects, intended to sign her to the flag, and even said to her: "As long as you sign, you can cooperate with Zhou Yunfa next." ”
At that time, Chow Yun-fat was already red and purple in Hong Kong, and TVB recruited Liu Xuehua by cooperating with Chow Yun-fat, which shows that they attach great importance to Liu Xuehua.
However, Liu Xuehua did not contract with TVB because of this, and after thinking twice, she finally signed a contract with Shaw Film Company.
During the period of Shaw's development, Liu Xuehua successively participated in works such as "Demon World", "Wulin Holy Fire Order", "Yang Guo and Xiaolongnu" and so on.
Since almost all of the supporting roles she participated in, her performance in these works was similar to before, and she did not attract too much attention from the audience.
It was not until 1983, after co-starring with ATV in the work "Girl Cixi", that she finally became popular with the role of "Cixi" in the play and became a popular actor in Hong Kong.
Since becoming popular with the drama "Girl Cixi", Liu Xuehua, who had a mediocre career before, has also ushered in her development path of popularity.
Three
Since 1984, Liu Xuehua, who has established a foothold in the entertainment industry, has participated in two successive films directed by famous Taiwanese director Liu Lili, starring her and Mo Shaocong, and "Swordsman" starring her and Liang Jiaren.
Because of her good performance in both works, director Liu Lili particularly appreciated her, and then recommended her to the famous writer, screenwriter, film and television producer Qiong Yao, and after being favored by Qiong Yao, she started her career in Qiong Yao drama.
In 1985, at the age of 26, she participated in her first Qiong Yao drama in her life, called "A Few Sunsets Red", in which she played the role of the female number one "Li Mengzhu".
And Liu Xuehua, who fully interpreted the image of great love and beauty on the role, successfully made a name for herself in Taiwan with this role after the hit of her work.
Immediately afterwards, Liu Xuehua participated in the Qiong Yao drama "Smoke and Rain", playing the role of the beautiful and strong "Lu Yiping".
It was also this year that she moved to Taiwan, and then focused her development on the Taiwanese entertainment industry.
In the following few years, under the support of Qiong Yao, Liu Xuehua successively filmed a series of Qiong Yao dramas such as "Clouds Fly Where Seagulls Fly", "Dumb Wife", "Three Flowers", "Xue Ke", "Qingqing River Grass" and so on.
Among them, the drama "Dumb Wife", starring her and Lin Ruiyang, Jin Chaoqun and other actors, also won the "Best Serial Drama Award" at the Taiwan Golden Bell Award after it was broadcast, which shows how popular this work is.
When her career was booming, Liu Xuehua also gained love and met two men successively.
Four
The first man she met was named Zhang Peihua, who was 5 years older and a native of Taiwan.
In 1989, they met during the filming process, and the two who fell in love with the play soon came together naturally.
What Liu Xuehua did not expect was that unlike most boys when they fell in love, others were thinking about love after falling in love, thinking about how to create romance and surprises for their girlfriends, etc., but Zhang Peihua put her mind on the dog.
Every time after filming, Liu Xuehua thought that he would ask her out to eat, go shopping, watch movies, etc., but the other party put all his energy on his dog.
Later, when Liu Xuehua recalled this relationship in the program, she still said incomprehensibly: "He is all on the dog!" ”
Because of this, Liu Xuehua's relationship came and went quickly, and it didn't take long to end the relationship with him.
After separating from Zhang Peihua, in 1990, when Liu Xuehua was filming the work "Love in the Wind", she met Liu Dekai, who was 6 years older than her and born in 1953.
Liu Dekai's ancestral home is Weifang, Shandong, born in an acting family in Kaohsiung City, Taiwan Province, his father Liu Di is an executive in the Taiwan branch of Hong Kong's Shaw Company, and his brother Liu Deyu is also engaged in film work.
In 1980, Liu Dekai entered the entertainment industry with a "Autumn Water Long Days" cooperated with Xiao Fangfang, and for more than ten years, he has been in the entertainment industry, but I don't know why, obviously resources and contacts have nothing to say, but he has never become popular.
When Liu Xuehua met him, she was already a household name, but Liu Dekai, who debuted for more than ten years, was still in a tepid state.
But despite this, under Liu Dekai's sweet words, Liu Xuehua fell in love with him desperately and came together with him.
After the two fell in love, with the help of Liu Xuehua's high popularity and popularity, Liu Dekai's career developed rapidly, and he successively filmed film and television works such as "New Moon Gege", "A Curtain of Dreams", "The Legend of a Thousand Autumn Heroes", "There are Tears in the Sky", "Jiaqing Microservice Private Visit" and other film and television works.
At that time, Liu Xuehua, after seeing her boyfriend's career develop, she was sincerely happy for the other party, but she did not expect the other party to quietly leave her.
Five
In 1997, Liu Xuehua, who was deeply in love with Liu Dekai, was planning to marry Liu Dekai, when she not only made a marriage contract with Liu Dekai, but also became pregnant with his child.
As a result, during this period, Liu Dekai met a French girl named Angel because of filming, and then he disregarded the marriage contract and Liu Xuehua, who was pregnant, and came together with Anqi.
In the same year, when Liu Xuehua was still fantasizing about marrying Liu Dekai, Liu Dekai took An Qi's hand and walked into the palace of marriage and held a grand wedding.
Seeing that the other party not only betrayed this relationship, but also reaped happiness in front of her openly, Liu Xuehua's heart can be imagined.
Because she was more than six months pregnant at the time, considering that the child was innocent, she planned to give birth to the child, but unfortunately accidentally fell and the child was lost, so she could not have another child.
Liu Xuehua, who was hurt by his feelings, once faded out of the public's sight, and never shot new works or started a new romance.
It wasn't until 1999, two years after she lost her love and children, that she met Deng Yukun, who was 13 years older than her, that she regained her vision of love.
Deng Yukun, as a famous screenwriter and producer in Taiwan, although not as famous as Liu Xuehua, he has also participated in the production of many excellent film and television works.
Among them, the classic hit drama "Bao Qingtian" starring Jin Chaoqun in the series "True and False Champion", "Gui Bao Mian", "The First Zhuang in the World", "Xiaozi Zhang Luo", "Beggar Wang Sun" and other works were written by him.
In addition, he has also created film and television works including "Plum Blossom" and "Golden Fan Family", and as a screenwriter, his achievements are really not to be said.
Liu Xuehua once met Deng Yukun when filming the work "Silly Forrest Gump", but there was not much intersection at that time, until they met again at a friend party for dinner, and the two ate delicious hairy crabs together, and this time they forged a fate.
At that time, Liu Xuehua was in a window of feelings, in the face of Deng Yukun's cold and warm questions, as well as meticulous care and care, she was quickly captured by him, and later in the face of Deng Yukun's marriage proposal, she happily agreed.
In 2000, not long after falling in love, the two of them happily entered the palace of marriage, because Liu Xuehua was pregnant and lost a child before, leaving the problem of not being able to have another child, so after marrying Deng Yukun, the couple has not had children.
In the company and care of Deng Yukun, Liu Xuehua slowly let go of the past after marriage and returned to the development of the entertainment industry.
Six
In 2006, Liu Xuehua returned to participate in the drama "Mother's Heart After Spring", and she failed to become a mother in her life and played a great mother in the play.
With her superb acting skills, she portrayed this role deeply in the hearts of the people and received a lot of people's attention.
Later, as before, Liu Xuehua has been developing in the entertainment industry, and will participate in good works when encountered, just to bring good works to the audience.
In 2011, she returned to the mainland to participate in two works successively, "Palace Lock Heart Jade" and "The Biography of Zhen Huan", which created another career peak and gained a large number of audiences and fans who love her.
But unfortunately, it was also this year that she suffered the grief of losing her father and husband one after another.
In April 2011, Liu Xuehua's father died of illness and left her, which she was particularly saddened by and gave up all the work she was doing.
At that time, her husband Deng Yukun had been by her side to accompany her and enlighten her, but she did not expect that before she could come out of the pain of losing her father, another bad news came again.
On July 4 of the same year, she and her husband Deng Yukun were watching TV at home, due to poor signal, Deng Yukun went to adjust the outdoor satellite TV receiver, but unexpectedly fell off the building, so he died, and at this time, less than three months have passed since Liu Xuehua's father died.
In this way, Liu Xuehua, who lost her father and husband one after another at the age of 52, seemed to have aged overnight and faded out of the public's sight again.
It was not until 2015, under the healing of time, that she slowly walked out of the pain of losing her father and husband, and she returned to the entertainment industry.
Seven
Since 2015, Liu Xuehua, who has made a comeback again, has successively filmed works such as "Lu Xiaofeng and Flowers Full of Buildings", "Splendid Weiyang", "Hua Xie Flowers Flying in the Sky", "Memory Cutting", "Lai Cat's Lion Reflection", "You Are My Destiny", "Ultimate Note" and other works.
In September 2021, at the age of 62, she was invited to participate in the reality show "Under the Roof", which allowed her to expose her life over the years after the death of her husband.
Liu Xuehua revealed in the program that since the death of her husband, she has been in a state of being alone for ten years after that, and has not gained new happiness.
Due to the lack of a new relationship, and for various reasons she did not have children in her life, she had to live alone and live her life alone.
Many people think that she doesn't want to start a new relationship, but in fact, she is not, it's just that she hasn't met the right one.
In this regard, she said in the program: "If you can meet a good husband now, of course, it is better, this age is also difficult, I myself know ..."
And judging from Liu Xuehua's words, the reason why she wants to remarry in her later years is actually very simple, she doesn't want to live alone, she doesn't want to be old and helpless in the future, she wants to have a dependent.
This, she said on the show: "If one day you accidentally fall, or what you do, no one knows." ”
It is worth saying that in fact, it is not only her who has to face such a problem, behind her living alone, there is also the pain of 100 million people.
Because it is understood that there are currently more than 200 million elderly people over 60 years old in China, and more than 100 million people living alone and empty nesters, that is to say, more than 100 million people have concerns like Liu Xuehua and will face problems.
For the reason why Liu Xuehua wants to remarry, everyone can't hold back tears while feeling helpless, because this is really too realistic.
However, although she longs for happiness and longs to be accompanied by someone, she has not given up on herself.
Since she has never met the right person, she has been in a state of living alone and has not rushed to develop new feelings.
Eight
Now in 2022, Liu Xuehua is 63 years old, and she has been living alone for 11 years since the death of her husband Deng Yukun.
Although her life alone is a little lonely, she still lives a very good life.
She has nothing to do shopping, take a walk, study cooking and grow flowers at home, and although she is only accompanied by her dog, she still lives a colorful life.
Although she is no longer young, out of her love for her acting career and in order to make her later life less boring, she still insists on developing in the entertainment industry.
Among them, in this year's hit "Flying Fox Gaiden", we can see her figure, although she plays only a supporting role in "Mrs. Shang", but still attracted a lot of people's attention.
For Liu Xuehua now, she no longer has the luxury of how well she can develop in her career and how good results she can achieve, as long as she can continue to bring new works to the audience, in fact, she is already satisfied.
As for feelings, as before, she is yearning and expecting on the one hand, and adhering to her standards on the other hand, and has not compromised for the sake of life.
As for when Liu Xuehua can harvest new happiness and have someone by her side, it depends on when her fate with the other party comes, and I hope she can meet her favorite partner as soon as possible.
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