The aunt was very beautiful when she was young, she was a well-known local beauty, and her suitors were endless, and she later married a college classmate, and for a while, the fairy couple was envious of others.
But the sister-in-law and his wife are both staunch Dink, no matter how the old people in the family persuade, they insist on themselves and still refuse to have children.
Don't get me wrong, it's not because of economic pressure or the like, at that time, my aunt's family was still relatively wealthy, and both of her husband had stable jobs, and insisting on Dink was completely their own idea.
But now that my sister-in-law has passed away, and she is old, she wants me to give her a pension, but the house in her name is not given to me, but it is left to her husband's nephew, should I give her a pension?
What is the Dink?
The most reasonable definition of "Dink" is that there is a ability but refuses to give birth and raise children, and it stands to reason that "Dink" culture has no market in China, but with the impact of Western culture and the improvement of people's education level, many couples have begun Dink life.
Since the early 90s, the number of Dink families has been growing steadily in the cities of the interior.
And the reason why they choose Dink life, most people's answer is that they don't want to be bound and want to live a more relaxed and happy life.
This is actually a relatively selfish and irresponsible approach, and the consequences of provoking are equally terrible, that is, facing the dilemma of old age and helplessness.
The old and helpless "Dink" family
Just like the sister-in-law in the text, many Dinks will face this situation, when they are young, they will say very dashingly, as long as there is money, there is nothing in modern society that money cannot solve.
But in fact, the reality is not so full, even if you have money to support your life in a nursing home, but if there is no family behind you, your life in a nursing home will be very miserable, bullied by other elderly people, bullied by caregivers, when encountering this kind of thing, you simply cannot and cannot solve it.
The author suggests
Should this fan in the article give her aunt a pension, I think the young have to teach, the old have dependence, this is the principle of heaven and earth, if the aunt does not have the grace of nurturing you, I think you can live up to this responsibility, why should the house be left to the nephew of the husband's family, but I want you to retire? That's not how it works.
If you will be condemned and morally kidnapped by the family because of this, don't bother!
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