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#Headline Creation Challenge#The world of adults, feelings cannot withstand perfunctory, and once ignored, they will begin to quietly alienate. You don't smell, I don't ask. Slowly, each other becomes less important. Slowly, it evolved from the distance of the body to the distance between the heart, and the distance between each other's hearts was far away, and the relationship should come to an end. All this has nothing to do with how much I once loved...
Zuo Xiaoqing, at the age of 32, was not afraid of the gossip of others, and resolutely married Gao Quanjian, a rich man who was 20 years older than him.
At that time, she was beautiful and her career was booming, and among many suitors, she chose the high power that brought her a full sense of security.
In Gao Quanjian, Zuo Xiaoqing can be completely dependent and rest assured to be a little girl, and Gao Quanjian's responsibility and responsibility make her fall in love and can't extricate herself.
The outside world has been talking about Gao Quanjian's "advanced age" can be her father, but Zuo Xiaoqing did not take the words of others seriously. She generously expressed her heart: "I didn't think so much, I met the person I love and definitely want to get married, everything is natural." ”
Married for a year and gave birth to a daughter, named Gao Ziqi.
In order to have more time and energy to take care of her daughter and family, she reduced her workload and spent more time enjoying the happiness of being a wife and mother.
When her daughter grew up a little, she returned to her normal work...
However, as soon as the work gets busy, new problems immediately become prominent...
Gao Quanjian works in Hong Kong, and Zuo Xiaoqing spends most of his time in Beijing, and the two are often not together. There are only a few times that husband and wife meet, and the understanding and tolerance that they can show to each other have made the relationship cold because of the lack of companionship. The enthusiasm of the year receded with time, and they eventually ended in divorce.
Zuo Xiaoqing, who was brave for love back then, now because she is not in love, she still has the strength to face the end of the breakup, and she generously posted a divorce: "It starts with love and ends with friendship." Happy growth of my daughter is the greatest wish. Getting married, divorced or not married are all multiple-choice questions, just choose the happy life you want. Don't make up your brain, no melon, don't tear. ”
Zuo Xiaoqing is also a rare good example of divorce in the entertainment industry.
Love is like this, no one dares to guarantee that their love will definitely lead to an inseparable family end, and on the marriage train, it is inevitable that someone will get off in advance. As long as you don't make it too ugly when you leave the scene, it is also decent.
Perhaps, it is precisely because of this decent exit from each other that Zuo Xiaoqing did not lose confidence in love because of the failure of a marriage. She is frank that she still believes in love, longs for love, and has expectations for love at any time.
For the future direction of relationships, she said: "Fate still has to be touched, if you meet happiness, if you touch it, it is a waste of time." So I think first of all, it is better to make yourself strong, maybe love will come at the right time. ”
Although there are also some netizens who are quite critical of her divorce, saying that her marriage with Gao Quanjian began with money, and she was fancy that people were rich and not too old. Now that I have money, I hate people who are old, saying that there is no love, divorce can divide the money of the rich, and so on.
However, she herself still let go very freely, and now ignores the suspicion and even slander of others, just as she was not afraid of other people's gossip. As long as you don't regret the result of your choice, what others think and say is someone else's business.
Marriage is originally about its own agenda. It's just that everyone's picture is different, some people picture each other's goodness to themselves, some people picture each other's handsome and beautiful, some people picture each other's family background, and some people picture is the brocade and jade food with each other... Which is right? Which is wrong again? I'm afraid there is no uniform measurement.
"Love without regret, discrete and not tear each other", this is the most decent adult gathering and dispersion.
Marriage and divorce are the norm of life. Marrying an uncle or a little fresh meat is originally an individual's independent choice, and others cannot interfere. Don't be so harsh on an actor, in addition to the public identity of the actor, she is first and foremost a woman, a woman who was once willing to be brave for love, and a single mother who is now working hard to make money by filming in order to make a better life for her daughter.
We all need to understand that adult feelings, under the test of time and distance, sometimes really become extremely fragile, so fragile that they will break when touched.
We also need to learn to be grateful: grateful to have you with me, although it is only a journey, but that road with you is so beautiful, do not regret falling in love with you, so, it is good.