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According to Japanese media, table tennis celebrity Fukuhara Ai was recently sued by her live-in boyfriend's ex-wife, who demanded that Fukuhara Ai compensate her for mental damage of 11 million yuan (about 540,000 yuan) for her extramarital affair with her husband.
Fukuhara's live-in boyfriend's ex-wife said in the accusation that in March 2021, Fukuhara Ai dated her ex-husband, but they were not divorced at the time, and she also showed Fukuhara Ai's "love letter" to the man a month before their divorce.
Japanese media also said: Fukuhara Ai and Jiang Hongjie, a table tennis player from Taiwan Province of China, broke down their marriage at the end of 2020, and in March 2021, she dated the new boyfriend who has not yet divorced in Japan, and lived together for many days, only more than three months apart.
This shows that Fukuhara Ai quickly fell into another complicated relationship at the same time when the previous marriage was still cut - and without knowing whether the other party was married, which is obviously very consistent with the typical characteristics of what is often called "love brain"!
The so-called "love brain" mainly refers to desperately investing in feelings, taking love first as the lead, making more concessions for the other party without principle, and even not hesitating to give up personality independence, too much obedience, dependence on each other, but in the end may lose themselves, often end up losing the collection of feelings, becoming a loser in love and marriage.
Saying that Fukuhara Ai belongs to the "love brain" type, let's take a look at some of her performances in the relationship process:
Fukuhara Ai, as the first sister of Japanese women's table tennis at that time, because she has been training and competing in China since she was a child, her fans including China and Japan, and her commercial value is also extremely high, and her professional achievements, image and income have ranked first among Japanese table tennis players, but after she met Jiang Hongjie's "chase and fierce beating" that year, she quickly married this "nameless" who was handsome and handsome, but had average grades and income.
In a reality show, Fukuhara Ai publicly told his friend Wang Nan that he cried secretly many times at home because he was not understood by his husband's family, and Wang Nan also taught Jiang Hongjie a lesson on the spot.
After it was reported that the red light of their marriage, there was Fukuhara Ai's girlfriend who said that she was subjected to "cold violence" at Jiang Hongjiang's house, and also said that Fukuhara Ai, who is a famous table tennis player, kneels to her husband every day to greet her, which is very "virtuous" for ordinary women in Japanese families, but in the end, Jiang Hongjie's family, who mainly relied on Fukuhara Ai's income to support the family, failed to hold this "Lin sister falling from the sky" in the palm of her hand, but quickly smashed it to the ground and broke her feelings.
And here it was reported that the marriage of the two hit the rocks, and it was only more than three months before the news that Fukuhara Ai was living with an undivorced man by the Japanese media - this behavior highlights the typical example of Fukuhara Ai's "love brain": it is quick to invest in feelings, but it is easy to lack a sense of security, and the sensibility is always greater than the rationality, and in the end, flammable feelings, it is also the most likely to burn itself!
Fukuhara Ai's "love brain" consequences have indeed damaged its own image - especially in Japan, which pays attention to "women's ways", for example, in the "Top 100 Extraordinary Artists in Japan List" sponsored by Japanese media by housewives, Fukuhara Ai was rated as the first place. There are also many complaints from parents demanding that the content of articles about Fukuhara Ai's inspirational work be removed from elementary school texts in Japan.
However, Fukuhara Ai, whose image in Japan has been damaged, has received more support in China - mainly due to her cute and sweet "porcelain doll" image in China, especially her "big ballast" authentic Northeast dialect, so that Chinese fans have regarded it as "our Chinese doll", so to a great extent, most Chinese fans have forgiven this "love brain" Japanese table tennis celebrity.
If we trace the origin of Fukuhara's "love brain" to how it was formed, it is obviously related to the comprehensive influence of his personality, experience and environment - especially Fukuhara's divorced family since childhood, his mother's strict ping-pong training and education.
First, Ai Fukuhara has been training in table tennis under the strict supervision of her mother since she was a child, and even wiped her tears and played non-stop.
Children who are too strict by the family often yearn for and pursue external feelings, as well as the degree of investment, are stronger than children who enjoy a full warm family love environment from an early age, and when they grow up, the impulse to seek love from outside their parents is very strong, and the phenomenon of love burning the brain is more likely to occur.
And Fukuhara loves the divorce of her parents, such a native family situation has a greater impact on her emotional tendency - children in such an environment are often more sensitive in personality, and in the lack of a sense of security in the growing environment, it is easier to be moved by external feelings, and they will be too eager and enthusiastic to invest in emotional needs and comfort, then the phenomenon of "family love" will be accompanied by it.
Of course, just like in Qiong Yao's works, almost everyone is a "family lover" type of person, such a "love animal" does have a very cute side - who doesn't desire and have such a wonderful person born for love?
However, the reality is not completely pure emotional purity, but a rough life that is real to the pain of life, so the "love brains" will often go the wrong way, or meet people and other tragedies, will come out one after another like Fukuhara Ai, constantly staged in human society... [Original comment: Yu said to rest]