In 2001, Liu Yijun's wife insisted on a divorce.
Looking at his wife with a determined face, Liu Yijun said helplessly:
"It's okay to divorce, but you have to grant me a request!"
When he finished his request, his wife's face became angry.
She cursed: "If you want to be beautiful, I will definitely not agree!" ”
Liu Yijun, who was once a stunning in the world, experienced such a failed marriage.
So what kind of changes has his life gone to?
In 1970, Liu Yijun was born in a scientific research family in Shaanxi.
His parents worked in geological research and had a high level of education.
Therefore, he often taught Liu Yijun to study well.
When he was four years old, his parents took Liu Yijun to the movies together.
Liu Yijun saw the stories about the fireworks world on the big screen.
He can't help but hope that he can also become a film actor in the future.
In 1987, Liu Yijun and his friend Zhang Jiayi pushed their luggage into the campus of the Beijing Film Academy.
Facing the upcoming four years, they still have some expectations in their hearts.
When he was young, Liu Yijun had a "peerless" face, with delicate and white skin and deep and well-behaved facial features.
When many people saw him, they suspected that he was a girl with short haircuts.
As soon as he arrived in the school, Liu Yijun attracted the attention of many people.
Among them was a girl named Li Run.
Li Run is the oldest girl in their class.
She happened to be at the same table with Liu Yijun, and seeing Liu Yijun's beauty, Li Run laughed heartily.
Say hello to Liu Yijun and stretch out his hand, wanting to shake his hand.
Where has Liu Yijun seen such a battle?
Suddenly a little panicked in his heart, he tentatively stretched out his hand and shook Li Run's hand.
In the next second, as if frightened, he bounced his hand away, and his ears were red to the base of his ears.
After Li Run saw such a scene, he immediately became curious.
She found that Liu Yijun was a very shy man, and his appearance was really "worthy of the name".
Because of this, later Li Run began to tease Liu Yijun many times.
Even when I saw Liu Yijun in school, I laughed and threw myself at him, chasing him to shake his hand.
Liu Yijun's face blushed from the beginning, and then he simply looked down a lot.
When Li Run rushed at him, he calmly opened his arms and asked her with a smile: "You come." ”
Li Run watched Liu Yijun suddenly become so active, but did not dare to make it again.
Stopping, a pair of almond eyes glared at him.
Liu Yijun watched, and a cloud of red light suddenly flew up on her cheeks.
It turned out that in these seemingly boring plays, Li Run had long secretly promised Liu Yijun.
Not long after, the two became a couple on campus.
Liu Yijun also left a gentle kiss on Li Run's forehead.
But the relationship did not last long, and the two parted ways.
Liu Yijun did not blossom in love, but waited for an opportunity to make a movie.
In 1990, Liu Yijun was studying at the Beijing Film Academy.
Suddenly there was an opportunity to come to the door and let him play the male protagonist Wen Xiang.
After learning the news, Liu Yijun happily entered the crew.
In the crew, he met actress Da Song Jia.
At that time, Da Song Jia was already a film queen.
But Liu Yijun is a fledgling, young and immature teenager, and his acting skills have not been polished too much.
Even the whole person looks a little like "stunned".
In the face of the queen, he does not know how to humbly avoid and hide the edge.
At that time, 20-year-old Liu Yijun and Da Song Jia met in the crew.
Liu Yijun saw that the other staff members were respectfully greeting Da Song Jia.
Liu Yijun had just finished putting on makeup at that time, and the inferior lipstick used by the makeup artist was sticky and a little uncomfortable.
So I didn't bother to speak, but I just raised my eyes and glanced at Da Song Jia sloppily, intending to say hello in this way.
However, his way of greeting was looked at by Da Song Jia.
But it was a sign of not very respect, so Da Song Jia was angry.
Say to him, "Don't you say hello when you see me?" ”
When Liu Yijun heard these words, he was immediately stunned.
He felt that Da Song Jia's tone was too impulsive, after all, he had done nothing wrong.
After a moment of grievance, he defended himself a few words.
But this justification, Song Jia was even more angry.
After a while, Liu Yijun arrived at the crew to learn that his luggage had been packed, and he was fired by the crew.
After learning the news, Liu Yijun did not complain and silently returned to school.
Several of his brothers on the upper bunk patted him on the shoulder and asked him sympathetically, what was the reason for his expulsion?
Liu Yijun shook his head, did not say a word, and his brother continued to comfort him:
"Don't worry, brother, your look, you will be red everywhere, this group doesn't want us, let's go to the next one!"
In this way, Liu Yijun regretted to finish his four years of college.
After graduation, Liu Yijun returned to his hometown of Shaanxi and came to Xi'an Film Studio.
The studios at that time were so strong that he never had a chance to emerge.
Liu Yijun, who was unwilling to be buried, looked for a breakthrough everywhere.
After traveling to Shaanxi, Ningbo and Beijing, Liu Yijun finally got more opportunities to film.
At the age of 27, Liu Yijun met a director named Kong Sheng in the crew of "Romantic Journey".
Kong Sheng politely handed the wine glass in his hand to Liu Yijun:
"Teacher Liu, I have long admired the name, I have been doing videography for so many years before, but this is the first play I directed, thank you so much for trusting me to be the star of this play!"
Speaking, Kong Sheng drank the wine in his cup: "Teacher Liu, you drink a glass and do it for our play!" ”
Seeing Kong Sheng's bold personality, Liu Yijun was also very happy, and quickly dried this wine.
Waiting for this glass of wine to be down, his heart was hot, and Liu Yijun made a promise through the wine:
"If you have a new drama in the future, you can also find me to shoot, I'll wait!"
Kong Sheng remembered Liu Yijun's promise after the filming of "Romantic Journey".
Kong Sheng introduced him to the crew of "Human Ghost Love", and he had a lot more plays than before.
Although it is still not a big hit, in his eyes, there is a scene that is already good.
During this time, Liu Yijun met a white-collar worker outside the circle.
The two met on a blind date and entered the palace of marriage at the age of 27.
In the second year of their marriage, their son Liu Yitong fell to the ground.
The birth of his son surprised Liu Yijun, and he held this big fat boy and couldn't close his mouth at all.
He also solemnly vowed to let this child live a better life.
However, during that time, Liu Yijun was still in a state of being buried.
In addition to the appreciation of director Kong Sheng, he usually can only play dragon tricks and supporting roles many times.
During that time, the wife had the idea of divorce.
When I was with him, I felt that he was working every day, and life was too boring.
She didn't like that life at all.
Liu Yijun shrugged helplessly, he knew that his wife was no longer willing to be with him.
No matter how much he retained, nothing came of it.
So he made a humble request.
He wants his wife to give up custody of the children, and he wants the children to grow up by his side.
After a soft grinding with his wife for a while, Liu Yijun finally asked for custody of the children at the cost of leaving the house.
After his wife left Liu Yijun completely, Liu Yijun felt very confused for a long time.
Without his wife's company, the child had to live a hard life with him.
Fortunately, Liu Yijun quickly walked out of the haze of this relationship.
He threw one of his hearts completely into his career.
He didn't care about anything but his career, except for his son.
When people saw him like this, they all felt very worried, is he going to be so lonely until he is old?
When Liu Yijun was 40 years old, a friend God mysteriously told Liu Yijun.
He felt that Liu Yijun was also not small, and he should get married!
Liu Yijun smiled helplessly, saying that in his current state, it should be difficult to get married.
My friend shook his head heartily and said that he knew a female executive.
Female executives have had successful careers, but have not married for so many years.
Because she is so good, it is difficult for the men around her to be worthy of her.
So pick and choose, and the rest is now.
Hearing these news, Liu Yijun was a little moved and agreed to meet with female executives to try.
After meeting the female executive, Sven Sven, with long curly hair, looked gentle.
A feeling of shame suddenly appeared in Liu Yijun's heart.
He felt that he was a little unworthy of the other party.
After all, the other party was born in a real prestigious school and has a stable career.
Although he is an actor, he is not necessarily worthy of a woman.
But after this contact, Liu Yijun had a deep liking for the woman.
He hopes to develop further with girls.
So every time he came back from filming in other areas, he would bring her some small gifts, which were carefully selected souvenirs from the local area.
Once he was filming in the Yantai area, a female executive made a special trip to buy tickets to see him.
Liu Yijun was overjoyed and specially asked the crew for a day off to accompany her to climb the mountain and watch the sea.
The female executive was completely moved by him and wanted to enter the palace of marriage with him.
But it faces a dilemma:
"Her career at that time was at its peak, and if she married Liu Yijun, she would have to make certain trade-offs, and she would have to spend time managing the marriage instead of her career."
At that juncture, the female executive thought for a long time, and also poured out her hesitation to Liu Yijun.
After Liu Yijun listened to these words, he held back for a long time and finally came up with a sentence:
"It doesn't matter, we earn more and spend more, and if we earn less, we spend less, no matter what!"
Listening to Liu Yijun's comfort, the female executive's face blossomed with a smile.
She seemed to realize something, nodded heavily, and determined what she really thought in her heart.
She still made up her mind and gave up her successful career.
On the day of his departure, Liu Yijun was a little worried, afraid that his girlfriend would feel sad about it.
He also tentatively asked her if she needed comfort?
Unexpectedly, she turned around very heartily and comforted her: "It's me who doesn't want to do it myself." ”
Today, Liu Yijun has reached the age of 52 and lives very happily with his wife.
They also successfully raised their child Liu Yitong, and Liu Yitong grew up to become a handsome little fresh meat boy.
On stage with his father, Liu Yijun acted too intimately.
Criticized as harassing Xiao Xianrou, he cried and laughed and clarified, and people knew that this was an oolong.
The best state of life in life is to have a wife and children hot kangtou.
Give the family ardent protection with warmth and true affection;
With career blessings, you can earn a little more money for your family.
Epilogue:
Looking back on Liu Yijun's half of his life, he had a failed marriage.
Life has also experienced ups and downs, but fortunately, he finally found someone who truly loved him.
Finally out of the pain of marital misfortune.
And to live to death, to achieve their own persistence.
Perhaps, heaven may take a nap for a while.
Fail a hard-working and sincere person, but you will never be let down forever.
As long as you are willing to persevere, willing to work hard.
One day, love and career may come a little late, but they will always come.
From the age of 27 to 40, these 13 years may be a very long time compared to a person's life.
And Liu Yijun used these 13 years to forge a better self.
Let yourself finally have the ability and opportunity to usher in the next sincere love.
Obtained a double harvest of career and love, which is undoubtedly a reminder to us: "Don't let anxiety spread, don't be arrogant or impetuous, is the best choice." ”