In 2002, Tongari took a set of "body art photos". In the era when art forms were relatively guarded, Tongari was the first person to take Chinese art photos.
It's just that Tongari didn't expect that her group of photos would be so successful, but her family would be torn apart. After the photo was released, many people commented: It is against customs.
Because the husband could not accept to file for divorce, the conservative father felt even more "ashamed" and ignored his biological daughter. In the face of everyone's incomprehension, even at the cost of the family.
Tongari said very plainly: I will not regret it! Now 20 years later, Tongari, who has lost her family and affection, is still single, does she regret her decision?
Excellent athletic talent
Tongari's father is a veteran and has been very strict about his daughter's physical education since she was a child. But in the mother's opinion, the girl should be a gentle little princess. Therefore, when her daughter was in elementary school, she sent her daughter to learn dance.
Perhaps Tongari inherited her father's sports genes, and Tongari has shown her talent in sports since she was a child, in fact, if you want to become a dancer, musicality and body coordination are equally important.
In the eyes of the teacher, Tongari's body proportion is very superior, which is very suitable for taking the path of professional dancers. Just to everyone's surprise, Tongari was inadvertently favored by a gymnastics coach at the age of nine.
From dance to gymnast, the happiest person in this transition is Tongari's father. Thinking that her daughter can become a sports star, she is very supportive of her daughter's learning gymnastics.
With the support of her father, Tong Jiali quickly stood out and won two gold medals for the Anhui provincial team in just a few years of study. Become a sought-after athlete.
Seeing their daughter win two gold medals, Tongari's parents are very happy and hope that their daughter will continue to maintain good results. However, the parents' expectations were finally lost.
First of all, the profession of rhythmic gymnastics is regarded as a youth meal, and few athletes have not retired over the age of 20. In addition, it is also related to Tongari's personal hobbies.
Because she has been exposed to dance since childhood, Tongari prefers dancing to hard gymnastics exercises. At that time, the parents considered their daughter's age and hobbies, and finally agreed to their daughter's request.
He took his daughter to visit famous teachers, and let her daughter attend Anhui Art Institute, specializing in dance. In the eyes of Tongari's parents, it is also very good if their daughter becomes a professional dancer in the future.
It's just that Tong Jiali's parents did not expect that their daughter was born to be a seedling of dancers, and after studying in the Anhui Art School system, with excellent body shape, she was successfully admitted to the dream school of Chinese dancers - North Dance.
Because of Tongari's delicate facial features and extremely high dance talent, she quickly stood out among dancers of her age. Not only was he invited to record TV programs, but he was also lucky enough to be selected by the Oriental Song and Dance Troupe.
Meet love
Since stepping onto the stage, Tongari's unyielding character has forced her to be extremely demanding of herself, and in order to have more opportunities to become famous, Tongari has also studied acting specifically to bring the audience a better stage.
However, unlike her hobbies, learning to act is not easy for Tongari. After submitting several resumes in succession, it was never recognized, and Tongari had to start by running a trick.
It is precisely because of the simplicity of Tongari that it has an indescribable attraction. Once, Tong Jiali went to an interview on the set and met Shen Dong who went to the set to do errands.
Looking at Tong Jiali, who was graceful and beautiful, Shen Dong only felt that his eyes were bright, and he felt that Tong Jiali was not extraordinary. At that time, Shen Dong felt that if Tong Jiali was under his own lens, he would definitely be able to attract the attention of the audience.
So I took the initiative to find Tongari and left contact information for each other. At that time, Tong Jiali thought that she might cooperate with Shen Dong in the future, but she did not expect that the other party would fall in love with her at first sight.
Not long after, Shen Dong needed to go to Beiwu to find Tong Jiali because of the role, and after contacting again, Shen Dong took Tong Jiali to a nearby coffee shop, unexpectedly, the two of them combined their understanding of the role.
This indescribable tacit understanding made Tong Jiali have a better impression of Shen Dong. After that, Shen Dong often asked Tong Jiali to come out to meet. The mature and charismatic Shen Dong soon impressed Tong Jiali.
At that time, Tongari was not yet 20 years old, and compared to marriage, Tongari wanted sweet love. So the two reached an agreement that Shen Dong would not affect Tong Jiali's study, and Tong Jiali would not interfere in Shen Dong's work.
As long as there is time, the two of them will date. This mode of getting along, both parties have no opinion, and feel very comfortable. But both of them are busy people, Shen Dong is busy with work, and Tong Jiali is busy with line dancing.
So the two followed the urging of both parents and received the certificate in a low-key manner. However, Tong Jiali has always longed for a bigger stage, so she discussed with Shen Dong not to have children first, and planned to break through in the entertainment industry.
However, the reality is not satisfactory. Tongari, who worked hard in the entertainment industry, did not cause much splash. At that time, Tongari understood very well how short the career of female artists was, and if they missed it, they would not have a chance.
Just when Tongari was in a dilemma, a phone call from a friend changed Tongari's opinion.
At that time, Tongari's friend contacted her: You are in such a good figure, do you want to try to shoot underwear commercials?
Hearing a friend say this, Tongari was entangled, because her father was a veteran, Tongari's education since childhood was relatively conservative, and Tongari was resistant to the exposed way of shooting.
But my friend said: What age is it now, your thinking is old. If you don't give it a try, when will it be remembered?
Tongari, who couldn't refuse, had to rush to the shooting site. Different from Tongari's inability to let go, after the photographer saw Tongari, his eyes lit up, the shutter was pressed frantically, and his mouth kept praising Tongari's good figure.
Because of the photographer's praise, during the entire shooting process, Tongari was "floating", and the direct twisting was gone.
Human body photography
Just after Tongari finished shooting, she was rarely sent out by the photographer, and before leaving, the photographer put forward a professional opinion: Your figure is so good, have you ever thought about taking a portrait of the human body? In the future, it will definitely be a good memory!
Tong Jiali knew in her heart that once she took a human body photo, the people who could not agree the most were her husband Shen Dong and her stubborn father. But this proposal, like a kitten's paw, made Tongari very excited.
Upon returning home, Tongari fell into deep thought. I obviously have good conditions, so why don't you leave a good memory? After thinking about it for a few days, Tongari contacted photographer Zhang Xulong.
Finally, Zhang Xulong used 800 boxes of film to shoot a set of 32 exquisite albums for Tong Jiali and found the People's Fine Arts Publishing House to distribute.
What the two did not expect was that this group of photos actually exploded! This set of human body photo albums, in just a few months, sold for hundreds of thousands of yuan. Even printed many times.
There is no doubt that Tongari became famous in the first battle and became the object of discussion.
Fame and chicken feathers
With the explosion of the album, Tongari became a household idol. Many people contacted Tongari and asked Tongari to go to commercial performance platforms across the country.
It is not used to run tricks every day, and there is no day to get out. Tongari at that time attracted the attention of many directors. Seeing Tongari on the verge of becoming a rising star.
On the Internet, a self-organized selection pushed Tongari to the forefront of public discussion.
The content of this selection is the top ten beauty list. The purpose is to select, the top ten most beautiful stars of domestic entertainment. At that time, Tongari was very popular and became the fourth place in the rankings. It is more popular than Lin Chiling.
But the fame is greater, and the troubles are more.
After Tongari became popular, the photographer found Zhang Xulong, saying that the benefits of album printing were unevenly distributed, and he hoped that Tongari would give an explanation. Because the two sides could not negotiate, they finally went to court.
After more than half a year of confrontation, it ended with Tongari losing the lawsuit and paying 100,000 yuan. In addition to the lawsuits, Tongari's family also lit up red lights.
Since Tongari introduced body art photography, although the situation is fascinating. But the controversy is also relatively loud: is it simply against customs, and it is honorable to become famous by picking up clothes?
The first to get angry is the conservative dad. At that time, Tongari was severely criticized by her father. After the two couldn't get along. The father also said: If you don't take the photo, I don't have you as a daughter!
Since this quarrel, Tongari's relationship with her father has fallen to a freezing point. Never spoke again.
However, unlike her father's anger, Tongari's husband, Shen Dong, did not understand his wife's approach. I feel that Tongari did not ask her opinion, and privately issued a photo. In addition, the variety of comments on the Internet is too ugly.
Since Tong Jiali became famous, Shen Dong basically did not go home, and every time he contacted, he would quickly hang up the phone on the grounds that he was busy with work, and did not give Tong Jiali a chance to explain at all.
The husband who has been dating for the New Year, but at this time to treat himself like this, Tong Jiali is not a taste in her heart. However, Tongari was not willing to give up this relationship at that time.
In order to save Shen Dong, he even proposed to withdraw from the circle to become a housewife, and then give birth to a child and live a simple life. Although Tong Jiali gave in a lot, Shen Dong still couldn't forgive: forget it, I don't want my child to come to this world, just wait to laugh at it for a lifetime.
After saying these words, Shen Dong once again recovered his previous indifference and rarely went home. Unable to endure her husband's indifference, Tongari insisted on it for six years and still announced the news of divorce.
status quo
Twenty years have passed since Tongari took a portrait of the human body, and although there was a lot of talk at the beginning, it still caused a wave of followers. Coupled with the change in people's thinking now, Tongari's portrait has long been regarded as a classic and has won praise.
Today's Tongari has gradually faded out of the entertainment industry, and Tongari has no works and no stage. What is life like now?
Tongari, who is 46 years old this year, seems to have not been able to get out of love. He is still single. Although she faded out of the entertainment industry, Tongari's mentality has long been downplaying everything.
The reporter asked Tong Jiali: Do you regret taking a photo?
Tongari smiled calmly: I may have regretted it once, but now I don't regret it at all, even if I experienced it once, I will still do it, but if I can do it again, I will try to avoid unnecessary risks.
Just after Tongari ended the topic, she added: Life has many ups and downs, why mention it again in the past? It can be seen that although Tongari accepted the past, the price paid was tragic!