16 years of feelings are broken, perhaps for Zheng Yuling, Lu Fang is the most unforgettable existence in love history. In the relationship between the two people, Zheng Yuling is a contradictory existence, she is labeled as "only recognizing money and not recognizing people", in fact, this goddess is not short of money.
After many years, looking at the bits and pieces between Zheng Yuling and Lu Fang, most people cast "sympathetic" eyes on them. There is a line in "Xibao": "If there is no love, then there must be a lot of money". This line seems to be very appropriate for Zheng Yuling.
So what has Zheng Yuling experienced emotionally, and why is money so important?
A bad childhood is cured for a lifetime
Zheng Yuling was born in a poor family, in such an environment, she has a different understanding of money since she was a child. The poor couple mourned, and with the arrival of her younger brother, Zheng Yuling watched her parents "noisy" because of trivial matters.
In her heart, it was because of money that the two parents parted ways. After her parents divorced, Zheng Yuling and her younger brother lived with their mother, and since then she has never seen her father again, living a very poor life, and the maintenance promised before has not seen a penny.
What exactly is marriage? Young and ignorant, she did not understand, but her father's various inactions made her disgust from the bottom of her heart, feeling that home was not a harbor, but a "battlefield". Her mother has been conscientious for many years, working non-stop, and the figure of hard work also makes Zheng Yuling feel distressed and a little scared.
She does not want to become a mother one day, let alone her children to live the same childhood as herself.
So Zheng Yuling secretly vowed that she must work hard to make money, firmly hold the initiative of life in her own hands, and no longer be bound by life.
As she grew older, Zheng Yuling became a great beauty, and eventually she set her sights on the actor industry. You must know that this is a golden circle, compared to the nine-to-five assembly line, not only easy but also well-paid, just like that, she embarked on a path of art.
With her own efforts, Zheng Yuling gradually gained a foothold, and in the gap of status change, she found that the more well-known the person, the richer the salary and treatment. She has become a rising star with her own efforts, and Zheng Yuling is rushing between various fields.
Maybe it's love, but more to make money, and in the process of becoming famous, she didn't miss an opportunity. The value has also risen step by step, and the accumulation of money has made Zheng Yuling feel unprecedented steadiness. She no longer has to worry about the situation of her mother and brother, and she no longer has to live under the fence.
At the same time, the feelings of this top class have also become the talk of everyone. Does a person who regards money as his life really have no vision of marriage? Compared with others, I think that in this relationship with Lu Fang, I may be able to capture some "clues" about Zheng Yuling's view of feelings.
If you taste it carefully, you will find that money is only Zheng Yuling's "protective color".
Lu Fang, as a rare musical talent, compared with career success, he and Zheng Yuling's 16-year obsession have always been the focus of heated discussions among fans. Because of this woman, he was labeled as a "soft rice man", and the reviews were mixed, so did he get Zheng Yuling's sincerity?
16 unforgettable years
In this relationship, Lu Fang and Zheng Yuling have always been in the posture of "strong women and weak men". From the perspective of ordinary people, Zheng Yuling has the absolute initiative. You must know that when she became famous, Lu Fang was just an unknown amateur, and the two were far apart.
But Zheng Yuling didn't care, and later when Lu Fang recalled it, she said that she was very "broken" because the other party was very controlling and hoped to follow her living habits. So the question is, since Lu Fang is so bored, why does he have to work hard to protect the other party's side?
You must know that love is like a pair of shoes, and only you know whether it fits or not. Since he has worn out his feet, he should leave dashingly, but Lu Fang did not, but accompanied Zheng Yuling for 16 years. Even when they broke up, it was Zheng Yuling who unilaterally gave a "notice".
From this point of view, he did not think about leaving, and it seems that he has some kind of "expectations" for this relationship.
The news of the breakup of the two people is known to everyone, and many people feel that Zheng Yuling is too much, should not treat their pillow person, hang money on their lips, too unkind.
But from another point of view, why should others take a share of the wealth obtained by Zheng Yuling's hard work? Is it just because of love? Aren't these two words a bit far-fetched? Everyone says that Zheng Yuling loves money very much and is a very stingy and stingy person, but she is such a woman who has raised Lu Fang for 16 years.
What is the concept of 16 years?
Some people may say that two people take their own needs together, so there are many outstanding looking people in the entertainment industry, why is it Lu Fang?
Obviously, Zheng Yuling was moved, she was not as strong as imagined, otherwise the two would not be obsessed for so long together.
For Zheng Yuling, money is the whole of life and the existence of security. When she could use these things on Lu Fang's body, she had already proved her sincerity. But the outside world does not think so, only think that she is a person who "does not lack money", and the so-called love is the "excuse".
In this world, there are many people who are not short of money, and Zheng Yuling is just comparing herself. Everyone loves money, and everyone wants absolute possession, but Zheng Yuling is more real, and when she touches interests, she truly shows herself. When Lu Fang got married, Zheng Yuling generously sent her blessings, is this also pretend?
No, Zheng Yuling's mind is very simple, she just purely hopes that she has money, these money have different meanings in her heart, it is a sense of security, it is the confidence to live, it is the contribution over the years, just like a child, no one is allowed to touch it, so being able to share all this with Lu Fang is enough to show that she loves.
epilogue
It's just that the Tao is different and does not conspire with each other, and despite 16 years together, the two have come to the end. But after this relationship, Zheng Yuling has grown a lot, and the unforgettable heart after losing it is enough to make a person reflect. Today, she focuses on her career, and she is still a pillar-like existence.
With no children in her life, she has a secure life in her later years and can do what she likes. Perhaps this is what Zheng Yuling looks like in her ideals, and it is also the meaning of working hard to make money. What do you think about this?