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Chiang Kai-shek, Liu Bocheng, Luo Shanhe, Zuo Quan, Liu Zhibing on the screen will always be an iron-bone, righteous image, but what everyone doesn't know is that he has a soft and delicate heart outside the play.
"My uncle is more like my father"
In 1999, Liu Zhibing took his nine-year-old son, Ru Ping and his seven-year-old daughter to form a family of four, and now many years have passed, the stepdaughter has become Liu Zhibing's pride, but his son has made him very distressed.
01 Impulse punishment
Liu Zhibing, who graduated three years in 1982, was transferred to Changchun Film Studio as a professional actor, although he was not popular, but his career was stable, and it was at this time that a girl appeared in his life.
One is an actor who is not very famous, and the other is a female scholar with the title of doctor and associate professor.
In that era, people with high education seemed to have a different kind of attraction, looking at the beautiful and different Feng Liping, Liu Zhibing said that it was all fake if he was not moved.
The throbbing in his heart made Liu Zhibing immediately take action, eating together, sending her home, and occasional flowers, at that time "romance" was so pure.
And Feng Liping was also moved by the handsomeness and thoughtfulness of the boy, from friends to couples, the impulse made the two not know much and stepped into the palace of marriage.
Like most families, after getting married and having children, women stay at home to take care of their children, and men go out to work hard to film and earn money to support their families.
Although the division of labor is clear and Liu Zhibing's career has also ushered in a small peak, repeating life day after day, year after year, is so difficult for Feng Liping.
The crying of the children, the absence of her husband all day and night, and the life of gathering less and leaving more, made Feng Liping, who was unwilling to take the baby at home, propose the idea of going out to work.
But when both husband and wife go out to work, who will take care of the children?
Even though the two have a dispute on this issue, Feng Liping still gives the child to the elderly at home to take with her, and goes out to work her own.
The biggest loss in life is that talent is not recognized, ambition but cannot be realized, she feels that there is no problem with her handling, but Liu Zhibing does not think so.
When he returned home after a busy day, he thought he could eat a hot meal and sleep beautifully, but he was greeted by his son's crying and cold house.
The man's self-esteem made him muse: Isn't it to go out and earn money by himself to support their mothers? Why does she go out to work?
"Let's divorce"
The marriage that was diametrically opposed to the ideal made him no longer have the throbbing and love in his heart, and he filed a divorce request to Feng Liping.
Although he proposed the word divorce, it was he who was most reluctant.
Just repairing his inner wounds took him five years.
He was handsome during that time, although there were many suitors, but looking at his son who didn't understand anything, thinking about the unpleasant married life with his ex-wife, he decisively refused.
It wasn't until 1995 that her appearance changed his previous mind.
02 Five years of waiting just to meet her
In the movie "Armed Forces Behind Enemy Lines", he is a traitor - Ma Ming, and she is a member of the martial arts team - Wang Xia.
Because of the problem of personality, Ru Ping, who plays Wang Xia, hates Liu Zhibing, who plays Ma Ming, so much that even if he is played, he does not feel like a good person.
In this way, from the start to the sealing of the mirror, she never looked at him squarely once, and she thought that she would go her separate ways after the shooting and would never see him again in this life, but fate is so magical.
Just two years later, the two reunited again in the crew of "All the Way to Storm", this time they played a couple who went from childhood sweethearts to gray-haired lovers.
The sweetness in the play and the four months of getting along day and night made two divorced people with children unable to distinguish between fantasy and reality for a while.
"Simply get married, a son and a daughter just make a good word"
The people in the crew have all seen the wind and waves, and when they see the eyes of the two looking at each other, they can draw silk, and suddenly realize, and the words pierce the window paper separated between them.
The help of his companions made Liu Zhibing completely let go of the concerns in his heart, boldly and passionately pursued Ru Ping, who had lost confidence in marriage, and silently observed this man.
The patient and gentle tone of the phone with her son, the common work, and the hobbies made her feel that this family-loving and responsible man was not her ideal other half?
"I love you and I love your children, can you be my girlfriend?"
In the blink of an eye, it was the day of completion, and Liu Zhibing, who did not want to miss the beauty, finally said the words that had been hidden in his heart for several months.
The man's words made Ru Ping no longer have any worries, and immediately confirmed the relationship.
After separation, one soaked in the crew filming, the other performed in the drama troupe, although the work separated the two, but the relationship did not decrease due to the increase in distance.
A few hours of phone calls, occasional get-togethers, and more and more understanding made the two have the idea of getting married, but their love is no longer as pure as that of young people.
He has an eight-year-old son and a six-year-old daughter, and how to get the children to accept this change and accept a new family has become the most distressing problem for him.
As for how to solve it, Liu Zhibing only said two words: sincere!
03 The real-life version of "family with children"
In 1999, Liu Zhibing, Liu Sibo, Ru Ping and Xi Wang officially formed a family of four and settled in Hangzhou.
Generally speaking, the children in the reorganized family will be dissatisfied with their stepparents and fear that others will take away their love, but their siblings do not have this problem.
"From now on you are a brother, you must learn to protect the women in the family and let the younger sister be younger than you"
Liu Zhibing's ideological education of his son made Ru Ping, the stepmother and airborne sister, live particularly comfortably, while he spent more attention on his stepdaughter.
It was the holiday, seeing her daughter staying at home every day looking listless, Liu Zhibing prepared a bicycle and took her out to play every day.
Looking at the decoration of her new home, decorating her favorite bedroom together, swimming, and eating hamburgers, the distance between the two is also shrinking step by step.
From the strangeness at the beginning, riding a bicycle only daring to grab the seat cushion, to grasping the clothes of the "uncle" tightly after becoming familiar, to now getting on the car and skillfully holding the waist of the "uncle".
Although Dad did not say the two words, the change and attitude of Xi Wang made Liu Zhibing burst into tears.
For clothes, shoes, stationery boxes, and pocket money at the same price, Liu Zhibing participated in Xi Wang's parent-teacher meeting, and Ru Ping attended Liu Sibo's parent-teacher meeting.
They treat each other's children better than their own, not their own but better than their own, so their happy scene makes Liu Zhibing have an immature idea.
Taking advantage of the good physical condition and not too old, maybe it is not impossible to have a child that belongs to them, and after the two hit it off, he wanted to ask the children's opinions, but the result disappointed him.
First: giving birth to a child will delay a lot of time, which will have a great impact on the mother's career.
Second: Someone must be raised after birth, the elders must not be counted on when they are old, you will most likely have no time to film outside for a long time, and it is impossible to take care of the two children when they are still young.
The daughter's analysis with affection and understanding completely extinguished Liu Zhibing and Ru Ping's immature ideas, anyway, the son and daughter simply did not give birth.
But looking at her husband, who did not return home for several months after filming, Ru Ping, who had already received many praises for "Shangguan Wan'er, Aunt Su Ma, and Huang Chun", had a retreat in her heart.
Only when she stays at home to take care of the children, take care of the housework, and take care of the elderly can her husband have no worries and film well.
His wife's words made Liu Zhibing's heart full of emotion, but more emotions were regrets, and she was even more reluctant to give up what she originally liked because of herself.
"How many men want their wives to be full-time wives at home, you are strange"
It is precisely because of Liu Zhibing's understanding and thoughtfulness that Ru Ping is more sure that she is really married to the right person this time.
In this way, while running a small family, the couple's careers are also flying together.
He is a professor at the Academy of Art - Xie Tianshu, she is the gentle and virtuous, and still sincerely take care of her mother-in-law after being misunderstood - Lin Xiangyu.
He is Jin Dapeng, a living target caught between a good wife and a good mother, and she is Wen Fang, a fragile and strong mother.
The tacit understanding of the husband and wife who have been together for many years makes the two always pass by when filming opposite scenes, and even the director can't stop praising it.
It was not until 2007 that Liu Zhibing was specially recruited into the army by Bayi Film Studio, and the family left Hangzhou, where he had lived for many years, and settled in Beijing.
Rising salaries, better living, and high school and school accommodation give them more time to spend alone.
They run, sing, watch movies, and complete regrets that they have never done before, but what comes with it is the hidden shortcomings of each other.
Although Ru Ping is a southerner, the role played on the screen is also a woman who can live a life and has a delicate mind, but in reality her personality is diametrically opposite.
Grinning, throwing three and four, even inviting guests to eat can forget their wallets at home, this discovery made Liu Zhibing cry and laugh, and secretly rejoiced in his heart.
Although he is a northeastern man, he should be informal, similar to his wife's personality, but in fact, Liu Zhibing is a person who likes to worry.
Every time the two of them went out to work, he packed the luggage, and sometimes Ru Ping was not worried about checking it after he had packed it.
In addition, he also found that Ru Ping is a "almost" character, no matter what he does, but Liu Zhibing is a person who pursues perfection.
But the habits developed over the decades, it is not a matter of one or two days for her to change, and maybe there will be a lot of contradictions and affect feelings.
So after a period of running-in, the two formed a set of complementary modes of getting along and played their respective strengths.
He is responsible for the family's financial power, children's education, travel plans and other major affairs; Ru Ping is responsible for the daily life of the family and maintains the operation of this small family.
Now 23 years have passed, Xi Wang has entered the entertainment industry, and she has been featured in "Tang Dynasty Strange Stories, That Mountain and Sea", her appearance is absolutely beautiful, and her acting skills are also remarkable.
And Liu Sibo, under the influence of his parents, also stepped into the ranks of actors, and starred in "Marshal Liu Bocheng" with his father, playing Liu Bocheng in his youth.
Recently, he participated in the online movie "Special Hero Huang Jiguang", and his performance is also remarkable, maybe in the near future, everyone will introduce Liu Zhibing and Ru Ping with the parents of "Xi Wang and Liu Sibo"?