#Emotional Review Awards #This year's young people, it's really difficult.
While listening carefully to the advice of experts, we must also reflect on the frequently searched "why don't young people" series of questions; There is nowhere to jump ship, and the graduation season and autumn recruitment cannot find a suitable radish pit; If you want to go to graduate school, you will be persuaded by the number of applicants to quit, and you are afraid that your efforts will be in vain in the end...
In the face of the pressure of life and uncertainty about the future, young people dare not really lie flat but always want to touch fish, one second they feel that they should live hard in Beijing, Shanghai and Guangzhou, and the next second they tell themselves that there is no end to the days of part-time work, it is better to go back to the countryside and live casually.
Young people didn't mess with any of you. Photo/Weibo screenshot
But wanting an easy life, but not having the courage to really "let go" the richness and excitement of the big city, the dilemma between pursuing worldly success and embracing idealism, the younger generation seems to know less and less how to live.
Just when intermittent complacency, continuous mixed eating and other deaths became a norm, a UP owner named @HouCuicui, relying on his ordinary and confident smile, entered the public's sight.
Hou Cuicui, aged 27, in just five years after graduation, she single-handedly worked for two companies, chose to return to her hometown after being laid off, lived on unemployment benefits of 1700 per month, occasionally ate barbecue by the sea, and would be introduced to a 37-year-old blind date by a strange uncle.
Watching her frankly and optimistic about sharing her daily life with netizens, you may also find another answer to the question "whether there is only one thing left to go ashore in life".
1 Young people who do not go to work
Although they hate being labeled, people are still very good at finding their kind. From MBTI to occupational classification, one attribute represents a type of lifestyle.
Hou Cuicui is an UP owner, but before that, she was strictly an unemployed young man living in Dalian.
In the video, netizens can find that her grades are mediocre, she entered the local key high school in the middle school entrance examination, and only understood two courses of Chinese and English from beginning to end, because the language teacher likes to talk about Gulong novels, and the English teacher always talks about photography.
After graduation, she did not choose to take the single-wood bridge of graduate school/public examination, but returned to her hometown of Dalian, Liaoning Province to start her part-time career.
I worked in a small workshop without weekends and five insurances and one housing fund for three years, and my salary did not rise at all.
In the middle of the short video, she was forced to transfer from the artist to the short video and was miserably led by PUA, saying that she did not have any development prospects in the art position, and the drawings she made were not good-looking (fine).
The new job was a small success, and she was praised by the leader at a meeting and only received a verbal promise of a salary increase, but when the salary was raised, she found that the salary of the whole company had been raised, and only she and another colleague who was praised at the time had no change in salary.
The guilt-ridden (maybe) leader said on the spot that it would give you an increase in a few months, and in a few months the entire business line was almost laid off with her.
After working conscientiously in the county for five years, the salary was never less than 5,000, and even the price of grilled squid in the barbecue restaurant increased, and his salary did not change until he was fired.
After doing "yellow" two companies one after another, with a good wish to be an Internet celebrity, Hou Cuicui began to try to update short videos on station B after returning to her hometown.
Before she nags out of the circle on the field, she can't even scrape together 6 coins to change her name.
Five years of part-time work did not give her a promotion and a raise, but these blood and tears lessons really made her very nagging.
"How can it be called editing when workers write resumes, that is called reasonable optimization."
"When I graduated, I didn't have any career plans, but the company I worked for didn't plan for itself."
A sentence "Serious people who take work seriously, do you want to be a leader?" "I have seen countless netizens break the defense, after all, being a leader is the same as Kao Qinghua, not something that can be done just by thinking about it.
After interviewing how to negotiate salaries, whether layoffs should be compensated, and completely accepting her unemployed life, Hou Cuicui began to become an Internet spokesperson for tens of millions of netizens.
And after watching her happy life, netizens just wanted to find her another class after envy.
Pattern. Photo/TikTok screenshot
2 Funny women are always cute
Everyone doesn't want to be a funny woman, but everyone loves to watch funny women.
Hou Cuicui, who gossiped on the mound every day, spoke Mandarin with the taste of sea oysters and did the most ordinary things.
To sum up the nonsense culture of Little Red Book, it is: I really think your life is quite boring~ it's also quite interesting.
It's, but it's not. Photo/Little Red Book screenshot
Her daily updates usually last no more than 5 minutes, or eating eggs for afternoon tea while fishing; Either eat barbecue and do not forget to lament the increase in the price of beef tendons, but the increase in wages is not impressive.
Always wear a cheap version of the straw hat to walk the rivers and lakes, and when you encounter a cornfield, you must also take a corn cub down to taste it.
After eating, I don't forget to imagine my corn business that started from sowing - "plus logistics and packaging, you can definitely make a lot of money by switching to selling corn" (local corn 5 hairs a stick).
She picks cucumbers and eggplants in the vegetable field, splits watermelons with her bare hands on the village road, and can pick and taste anything wherever she goes, as if the Huanong Brothers 2.0 version, often making people worry that the next second will come out of her mouth: This watermelon is very beautiful, let's split it and eat it.
Most people who learn a driver's license are scolded and crying by the coach, and she is in turn to scare the coach into doubting life; Ordinary workers are always giving Party A a grandson, she either directly makes Party A unable to find North, or is on the way to fool Party A;
She confessed that she had no specialty, and in order to be a UP master, she first learned to draw and tried to play the piano, and finally found that only nag was the most suitable for her.
She quit naked for too long and longed to work, but left again because she always worked overtime, because she was curious about the "free" life of the courier brother, and tried to be a courier for a day.
Photo/TikTok screenshot
After finally discovering that the work was the same all day, she simply began to "swing" and went back to the village to happily drive a tricycle.
In short, click on any video of Hou Cuicui, and you can harvest a new source of happiness in 30 seconds.
Photo/Little Red Book screenshot
"Because of happiness", she stayed in the village, without commuting, overtime, without leadership PUA, to catch the sea for barbecue, or to climb mountains to watch the sunrise and sunset. For young people who repeatedly fall into mental exhaustion, an Internet peach blossom source is constructed.
Photo/Little Red Book screenshot
Happiness is her killer skill.
Another teacher Yu Hua, who has been mentally exhausted for 40 years, said:
He's looking for an exit, an outlet for his life, or simply for me today, or for the exit for tomorrow when I wake up.
Internal consumption is actually the hope that you can do better, and this situation has internal consumption.
Photo/Keep the Dialogue
The seaside and the field are the outlets that Hou Cuicui found for herself. We can't say that you can get the same degree of happiness when you come to a similar scene, and it is difficult to prove which of the two answers is the best choice for you to stick to the big city and return to your hometown, but instead of spending time in place, we might as well jump and jump like Hou Cuicui. You have to go forward to know which direction the exit is in which direction, isn't it?