When it comes to Lin Daiyu, many people's first reaction is Chen Xiaoxu's version of "Sister Lin", although Chen Xiaoxu's performance of "I see pity" is deeply rooted in the hearts of the people, but Tao Huimin's Lin Daiyu played when she was young is also very classic.
Tao Huimin is a well-known actor in the last century, she is the pitiful "little cabbage" in "Yang Naiwu and Little Cabbage", and the classical and gentle "Lin Daiyu" in "Dream of the Red Mansion", and in recent years, she has also starred in the hit drama "In the Name of the People" Qi Tongwei's wife Liang Lu.
As a woman who combines beauty and strength, although Tao Huimin's acting career is very successful, but her feelings are very simple, she married an unknown dance teacher at the peak of her career, her husband suffered from cancer shortly after marriage, Tao Huimin never left, after the unfortunate death of her husband, Tao Huimin rejected many suitors, insisted on widowed her husband for ten years, and raised her daughter alone.
Tao Huimin, who has experienced ups and downs in her feelings, how is it now?
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In 1966, Tao Huimin fell to the ground, bringing laughter and hope to an ordinary working family. Tao Huimin has been very cute since she was a child, and has an enviable good voice, so her parents have intended to cultivate Tao Huimin on the road of literature and art since she was a child.
With the blessing of talent and hard work, at the age of 16, Tao Huimin became an official actor of the Yue Opera Troupe, and starred in the classic hit drama "Yang Naiwu and Little Cabbage", successfully becoming a well-known rookie actor.
In terms of feelings, Tao Huimin has been different since she was a child, she never yearns for a "wealthy family", but is bent on finding the love of "one life and one couple". In Tao Huimin's eyes, she does not ask her future partner to be rich, but the two must be soul mates with the same heart, Qinser and Ming.
When Tao Huimin worked in the Yue Opera Troupe, she was deeply attracted by a dance teacher named Shang Qingmin, Shang Qingmin was handsome and danced very well, during a rehearsal, Tao Huimin found that Shang Qingmin's waist was very thin, and in later rehearsals, Tao Huimin always unconsciously kept her eyes on Shang Qingmin's waist.
After a long time, Shang Qingmin also felt something different, and while there was no one around, he quietly quipped to Tao Huimin, "Do you want to touch it?" Tao Huimin, who was discovered by someone who discovered her little secret, instantly blushed with shame and quickly ran away. It was this accompaniment that made the two young people begin to secretly fall in love and become each other's first love.
In 1989, Tao Huimin reached the peak of his career by starring in "Little Cabbage" and "Lin Daiyu", when Tao Huimin was only 23 years old and had a bright future, but at this time, Tao Huimin made a very bold decision: to marry Shang Qingmin.
Although Shang Qingmin is just an ordinary dance teacher, for Tao Huimin, her lover is worthy of all the beauty in this world.
Tao Huimin and Shang Qingmin have a common language, in life, Shang Qingmin gave Tao Huimin meticulous care and care, whenever Tao Huimin felt that the work pressure was too great, Shang Qingmin would become a life mentor, which greatly eased Tao Huimin's anxiety.
In the long time that the two got along, unconsciously, Shang Qingmin had quietly crossed the trail, walked through the thorns, and took root in Tao Huimin's heart.
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After marriage, the life of the two was very happy, Shang Qingmin focused his life on his family and supported Tao Huimin's career wholeheartedly. Tao Huimin encountered a bottleneck in the process of filming, and she would always involuntarily get angry with Shang Qingmin, but every time Shang Qingmin would fully accept Tao Huimin's bad temper and never calculate with Tao Huimin.
Once Tao Huimin came home from filming, saw Shang Qingmin directly slap the other party twice, looking at the beaten Shang Qingmin, Tao Huimin also made up another punch in disbelief, Shang Qingmin knew that Tao Huimin may have encountered a bottleneck in the process of filming, not only did not get angry, but also comforted the other party in a whisper.
Afterwards, Tao Huimin explained that she filmed a particularly infuriating scene today, and after returning home, she treated her husband as the villain in the play and involuntarily hit him.
Facing his wife who left his "bad temper" to himself, Shang Qingmin smiled helplessly: "I am your husband, you should be angry at me."
Under the favor of Shang Qingmin, Tao Huimin gave birth to a daughter soon after marriage, and the family of three was happy and lived very happily. For Tao Huimin, in the prosperous entertainment industry, she already knows what she wants, and she knows that compared to glory and wealth, status and status, having someone around you who understands you is the greatest happiness.
However, the good times did not last long, just when Tao Huimin thought that the family would be happy forever, her husband was diagnosed with cancer, and after learning the bad news, Tao Huimin immediately put down all the work at hand, put all her energy into the family, and accompanied her husband at all times.
Although Tao Huimin spent all her energy and financial resources to provide her husband with the best medical conditions and the most careful care, her husband passed away.
In the face of the death of her beloved husband, Tao Huimin was devastated and put all her energy on raising her daughter and developing her acting career, because Tao Huimin was beautiful and famous, and she had never been a suitor around her, but Tao Huimin closed the door of her heart and insisted on widowed her husband for ten years. It really responds to the sentence "I have traveled all over Jiangnan, I have seen a hundred flowers, and none of them will defeat you." ”
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Thirteen years later, Tao Huimin met her current husband at a gathering of friends, when Tao Huimin was 50 years old and her daughter had already grown up.
Tao Huimin and her current husband are alumni, the two met again after many years, because there are many overlaps in each other's experiences, and they unexpectedly found that the two have a lot of common topics, and after the party, the two still haven't talked enough, so they left each other's contact information.
Fate is so wonderful, in the many contacts later, the two met to cook, go shopping, watch dramas together, in the frequent relationship, the distance between the two gradually got closer, Tao Huimin's heart finally gradually ignited the flame of love.
In the year when Tao Huimin was 53 years old, with the blessing of relatives and friends, the two remarried in a low-key manner, although the second husband was just an ordinary person and far less famous than Tao Huimin, he regarded Tao Huimin's daughter as if he had come out, and Tao Huimin had endless words, and fully supported Tao Huimin's acting career with practical actions.
When Tao Huimin was filming, there was always a lamp waiting for her at home, and when she returned home, there was always a steaming meal on the table, and in her husband's meticulous care, Tao Huimin re-experienced the beauty of love. Now the family of three is living very happily, and when she mentions her husband, Tao Huimin's face is full of happy smiles.
Life will inevitably go through ups and downs and setbacks, Tao Huimin faced the death of her beloved, did not feel self-pity, but worked hard, accumulated energy, played many classic film and television roles, fully raised her daughter, and cultivated her daughter into a talent.
When people reach middle age, in the face of love coming again, Tao Huimin did not hesitate, bravely chose to stay with her loved ones for the rest of her life, and now she has finally survived the wind and rain and ushered in the water and sky where the gulls swim.
Those who live seriously and have a heart full of love, at any time, happiness will be waiting outside the door.