In mid-September, Chen Sicheng's new love affair was suspected to have been exposed.
In the pictures exposed by the gossip media, he and a beautiful woman in red hugged hand in hand on the street, behaving intimately, like a little couple in love.
Subsequently, the girl's identity was stripped up, and it was young actor Ruan Ju.
Ruan Ju was born in 1999 and is only 23 years old this year, a full 21-year difference between him and Chen Sicheng.
She once played the female number two "Chu Wind Bell" in "Trek Kunlun Ruins" starring Xu Kaizhong Chuxi, and her appearance and temperament are very good.
Although the two parties have not officially responded to this at present, the scandal about the two still can't stop the mouth of leisure.
Inevitably, many people began to compare Ruan Ju and Tong Liya.
One is an ex, the other is a new love, I don't know who is better.
On the surface, it seems that Ruan Ju's appearance and figure are not inferior to Tong Liya.
But if you judge a person only according to external standards, with Chen Sicheng's identity and status, he can always find a younger and more beautiful.
No matter how beautiful people are, they will have a late day.
Greedy for freshness, there will always be fresher people.
No one can be 20 forever.
But people are always 20 years old.
Some netizens commented that the pursuit of freshness is a man's instinct, even if he marries a celestial and goes home, day by day, there will be a troublesome day, love has never been eternal.
But the so-called freshness is nothing more than indulging yourself without a bottom line, finding a high-sounding reason for yourself, and acting out self-deception by the way.
Time is a magical thing, it will prove everything.
Chen Sicheng once made a big statement in the face of the media:
Isn't a man's desire a woman?
He married such a beautiful wife as Tong Liya, and in the end he failed to collect his heart.
For a man like Chen Sicheng, when a woman wants to tie him, it means that the time for him to leave is not far away.
For him, beautiful girls are just passers-by.
Yang Lan said: "In marriage and affection, there is not only love, but also the righteousness of treating each other with all sincerity, the tacit understanding of not leaving, and unforgettable kindness. ”
It's easy to fall in love, but it's too hard to stay together.
Once upon a time, when Chen Sicheng and Tong Liya officially announced their divorce, both Tong Liya's fans and passers-by netizens posted congratulations to Tong Liya.
Although Chen Sicheng is talented, the machismo in some shows has made many people dissatisfied.
When the seven-year itch finally settled, everyone breathed a sigh of relief.
It can be seen how bad Chen Sicheng's image is in the eyes of the public.
Although Chen Sicheng and Tong Liya ended their marriage, the two have always been in contact in private, and they have not been old and dead.
Tong Liya's birthday, Chen Sicheng never forgot to send blessings on social platforms.
Tong Liya also publicly appeared to support her ex-husband's works, and the relationship was very decent.
It is best for their son Duo Duo to maintain this friendly relationship after divorce.
No child can choose his birth and family.
Under the premise of not harming the child, it is not impossible to gather and disperse.
It was not without happiness, when they first got together, Tong Liya's eyes looking at Chen Sicheng were always full of adoration.
Unfortunately, later, like the cheesy plot in the movie, Chen Sicheng Tong Liya's marriage was not even, but repeatedly changed.
Along with the soaring fame, not only his career, but also Chen Sicheng's peachy scandal.
Tong Liya's brilliant and brilliant past seems to have gradually disappeared with her choice of Chen Sicheng.
All life revolves around Chen Sicheng alone, until her identity is only the label of Mrs. Chen Sicheng.
Everyone has imagined the ideal state of marriage, but the truth is that not everyone gets what they want.
In a good intimate relationship, it is not enough to rely on one person to give, and the balance will be lost over time.
In a stable and happy family, there must be different divisions of labor, there are sacrifices, there are sacrifices.
But either option, it should not be disappointed.
Of all the descriptions of marriage, the most striking quote is "Not everyone is suitable for marriage." ”
It doesn't matter if you don't want to get married, it doesn't matter if your marriage changes after you get married.
After all, whoever got married in the first place did not rush to divorce.
There are many landscapes on the journey of life, and not everyone has the same destination.
Even if the destination is the same at the beginning, you may see a different scenery along the way, and it is normal to want to get off the bus temporarily.
Divergence and joy may not be a good ending.
But everyone should be more careful about their choice of marriage.
It's not hard to love someone, but it's hard to love yourself.
Whatever happens, you should remember:
Have the ability to love yourself first and have the strength to love others later.
Fortunately, Tong Liya still has a career, which is something that no one can snatch away.
Because of these things, more people see her resilience as a woman.
She has experienced strong winds and waves, even without Chen Sicheng, she can live a dashing and comfortable life.
Even if there is no such thing as eternity in this world, she can still be herself without scruples.
On her way to the future alone, she will always be her own light, and she does not need anyone to illuminate it.
"The Years Are Flickering" says, whether you want to admit it or not, in fact, in this life, the only one who can accompany us to the end is ourselves.
A woman has many identities in her life, she will be someone else's daughter, someone else's wife, and someone else's mother.
Every role has different responsibilities and responsibilities.
But she is first and foremost, herself.
She has flesh and blood, soul and mind, and does not need to be attached to anyone to survive.
You should devote more time to yourself and spend it pleasing yourself instead of doing useless work on others.
Everyone's growth path will be accompanied by doubts, and there are very few people who can withstand precipitation and testing.
The entertainment industry has always been no shortage of traffic, not short of handsome men and beautiful women, but most of them are like fireworks, although dazzling when they are gorgeous, but fleeting.
Come fast, go as fast.
The attention brought by lace news is temporary, and only strength and acting skills are the only criteria for measuring the market and capital.
The so-called strong is to be able to manage yourself.
If I don't conspire with each other, I can still be calm, and I can still be prosperous if I treat me coldly.
We will meet many people in our lives, who are like fireworks at our fingertips, flickering and dimming, and finally only reduced to ashes.
In this world, people come and go, but it is the norm in the world.
No need to fuss.