After knowing that Zhang Weichen forged the results of the pre-fertility examination, Ren Duomei was extremely cold, coupled with the various conflicts they had before that overwhelmed Ren Duomei, she filed for divorce, Zhang Weichen had an emotional breakdown, and questioned Ren Duomei:
"Just because I lied to you, you want to divorce me? Are you too ruthless?
I disagree! ”
When Zhang Weichen said these words, he was a little hysterical.
Later, like a child, he pleaded with Ren Tomei:
"I love you, I really love you, I've been used to you by my side all these years, I can't live without you, I can't imagine how I should live without you..."
Zhang Weichen was reluctant to divorce.
Why can't you bear it?
Because Ren Duomei is beautiful? Because Ren Tomei is smart? Because Ren Duomei is obedient enough?
Not quite.
In fact, between husband and wife, what can make each other inseparable is nothing more than children, common interests, and feelings.
Zhang Weichen and Ren Duomei have no children, so they can't talk about the involvement of children;
Ren Duomei is considered to be a low-door marriage, and has been a housewife since marriage, with no economic income, their family's property is Zhang Weichen's premarital property, and common interests cannot be bundred.
There is also feelings left, when you fall in love before marriage, most of the so-called feelings are passion, so after marriage, after the two people have been getting along for many years and are familiar with each other, what is the so-called feeling?
How did Ren Duomei manage to continue to deepen the relationship between the two people, so that Zhang Weichen was so dependent on her and couldn't let go?
Some people will say that Ren Duomei has high emotional intelligence, and some people will say that Ren Duomei understands men.
There are indeed these reasons, but I always feel that the decisive factor is not these, but Ren Tomei's gentleness and thoughtfulness all the time, which makes Zhang Weichen feel comfortable.
The tenderness of turning a blind eye
Zhang Weichen studied in the United States, Ren Duomei and her mother-in-law always thought that he was in New York, but they never thought that Ruan Tang suddenly told Ren Duomei that Dr. Zhang was currently in Seattle, and he was with the little junior sister.
All this, Zhang Weichen did not tell his wife Ren Duomei.
Best friend Ruan Tang thinks that she is too loose with her husband, this kind of junior sister is the most dangerous, should be monitored 24 hours a day.
Tomei smiled and said that she trusted her husband very much.
In fact, Tomei's heart has long been as anxious as frying on an oil pan, but she can't ask, not only because she may not be able to ask the truth, but also because this kind of small sign is not worth her to be so calm.
However, there is always pain in the heart.
Finally looking forward to her husband Zhang Weichen's return to China, Ren Duomei went to the hospital to deliver food to him, but met the legendary little junior sister, who said with a simple face that the senior brother left the headphones on her on the plane, and clearly said that he accompanied Zhang Weichen throughout his training until he returned to China.
Even if other people don't say it, it is estimated that they can't hang on their faces, and my husband went abroad to study with other women, and he was actually the last to know.
But Ren Duomei was not impressed, and even warmly invited the little junior sister to eat at home another day, saying that she must thank her for taking care of and helping her husband while in the United States.
This sentence is a bit of a double warning.
What you mean to Junior Sister is that the person you take care of abroad is a man with a family and a room, which is not appropriate.
What you mean to your husband is that you are hiding it from me and other women abroad, don't think I don't know.
The little junior sister and Zhang Weichen who said something were a little uncomfortable.
After the little junior sister left, Zhang Weichen apologized to Ren Duomei guiltily, saying that it was wrong for him to hide her from traveling with the little junior sister...
Ren Duomei gently said that she could understand that it was all needed for work, but she must not be sick and not tell herself in the future, which would make her feel incompetent.
Ren Duomei's gentle understanding and non-accusation made Zhang Weichen both relaxed and moved.
In fact, Ren Duomei obviously doubted the relationship between the two people, and even because her husband posted a photo of the two in the circle of friends in the middle of the night, deleted it in seconds, her husband changed the place of study and did not tell her, and her husband was anxious, sad, and panicked when Zhou Min was taking care of these things during his illness abroad.
But in front of her husband, she can put away her emotions and be gentle.
A small thing that does not involve principles at the moment does not prove that they are in trouble.
Second, Ren Duomei still believes that her husband cares about this family, and still cares about her.
Third, without a real hammer, the onset of emotions cannot be controlled, which hurts the feelings of husband and wife, and Ren Duomei thinks that it is not worth it and is unnecessary.
Ren Tomei's gentleness at this time is a kind of confidence, a kind of strength.
Her gentleness hides confidence in herself and consideration for Zhang Weichen.
Gentleness after warning
Zhang Weichen concealed that she and her little junior sister went to the United States for further study.
After returning to China, the little junior sister did not hide her good impression of Zhang Weichen in front of Ren Duomei, and even bluntly said that I can help him with his senior brother's career, implying that Ren Duomei is just a useless housewife, and showing her intention to strive for the position.
Ren Duomei did not quarrel with Zhang Weichen on the surface, but in fact, she was always observing Zhang Weichen's reaction to Zhou Min.
As a result, when I once gave soup to Zhang Weichen, I accidentally found a pair of women's high heels under Zhang Weichen's table.
Ren Duomei was full of anger, turned around and gave the soup to Shen Jianan's father, who happened to be hospitalized, and just happened to meet Qin Tian, so he sat down and chatted a few words.
Ren Duomei was full of anger when she saw the high heels under her husband's table, but she couldn't bear it.
Unfortunately, Zhang Weichen also saw her and Qin Tian sitting together talking, jealous and suspicious, and paraphrased Ren Duomei's words.
Ren Duomei finally broke out, pulled Zhang Weichen to his office, not only kicked over the high heels under his desk, but also warned Zhang Weichen:
"Zhang Weichen, there is no woman under the sky who can tolerate other women's high heels under her husband's table."
Zhang Weichen, I tell you, I don't lose my temper, it doesn't mean I don't have a temper, I just don't want to find you.
But you, seeing me with other men suspicious, what unhappy to give me a red light, but why don't you want to think about yourself, when can you be more mature and considerate.
Then leave in rage.
This night Ren Duomei did not go home, and this night Zhang Weichen stayed up all night on the phone that no one answered.
Ren Duomei, who had been pondering all night, returned home early the next morning, although Zhang Weichen wondered where Ren Duomei lived if he did not return all night, he was also extremely surprised, thinking that this time he would coax Ren Duomei for a long time to dissipate.
Ren Duomei said to Zhang Weichen gently and calmly:
My husband hopes that we can always trust each other in the future, you know that our family is hard-won and should not be destroyed by anyone who does not matter.
After hearing this, Zhang Weichen became more and more guilty and took the initiative to apologize, saying that he would listen to Duomei's words in the future.
Ren Tomei's operation is very high-level.
First, taking advantage of Zhang Weichen's troubles for her, she broke out a good time, put the part that crossed the line between Zhang Weichen and Zhou Min on the table, and said her feelings:
"No wife in the world can tolerate having another woman's high heels under her husband's desk."
Then fiercely kicked over the high heels, rummaged through the drawers, and the evil shape made Zhang Weichen realize that Ren Duomei is not blindly pretending to be deaf and dumb, letting others slaughter the buns, she will be furious and resist, and it is difficult to imagine the consequences if she really wants to provoke hair.
Then he showed the bottom line and warned Zhang Weichen to pay attention to his words and deeds, and threw the door and left all night without returning.
When she returned home the next day, in the face of Zhang Weichen's doubts, she gently stated that this home was not easy to come by, and the cold war between the husband and wife could not solve the problem.
It is not only to stimulate Zhang Weichen's sense of guilt, but also to restrain it more in the future; It is also because she knows that between husband and wife, it is difficult to really divorce because of this specious "cheating incident".
The purpose of knocking on the mountain and shaking the tiger has been achieved, since there will be no real divorce, then there is no need to continue to hurt each other's feelings in a vicious form, it is better to have a sweet date after a slap.
Ren Tomei's gentleness is a sobriety and a means.
Her gentleness hides the maintenance of the family and the tolerance of her husband.
Tenderness after a confrontation with love
Ren Duomei gradually realized that her initial choice to be a housewife was actually not wise, and neither society nor her in-laws and husbands recognized the value of housewives.
When the initial passion between husband and wife fades and various crises come, Ren Tomei finds that she has no ability in her marriage to withstand risks and crises inside and outside marriage.
It just so happened that girlfriends Lei Li and Shen Jianan were more optimistic about opening a medical beauty club, they hit it off, the two girlfriends invested funds, Ren Duomei has experience in working in the direction of state-owned enterprise medical beauty, and also has time, so she became the daily manager of the club.
Ren Duomei wanted to wait for the results to tell her husband and get his support, but Zhang Weichen knew about this in advance and was angry at Ren Duomei leaving early and returning late and no longer taking care of his life carefully.
He did not choose to express his dissatisfaction directly, but deliberately approached Zhou Min, who liked him, and deliberately left clues for Ren Duomei to know, making Ren Duomei anxious and anxious, trying to pull Ren Duomei's attention back to the family and back to him in this way.
But the tool man "Zhou Min" did not follow Zhang Weichen's rhythm this time, and in the ambiguous atmosphere where the two were alone, he finally couldn't control his inner doubts and asked Zhang Weichen, did he like himself? Why don't you dare to admit it?
Later, he simply kissed Zhang Weichen's face, and happened to be looked at by Ren Duomei and his party who followed.
Of course, Zhang Weichen was panicked in his heart.
Unexpectedly, Ren Duomei didn't lose her temper at all, but just apologized to Zhang Weichen with a smile, saying that because of her allergies, Zhang Weichen has been unable to keep pets for so many years.
Zhang Weichen couldn't understand what medicine was sold in Ren Duomei's gourd, and was about to say something, but Zhou Min sarcastically said in a strange yin and yang way: Senior brother is really pitiful, pets can't be kept, and the people who raise them follow closely...
Ren Duomei glared at Zhou Min and raised her slap, but it landed on Zhang Weichen's face.
A group of people were stunned.
Zhou Min questioned why Ren Duomei hit someone, and Duomei raised her head and asked:
"Then why are you kissing someone else's husband?
I don't hit women, but if you kiss other people's husbands, you will bring trouble to other people's families, and that slap is the trouble you bring to Weichen.
Miss Zhou hopes you will find out that although I am allergic to dogs, I am not afraid of dogs. Before, it was I who cared about decency, and it was wrong for me not to take care of him, so I allowed you to have illusions about my husband, and also allowed my husband not to pay attention to proportion, it was my fault to apologize to you. ”
Zhang Weichen couldn't stay any longer, and wanted to take Ren Duomei home, but Duomei said coquettishly: "My husband answered me a question in front of everyone, you only have to answer yes or no, and then we will go home immediately", Zhang Weichen reluctantly agreed.
Ren Duomei asked, "Husband, do you think I am a stumbling block hindering happiness between you?" "I don't mind at all, I don't stop it.
Zhang Weichen immediately replied no.
Ren Duomei smiled and left hand in hand with Zhang Weichen.
No matter how deep the couple will talk after leaving there, what kind of doubts they have in their hearts.
But at the animal rescue station just now, in front of his girlfriend and rival Zhou Min, Ren Duomei gave Zhang Weichen enough face and preserved his decency as a man.
There was no tearing, no abuse, no accusations in person, but a slap confused everyone; A period of reply, blocking Zhou Min speechless; Zhang Weichen, who asked a question, made a choice, and also shattered all of Zhou Min's illusions.
Not only did Zhang Weichen have a long memory and learned a lesson and found that Ren Duomei was not easy to mess with at all, but also made Zhou Min see clearly the reality that Zhang Weichen would not choose her at all, and the goal was achieved without bloodshed.
More importantly, except for the slap in the face, the tone of the rest of the time is gentle and decent, calm and confident.
This time gentleness, a kind of decency, a kind of maintenance.
Preserve the face of the husband and maintain the dignity of the marriage.
Blind bottomless gentleness, called licking dogs.
But Ren Duomei is not, in the face of her husband's deception and coaxing, her mother-in-law's vitriol, Ren Duomei shows wisdom, reveals edge, shows principles, she resists, she expresses dissatisfaction, she strives to find her own confidence to start a business.
But in the face of these contradictions and predicaments, she did not speak ill, did not hysteria, did not lose emotional control, did not repeatedly accuse, and always remained gentle in attitude.
Such gentleness is the most charming.
Ren Duomei's gentleness is a sharp weapon, and the sweetheart of the mouth is interpreted to the extreme.
Ren Duomei's gentleness is considerate and tolerant to Zhang Weichen, and it is the decency left to him for her husband and the self-respect of men.
Ren Duomei's gentleness made Zhang Weichen feel the softness of his lover, the warmth of his family, and the happiness of his marriage.
How could such gentleness not enter Zhang Weichen's heart?
Such gentleness, how can Zhang Weichen not be nostalgic?
With such gentleness, how can Zhang Weichen not love?
So I really think that Ren Duomei is a master, and under the disadvantage of not having any confidence in addition to beauty and no other interests bound in marriage, she really managed to stumble on a man's heart with tenderness.