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30 years later, looking at the marriage between Ju Ping and Jiang Qixing, I realized that divorce and marrying Yang Shuo was the best choice

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30 years later, looking at the marriage between Ju Ping and Jiang Qixing, I realized that divorce and marrying Yang Shuo was the best choice

Who is Ju Ping? I guess no one is unfamiliar with this name.

She has hosted children's programs on CCTV for more than 30 years, "Tangram", "Windmill", "Animation World" and other famous columns, accompanied the growth of countless children, everyone affectionately called her "Sister Juping", but now she should be called "Grandma Juping".

Looking back at Ju Ping's journey, from a secondary school student to the door of CCTV, he has become a well-known program host, and has won the "Golden Microphone" award for many times and was elected as the "Top Ten Hosts of CCTV", and has achieved great success in his career.

Emotionally, Ju Ping had a failed marriage, and then lived alone with her son, until she remarried at the age of 44 and finally reaped happiness.

30 years later, looking at the marriage between Ju Ping and Jiang Qixing, I realized that divorce and marrying Yang Shuo was the best choice

Ju Ping and her first husband Jiang Qixing entered into marriage in 1992 and ended their relationship in 1999, which has been 30 years since then.

Looking back at this marriage, you will find that it was wrong from the beginning, and marrying Yang Shuo after middle age is the best choice.

However, some roads do need to be walked to understand mistakes, and some truths need to be experienced to understand...

01 The road to chasing dreams

Ju Ping was born in Beijing on January 25, 1966.

Although no one in the family is engaged in art, Ju Ping has shown great talent since she was a child, she loves to jump, love to laugh and imitate, imitate Peking Opera to look like, often make adults laugh.

30 years later, looking at the marriage between Ju Ping and Jiang Qixing, I realized that divorce and marrying Yang Shuo was the best choice

Ju Ping when she was a child

Ju Ping's dream at that time was to become a ballet dancer, but the conditions were not enough, in her own words:

"The legs are not long, and the face is round" doomed her to almost no chance with this dream.

In 1976, 10-year-old Ju Ping applied for the Central People's Radio and Television Galaxy Broadcasting Art Troupe, and their school recommended six candidates, and only Ju Ping was admitted alone.

In the art troupe, Ju Ping's contemporaries include Hang Tianqi, Cai Guoqing and others, all of whom grew up together in the Galaxy Art Troupe.

Ju Ping stayed in the art troupe for eight years, because she loves singing very much, she has admired Jiang Dawei, Li Guyi and other singers since she was a child, and when she arrived in the art troupe, she was fortunate to sing with them and recorded music, which gave her a lot of insight and broadened her horizons.

30 years later, looking at the marriage between Ju Ping and Jiang Qixing, I realized that divorce and marrying Yang Shuo was the best choice

Ju Ping takes a photo with her parents

Not long after joining the choir, Ju Ping fell in love with the piano, but her family could not afford to buy it, and the choir's piano was not allowed to move.

So she carefully watched how the teacher played every time she rehearsed, and when she got home, she drew the keys on the writing desk by memory, hummed in her mouth, played under her hands, and learned little by little, and gradually learned to talk about the piano.

Later, once the accompanist teacher fell ill, Ju Ping took the initiative to ask for accompaniment, but she did not expect that she played on stage and won a warm applause, and the students were surprised.

In 1981, Ju Ping graduated from Beijing No. 11 School, her grades were very good, but she did not go to high school, but chose Beijing Preschool Normal School, so that she could graduate early and earn money early to reduce the burden on her parents.

Ju Ping's parents have always respected their daughter's choice, and from childhood to adulthood, they have saved their own food and thrift and left the best for her as much as possible, so they did not say much about their daughter's choice.

30 years later, looking at the marriage between Ju Ping and Jiang Qixing, I realized that divorce and marrying Yang Shuo was the best choice

Ju Ping is also an opinionated person, she clearly knows where her strengths are and what she likes.

So she applied for the kindergarten teacher, if not to enter CCTV as a host, she should be an excellent preschool teacher.

After entering the kindergarten teacher, Ju Ping used the 25 yuan she earned in the choir, plus the money saved by her parents to buy her first piano.

This piano was bought by their whole family, it was her parents' love for her, and her own insistence on her dreams, although the tone of this piano is not accurate, it is still in her home.

In 1983, Ju Ping went to the Philippines with the Central People's Radio Youth Choir to participate in the 3rd Manila International Choir Festival, and at the end of the same year, her art troupe was videotaped on CCTV.

30 years later, looking at the marriage between Ju Ping and Jiang Qixing, I realized that divorce and marrying Yang Shuo was the best choice

Ju Ping on the right in the back row

Ju Ping was the tallest among the choir composed of many kindergarten teachers, and the people in the children's department saw her at a glance and thought that her image was okay, and she was from a kindergarten teacher, and there was no host of the children's program at that time, except for Sun Jingxiu's grandfather who told stories.

So the children's department asked Ju Ping to audition, sing and dance, and tell stories.

At that time, Ju Ping was dressed plainly, no makeup, almost all of them starred in their true colors, and she didn't have any hope.

But she didn't expect to receive an offer of employment later, and she couldn't believe it was true, because first of all, the TV station had already implemented to recruit only people with a bachelor's degree, and she was only a secondary school student.

But Ju Ping was very lucky, she was hired by Tailit because of her outstanding conditions in all aspects.

30 years later, looking at the marriage between Ju Ping and Jiang Qixing, I realized that divorce and marrying Yang Shuo was the best choice

In order to report to CCTV, Ju Ping also took a lot of thought at that time.

Because it was quite difficult for people in the education system to be transferred, she rode her bicycle between the Education Bureau, the TV station and the school, and after half a year of hard work, in November 1984, Ju Ping officially joined CCTV and became the host of children's programs.

Ju Ping has always been grateful for the change in her life trajectory, and she is grateful to CCTV for this platform, because here she can give full play to her acting talent, artistic talent and early childhood education experience.

If she hadn't come to CCTV, she would have been a dutiful kindergarten teacher, giving birth to children, and living an ordinary life, in other words, without CCTV, there would be no her today.

So she cherishes all this extraordinarily, and she also works extra CCTV, and has successively hosted "Tangram" and "Big Windmill" to become everyone's favorite "Juping sister", a household name.

30 years later, looking at the marriage between Ju Ping and Jiang Qixing, I realized that divorce and marrying Yang Shuo was the best choice

02 The road to love

Ju Ping is gentle and dignified, and is the image of her bosom sister on the screen, and the same is true in life.

There are many people who have pursued her since she was a kindergarten teacher, but she has never been moved, and at that time, she was dedicated to pursuing her dreams and had no intention of anything else.

Later, she entered CCTV and became a well-known host, and there were many who admired her, and colleagues, relatives and friends introduced her to objects, but she declined them politely.

It's just that no one expected that she would eventually associate with an ordinary person and enter the palace of marriage.

Speaking of which, Ju Ping's marriage also seems to be fate.

30 years later, looking at the marriage between Ju Ping and Jiang Qixing, I realized that divorce and marrying Yang Shuo was the best choice

Ju Ping with her parents

In 1991, it was originally an ordinary day, she went to the store to buy a pair of sneakers for her father, but she met Jiang Qixing, and everything seemed to become extraordinary.

Jiang Qixing is the manager of a shoe store, he is a Beijinger, a former soldier, tall and handsome, full of the masculinity of a man's youth, he left a deep impression on Ju Ping.

Perhaps God arranged that the shoes Ju Ping bought for her father did not fit, and two days later she found time to change in the store, but she did not expect to meet Jiang Qixing again, and he helped Ju Ping pick shoes together without saying a word.

Originally, the first impression was good, but this time it deepened the impression.

And Jiang Qixing also felt that Ju Ping was as gentle and beautiful as on TV, she did not have a bit of a celebrity shelf, and she communicated as close as the girl next door, and his heart had admiration for her, and then he began to pursue.

30 years later, looking at the marriage between Ju Ping and Jiang Qixing, I realized that divorce and marrying Yang Shuo was the best choice

In the eyes of Jiang Qixing's colleagues and friends, it is undoubtedly a fool's dream for him to chase Ju Ping.

She is the host of CCTV, beautiful and excellent, what kind of young man can't be found, how can he look at him as an ordinary person who deals with shoes?

But what they didn't expect was that Ju Ping was not a vain host, she did not admire the powerful, did not like materials, only pursued plain love, and fell in love with Lang Jun.

And Jiang Qixing at that time undoubtedly gave her such an illusion, so she accepted his pursuit.

For Ju Ping's choice, her colleagues advised her to be rational, always respecting her parents and hoping that she would not be too hasty, her mother said that love is the biggest thing in a woman's life, there is no room for a wrong step, and her father asked her to be cautious.

30 years later, looking at the marriage between Ju Ping and Jiang Qixing, I realized that divorce and marrying Yang Shuo was the best choice

Ju Ping, who was in love at the time, couldn't listen at all.

And the more everyone is not optimistic, the more she has a rebellious mentality, she has to prove herself, prove that she is not looking at the wrong person.

With this thought, Ju Ping and Jiang Qixing fell in love for a year and entered marriage, and in October 1992, Ju Ping and Jiang Qixing got married in Beijing, and their son Jiang Yiyao was born in January of the following year.

At that time, Ju Ping and Jiang Qixing were still very in love, from the world of two to the family of three, they were immersed in the joy of being parents, and they named their son Jiang Yiyao, hoping that he could fly to the distant future with the wings of his parents' hope.

The birth of her son brought Ju Ping a lot of new fun, and since his full moon, she has recorded his growth footprints, and photos of her son can be seen everywhere in her wallet, desk, and office.

30 years later, looking at the marriage between Ju Ping and Jiang Qixing, I realized that divorce and marrying Yang Shuo was the best choice

Ju Ping loved her son and work, and she returned to work soon after giving birth, when Ju Ping was busy on TV every day, often working overtime on weekends, so she could not take good care of her son.

Finally, when he reached the age of half a year, she "ruthlessly" sent him to his grandmother's house and asked his mother to help her take care of her.

But not long after, she found that her mother was too accustomed to this little grandson, everything went along with him, she was worried that her son would become a "little bully" because of this, and tried to talk to her mother a few times, but they were still reluctant to refuse the child's request, or because of him.

Ju Ping thought about it again and again, and finally took her son to her side and hired a nanny for him.

At that time, Jiang Qixing and Ju Ping were still very in love, but with the advancement of time, the friction of life and all the changes brought about by the arrival of their children, their marriage was also a feather.

30 years later, looking at the marriage between Ju Ping and Jiang Qixing, I realized that divorce and marrying Yang Shuo was the best choice

Despite this, Ju Ping still dutifully is a good wife and mother.

At home, Jiang Qixing is very masculine, never helping Ju Ping at home, he has always felt that wiping the floor, cooking and all housework are women's business.

Once Ju Ping's colleague went to look for her, and when she entered the door, she found her lying on the ground wiping the floor, while her husband Jiang Qixing was sitting on the sofa like a big man and directing, not wiped here clean, there needed to be wiped.

Colleagues were surprised to see what a capable woman she was in the unit, of course, it was nothing to do something at home, but under the command of a man, her temper was too good.

In this regard, Ju Ping felt that it was nothing, and she did a little more to make her home cleaner and more open.

30 years later, looking at the marriage between Ju Ping and Jiang Qixing, I realized that divorce and marrying Yang Shuo was the best choice

For Ju Ping's dedication, Jiang Qixing not only is not grateful, but also feels that it is rightfully taken for granted, and he deserves to enjoy everything she brings.

If Ju Ping doesn't care who pays more and who pays less, the last thing she can tolerate is his neglect of her children.

Once, Ju Ping was cooking, suddenly heard her son's crying, she heard the sound but rushed to see Jiang Qixing sitting there indifferent, he did not pay attention to the crying child, Ju Ping asked him, he actually replied: "How can you be so squeamish, cry enough to stop crying." ”

Ju Ping was very angry, but he still endured, but there were more such situations, and it was inevitable that there would not be some resentment in his heart, but before Ju Ping could send it out, Jiang Qixing "broke out" first.

In those years, Ju Ping's career developed better and better, as the host of the Spring Festival Gala and the release of CDs, her fame became more and more famous, while Jiang Qixing's career fell into a downturn, his emotions became more and more, and he either lost his temper or coldly faced Ju Ping at home.

30 years later, looking at the marriage between Ju Ping and Jiang Qixing, I realized that divorce and marrying Yang Shuo was the best choice

At first, Ju Ping chose to be patient, she knew that marriage needed to be run-in.

She wants to give each other one more chance.

But Jiang Qixing does not cherish it, and his long-term cold violence has long worn out the little love between them.

In order to give her son a healthy environment and let each other go, in 1999, when her son was 6 years old, Ju Ping chose to divorce.

After the divorce, her son lived with Ju Ping, she put her energy and focus on her career and son, although it was still very hard and not easy, but less the torment of marriage, it was comfortable.

30 years later, looking at the marriage between Ju Ping and Jiang Qixing, I realized that divorce and marrying Yang Shuo was the best choice

In those years, Ju Ping devoted herself to her career, ushered in one peak after another in her career, and won many awards,

At the same time, she also served as the producer of "Windmill Turning" and published the autobiographical book "Pingju".

Ju Ping came out of a failed marriage and made achievements in her career, watching her son Jiang Yiyao grow up day by day, because of the particularity of his work, he could not accompany him on some special holidays, such as Children's Day, New Year's Day and other festivals,

She owes it in her heart, but her son is very sensible, he understands his mother's work, does not complain, and is proud of his mother.

Jiang Yiyao said that when he missed his mother, he would turn on the TV to watch his mother's program, so that when his mother accompanied other children, it was as if she was accompanying herself, and when she heard her son say this, Ju Ping couldn't hold back tears.

30 years later, looking at the marriage between Ju Ping and Jiang Qixing, I realized that divorce and marrying Yang Shuo was the best choice

03 The road to happiness

Ju Ping was only 33 years old at the time of the divorce, still very young, and many people persuaded her to remarry and introduce her to someone, but she did not move.

She didn't plan to remarry, the first marriage was ruined by her willfulness and impulsiveness, she didn't want to waste energy on this matter anymore, and it was good to rely on her son for the rest of her life.

Parents are very distressed to see their daughter alone with children, but they also understand their daughter's temperament, and no one can change what she decides, they can only help their daughter take care of the child as much as possible, take care of her body, and let her have no scruples.

As he grew up, Jiang Yiyao saw his mother's hardships and difficulties, and he also felt sorry for her like his grandmother, hoping that someone could share it for his mother and take care of her.

30 years later, looking at the marriage between Ju Ping and Jiang Qixing, I realized that divorce and marrying Yang Shuo was the best choice

In 2009, when Ju Ping was 43 years old, she met Yang Shuo under the introduction of a friend.

According to friends, Yang Shuo is a native of Beijing, has been in business, has good conditions in all aspects, and has also experienced emotional setbacks, and Ju Ping met with him under the arrangement of friends.

The first time they met, they had a good impression of each other, but Ju Ping felt that she was divorced and had a teenage son, and she was worried that her son would be wronged if she was really with the other party, so she had not expressed her position.

Yang Shuo seemed to see her worry, and he told him directly: "Don't worry, I am good to you and will be good to your children, he is our common child when we get married." ”

Yang Shuo is not just talking, he is really taking action, after every date they will take the child, what is delicious and fun, he will also think about the child, his sincerity and action moved Ju Ping.

30 years later, looking at the marriage between Ju Ping and Jiang Qixing, I realized that divorce and marrying Yang Shuo was the best choice

Her son Jiang Yiyao also has a good impression of Yang Shuo, and she supports her mother to fall in love with him.

After a year of getting along like this, 44-year-old Ju Ping married Yang Shuo with her son in 2010.

After marriage, with Yang Shuo's support and care, Ju Ping is much more relaxed, and she doesn't have to worry about no one at home when she travels on business again.

Yang Shuo is a responsible and responsible man, he treats his stepson as his own, knowing that Ju Ping's age is no longer suitable for childbearing, so they did not have another child, but gave all their love to Jiang Yiyao.

Under the care of his new father and mother, Jiang Yiyao's grades are far ahead, after graduating from high school, he was admitted to Beijing University of International Business and Economics to study financial management, and then went abroad for further study, returning from his studies in 2018, and now he has a career he loves.

30 years later, looking at the marriage between Ju Ping and Jiang Qixing, I realized that divorce and marrying Yang Shuo was the best choice

Ju Ping with his son

And Ju Ping has the nourishment of love, her career develops as usual, and her life is more comfortable.

Now in her fifties, she has also begun to be happy and fat, so there are many hot searches about her on the Internet because of her fat, saying that her double chin, rich figure, and unrecognizable comments.

In this regard, Ju Ping said that she did not care, she also laughed that many children may not know me much now, they all recognize red fruit and green bubbles, but parents will pull their children to her and tell them that this is their mother's childhood idol.

In this regard, Ju Ping's mentality is very good, she has always felt that no matter what age she is, she should not rely on the old to sell the old, she dares to face her aging state, and also accepts the changes in her figure.

However, she did not mess up because of this, she said that she wanted to study like Zhou Tao and Dong Qing, they were really dedicated to art, and it was not easy to maintain a good figure.

30 years later, looking at the marriage between Ju Ping and Jiang Qixing, I realized that divorce and marrying Yang Shuo was the best choice

Looking back on Ju Ping's journey, from the little girl who chased her dreams to "Sister Ju Ping" and now to "Grandma Ju Ping", she has experienced a lot and gained a lot, achieving a better self;

Emotionally, although there were pains and tears due to the impulsiveness and willfulness of his youth, he met true love after middle age and married Yang Shuo and reaped the ultimate happiness.

Now she may no longer be young and beautiful, but her state is good, she is satisfied with her current life, she is also satisfied with the people she lives with, and she is telling you that she is living well and happy.

As a mother, her only concern was her son's personal problems, but after he got a girlfriend, she stopped worrying,

Just urge him to get married and start a family as soon as possible, and help bring his grandchildren while he is young, if it is really a heart of parents all over the world, they all hope that their children are happy and happy.

30 years later, looking at the marriage between Ju Ping and Jiang Qixing, I realized that divorce and marrying Yang Shuo was the best choice

Writer Sanmao said:

The heart is like a thousand miles away, and there is no boat to cross. People, except for self-crossing, others cannot help.

Deeply believe that self-lovers can be loved by others; Only those who help themselves can get help from heaven.

Life is volatile and unpredictable, never give up the yearning for beauty, the pursuit of happiness, let life be stormy, the heart is always bright, and if you don't stop, you can meet more beautiful scenery and live a better self, just like Ju Ping.

Above, with the princes.

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