The woman's name is Ran Ran, because the in-laws let her husband pay 50 yuan broadband bill, she can't stand the in-laws' calculations for herself, so a few days ago she gambled back to her mother's house. I thought that my in-laws would take the initiative to find herself and admit her mistake, but no one in the in-laws went to find her, and her husband even filed for divorce with himself.
Ran Ran said that she had lost any position in the family, and no one would consider half a point for her. In order to understand the contradictions of the family, the reporter followed Ran Ran back to the in-laws' home, saw the daughter-in-law return with the child, the mother-in-law Li Ying immediately made lunch for Ran Ran, but Ran Ran did not appreciate this, in the face of the reporter's inquiry, the mother-in-law Li Ying said that she still did not know why the daughter-in-law would suddenly return to her mother's house a few days ago, nor did she know why the son would suddenly file for divorce, she could not think of the contradiction between the husband and wife. What will it have to do with her and her wife?
Hearing this, Ran Ran on the side said that not long ago, the in-laws proposed to separate from her and her husband, but the in-laws had not yet moved out, and the father-in-law asked her and her husband to bear the future broadband fee of the family, although it was only 50 yuan, but she thought that this was simply the in-laws calculating themselves, so she had an argument with her husband, and in a huff, she took the child back to her mother's house.
Hearing that the daughter-in-law was gambling to return to her mother's house because of the 50 yuan broadband fee, the mother-in-law Li Ying's emotions suddenly became excited, and the mother-in-law cried angrily, because this area is 50 yuan, the daughter-in-law really should not have such a big temper. At this time, Ran Ran's father-in-law found the reporter, he explained that the reason why the son and daughter-in-law will bear the broadband fee is to let the young couple no longer rely on them and adapt to an independent life earlier, but they did not expect that such a housewife would make the daughter-in-law so dissatisfied, no matter what, the broadband fee of 50 yuan a month is not a calculation at all.
However, Ran Ran did not agree with this, Ran Ran said that since the in-laws have not moved out, then the utility bills and broadband bills should be borne by the in-laws as usual, since they live together, the in-laws should not calculate the accounts to themselves and their husbands. Hearing this, the reporter retorted that she believes that in dealing with this issue, Ran Ran's approach is indeed inappropriate, if it is because of constraints, you should communicate with your in-laws, no matter what, you should not divorce for 50 yuan, let alone think that your in-laws are calculating themselves.
In this regard, Ran Ran's father-in-law said that she and her wife have worked hard for their son for half a lifetime, everything they have done is for the good of this family, if the son and daughter-in-law really have difficulties, even if they have been responsible for these 50 pieces of network fees, the house has been built, 50 yuan is not paid, it does not matter, don't move to say divorce, hearing the in-laws such an explanation, Ran Ran does not agree, she said that the reason why she will be so preoccupied, is because she was forced to desperate, because the in-laws are calculating with themselves everywhere in daily life.
Ran Ran said that there are three apartments under her in-laws' names, and in addition to the house where she lives now, the other two houses have been rented. A few years ago, her mother-in-law promised her that the rent of two houses would be paid to her, for which she was very grateful. The mother-in-law thought that she could save some money, but she did not think that after half a year, the mother-in-law began to ask them for rent money, repay the debts of the family, and give the public bus pension, and finally was dominated by the mother-in-law for various reasons. What she couldn't accept most was that her mother-in-law even separated the two houses in the end, leaving only one house for herself to collect rent, which made it difficult for her to adapt for a while. That's why she's angry at 50 bucks.
In her view, the in-laws are using the rent of the house to calculate themselves, hearing that the daughter-in-law has been emphasizing that she is calculating her, the mother-in-law seems to be very wronged, she admitted. Before the rent of the family's two houses was indeed handed over to the daughter-in-law, and half a year later, the reason why the family frequently used money was because there was a big change, and the wife lost her job due to severe high blood pressure, so the pension of the unit needed to be paid by themselves. Because there was no source of income, he and his wife did not want to put pressure on their son and daughter-in-law, so they proposed to take back a house to collect rent and maintain their livelihood with their spouse. The reporter believes that since there are difficulties, it should be shared by the family.
Hearing the reporter's analysis, Ran Ran realized her mistake, and then she went to her mother-in-law and took the initiative to apologize. I thought that the contradiction of the family was resolved, but I did not expect that at this time, Ran Ran's husband Xiao Liang returned home, seeing the arrival of the reporter and his wife, Xiao Liang actually proposed a divorce in front of everyone, Xiao Liang said that the reason why he proposed a divorce was forced to be helpless, because his wife's practice had completely broken his heart.
He then called the reporter into the house alone. Xiao Liang said that after marriage, his parents have been trying to help their family of three, but his wife Ran Ran does not know how to be grateful. When his father needed to pay his pension, Ran Ran repeatedly refused, which made him very angry. In order to help his parents, he offered to use his living expenses, but even so, his wife still refused to give up half a point.
Xiao Liang said that his wife's unreasonable behavior made him intolerable. What makes him even more angry is that after every quarrel between the two, no matter who is right and who is wrong, the wife will run back to her mother's house with the child, and soon she will use the divorce as a blackmail to force herself to admit her mistake, and he is not happy at home, he turns his head and leaves, once, twice, three times, four times, five times, I don't want to coax.
After discovering the grievances in her heart, Xiao Liang turned around and left the mediation scene to see the situation, and his wife Ran Ran could not sit still, and she took the initiative to find her husband to talk. Xiao Liang said that she did not really want to divorce, but she was afraid that when the two quarreled again in the future, Ran Ran would go back to her mother's house to file for divorce, and she did not want to suffer in such a deceitful day.
Seeing that the husband said the concerns in his heart, Ran Ran on the side admitted his mistake to his husband, and after a good life, there was no problem, he heard Ran Ran give a promise, under the persuasion of the reporter, Xiao Liang finally put down his previous tough attitude, he went to his wife's side, gave Ran Ran a hug, a good husband and wife relationship is that both parties grow together, with divorce as a blackmail in exchange for an apology, and can not get any help, I hope that after this mediation, Ran Ran can reflect on his own problems, not because. Some small things in life and make a big fuss.
