Da Zhuang and Er Ni and I were classmates in elementary school, at that time they were simply intolerable, they were quarreling all the time, no one looked up to anyone, but they all had a good relationship with me.
Who knew that in middle school, the painting style suddenly changed, and the two people actually fell in love. I was originally a fighter, but later I became a helper to pass notes, and other food and drink would pass through me.
Only later, I was fascinated and stared at high school, went to a college in the distance, and Da Zhuang and Er Ni got married.
In this way, the two people can also be regarded as the feelings of the young plum bamboo horse, and this marriage relationship is generally relatively stable.
Only two people who graduated from junior high school, there is not much good way to get rich, first opened a small store in the county, the days were tepid, until two people had children, the first, the second, I feel that the cost is somewhat stretched.
What to do? The money is not enough to spend, but also want to buy a house in the county, Da Zhuang and Er Ni Yi discussed, Da Zhuang made up his mind, and went abroad to work. So Da Zhuang once again found his stubbornness, got on a plane in the early hours of the morning, and went to a foreign country alone, said to be Singapore.
At this time, I was also busy because of my time selling myself, and I didn't have time to contact them. It's just that when I came back to my hometown, I always talked to my mother about my two former friends.
It was not easy for Erni to take care of two children in the county town alone and open a shop, and then she simply put the shop out and returned to our town to open a shop, selling clothes and selling breakfast.
All the money earned by the big man is saved, but the house price in the county is rising, and the money earned is still not enough for the down payment. Da Zhuang worked harder, and Erni was not willing to go on like this, she made a bold decision to go out to work.
The latter thing was beyond everyone's expectations, but anyone who has some thinking ability should be able to think of it, but at that time, we regarded the relationship between Erni and Dazhuang too well, thinking that this feeling was too stable, what else could go wrong?
Erni went out to work for less than half a year, so she called Dazhuang and hurried back, and the old woman wanted to divorce you.
What's going on? How did two people who had such a good relationship suddenly want to divorce?
The problem of marriage is never that one thing causes a collapse, but that it is a trivial matter accumulated over the years, which causes many people to not love. Erni is also interesting, she went out to work, met a handsome man, and chased after her, although Erni knew that she wanted to control, but in the end she could not resist the temptation and walked with the handsome man.
That handsome man vowed to live with Er Ni for life, Er Ni also felt that these years with Da Zhuang, gathering less and more, living too hard, met a man who was good to himself, knew cold and knew heat, such a comparison, Da Zhuang is simply a dirty old bun.
So Er Ni decided to divorce Da Zhuang, and when Da Zhuang heard the news, it was like suffering from five thunderbolts, and immediately felt that the sky was spinning, and he quickly flew back to China, and he had to endure a month of isolation.
After arriving home, it is a bitter mouth to persuade his daughter-in-law, why can't divorce ah, the wild man outside is good, that is also cheating your feelings, your husband is the person who loves you the most.
However, at that time, Erni was Wang Ba's weighing and iron-hearted, even if Da Zhuang moved to his parents-in-law, it would not help.
In fact, Da Zhuang was also uncomfortable in his heart, he was wearing a green hat, who could not be angry, but he did not do it in place sometimes, and many times he ignored Erni's feelings.
And there are two children, what about the children after divorce?
So Da Zhuang just couldn't leave, Er Ni was helpless, turned around to buy a ticket to leave, and continued to return to the man's embrace.
Da Zhuang had been depressed for a long time, buying drunk at the tavern on the street every day, and also called me, a man in his thirties, crying like a child.
After all, I haven't been in touch with him for many years, what can I say? I can only say that I have to take care of the children, and the elderly, drink less, want to drink and wait for me to go back to accompany you.
But after all, I didn't have time to go home and drink with him, until I heard that Erni was dumped by that handsome guy, people said that it was just play, enough play was gone, WeChat was deleted, and the phone was blacked, as if the world had evaporated.
Erni has not been out of the house for many years, and in the strange city, it seems that she has lost her patron and has no direction, what can she do? After thinking about it for a long time, I remembered the good of the big and strong, that is the husband and wife feelings of more than ten years of tacit understanding, how can I forget it casually.
Even if it is a short-term pleasure, or a person experiences the taste of love again after middle age, but that kind of green plum bamboo horse plus long-term marital kindness, Erni will only think of the good of the big strong.
As for the handsome guy who just dumped himself, it was like a basin of cold water poured on the cold winter moon to make himself see this cruel world. Where there is no aging love, many times it is just a dog's blood-like impulse.
When Da Zhuang received Er Ni's call, he thought it was a dream, but when Da Zhuang heard that she had been dumped and wanted to reconcile with himself, his heart suddenly tingled, others don't want you, you come to me again?
So the anger that had accumulated in his heart instantly exploded, and many ugly words were spoken, and the man who was originally Mu Ne suddenly became cold at this time.
When you begged you to come back, you felt that you had found the future, and now that no one wants it, you want to come back, where is it so easy?
So the dog blood drama reversed again, and now Erni wants to come back, but Da Zhuang is not willing.
How can this be done? Erni is also really open-minded, anyway, the divorce procedures have not been done, directly live in their original home, no matter how strong how to insult is not to go.
Da Zhuang took the child back to his hometown, and Er Ni also followed back to his hometown. It is said that Dazhuang's mother also began to curse Erni, but Erni just wouldn't leave.
Da Zhuang felt bitter, and now the whole family supported him to blow Er Ni away, saying that Er Ni was a rotten thing.
Da Zhuang just called me a few days ago and I was surprised, what's wrong with that? After listening to Da Zhuang, I said what do you want to do? Da Zhuang said I don't know.
I said I don't know? Have you seen the matter of Milk Tea Sister and Liu Qiangdong recently? How did people choose?
Da Zhuang said that it was a man cheating.
I said there is a difference? Have you chosen not to marry again for the rest of your life? If you remarry you can still find a girl? Most likely, she is still a second-married wife, and it is possible that she will have to bring a baby. Can you compare with Erni? Besides, Erni is your child's mother? No one can compare to this.
Whether financially or emotionally, Erni is the best choice.
Da Zhuang did not say a word for a long time, and after a long time said: Go home and drink together.
I said, okay.
It's just that I was busier later, and now I don't know if they are reconciled, or if they are simply really separated, if you are strong, how do you choose.
Or as an outsider, how would you look at it?