Text / URANUS.
Editing / Little Love Letter
The name He Zhengjun may be unfamiliar to everyone, but if you say Zhao Gang, the political commissar in "Bright Sword", everyone will suddenly understand.
As a national first-class actor, He Zhengjun has been conscientiously filming since his debut.
Tian Han in "National Anthem", the villain in "No Trace of Snow", he carefully portrayed every role and consistently insisted on his acting career.
In addition to being serious in his career, so is He Zhengjun in his love life.
There has never been a scandal since his marriage with his wife Fan Yu, and even his daughter's name "He Hugo" is a testimony of their love.
When the two met, He Zhengjun was still a small actor with little fame, but Fan Yu never disliked poverty and hard work, and the two spent many years in a 9-square-meter rental room.
Now the two have walked together for 30 years of married life and become an old husband and wife, so how did the two meet back then, and what kind of story do they have?
01
In 1990, Fan Yu followed his relatives who were screenwriters to the crew in Yunnan to relax, and it happened that He Zhengjun was also filming in this crew.
That day, He Zhengjun saw the beautiful Fan Yu through the crowd at a glance, and he felt his heart beating faster, and he thought that this might be his heartbeat.
At that time, he was tall and handsome, and there were many girls in school who pursued his likes before, including Gong Li. But it was wrong, because of He Zhengjun's hesitation, the two people did not come together in the end.
Now that he met Fan Yu, He Zhengjun changed his previous hesitation, plucked up the courage and began to inquire around the crew who this girl was, only to learn that she was a relative of the screenwriter in the crew.
After understanding this, He Zhengjun was ready to fight for his happiness, and he began to think about how he should talk to Fan Yu, but He Zhengjun did not find an opportunity for several days.
Until the day of starting, He Zhengjun saw Fan Yu alone, so he summoned up the courage to go to Fan Yu's side and said the first sentence: "Come, I toast you a glass of wine." ”
At that time, Fan Yu was eating, and I saw a boy walking towards him with a wine glass, and he was going to drink with himself.
After listening to He Zhengjun's words, Fan Yu looked confused, did not understand what this person meant, and did not notice that this person was here to pursue himself.
But she was embarrassed to refuse, so she drank the wine.
Through this exchange, He Zhengjun found some feelings, and after that, he often gathered around Fan Yu whenever he had time, and he took the initiative to do anything.
Fan Yu looked at He Zhengjun as a talent, and he gradually felt good about himself for taking such meticulous care of himself.
And that drama was filmed from summer to autumn, creating 3 months of time for the two to get along.
So Fan Yu and He Zhengjun walked together and talked about love, Fan Yu was 22 years old that year, and He Zhengjun was 28 years old.
After the filming, the two left the crew and had to start a long-distance relationship.
At that time, the conditions were not as good as now, you can send WeChat and play videos at any time. At that time, Fan Yu and He Zhengjun could only contact each other by writing letters and only a few phone calls.
As long as He Zhengjun is not busy filming, he will go to see Fan Yu. During the two years of love, He Zhengjun almost spent his savings because of long-distance phone calls and round-trip travel expenses.
But it was also the two years of love that made Fan Yu see He Zhengjun's sincerity towards her, so she decided to marry him, although He Zhengjun was still a poor guy at that time.
02
1992. Fan Yuhe and He Zhengjun walked into the palace of marriage hand in hand. At that time, He Zhengjun was not famous, and there were not many scenes filmed, and most of them were also supporting roles.
So the economic conditions are not good, and there is no house of his own.
But Fan Yu has never cared about money, she fell in love with He Zhengjun and was willing to fight with him.
So the newlyweds lived in He Zhengjun's 9-square-meter dormitory, although the place was small, but the relationship between the two was getting deeper and deeper.
In order to give his wife a better life, He Zhengjun began to work harder to film.
In 1998, he successfully won the Golden Rooster and Hundred Flowers Award for Best Actor for his role as Tian Han in "National Anthem", and in 2000, he played the villain Zhou Mi in "No Trace of Snow", which also left a deep impression on the audience.
But also because of the development of his career, He Zhengjun often needs to go out to work, so the responsibility of taking care of the family naturally falls on Fan Yu, but she does not have the slightest complaint, and she also takes care of the home in good order.
Whenever He Zhengjun came home, he watched his wife busy and was very distressed.
Gradually, he also learned to do housework, sew and mend, and cook and stir-fry.
With the help of her husband, Fan Yu sometimes takes a break, waiting for He Zhengjun to take care of herself.
Fan Yu became pregnant soon after and gave birth to a daughter.
At that time, when naming the child, the couple didn't know what to call the child, and finally decided to choose one word in each of their names called "He Hugo", which means the fruit of He Zhengjun and Fan Yu's love.
After having a daughter, He Zhengjun is even more of a "super daddy", he sewed his daughter's clothes when she was a child, and he personally made small sleeves and bibs for his daughter.
But because of the busyness of work, He Zhengjun's days to accompany his daughter are really limited, so he cherishes every time he comes home.
In 2005, a "Bright Sword" completely brought He Zhengjun into everyone's field of vision. He played the upright and chivalrous political commissar Zhao Gang in the play, which left a deep impression on the audience.
So far, this drama has been watched repeatedly, and it can also be said to be a classic in Chinese TV dramas.
At this time, He Zhengjun finally became angry, he could give his wife and children a better life, and the family did not have to squeeze into the 9-square-meter dormitory, they could have a home of their own.
And Fan Yu, who accompanied him, has never left from poverty at the beginning to wealth now, being the reliance and support behind He Zhengjun, giving birth to children for him and keeping a home for him.
Since then, He Zhengjun's work has become more and more busy, with invitations to various dramas, various activity programs, and many TV series have been released one after another, and everyone has also been conquered by He Zhengjun's acting skills.
But this kind of work also led to less and less time to accompany the family, and once He Zhengjun came home from work one night and saw his daughter washing and sleeping, so he walked over and said to her: "Dad is back." ”
He Zhengjun thought that his daughter would come over and hug him and kiss him, but what he didn't expect was that his daughter said to Fan Yu: "Why did Dad come to Shanghai?" ”
After listening to it, He Zhengjun felt very uncomfortable, and he also realized that he had been busy with work and neglected his children, and he had missed the opportunity to accompany his children to grow up.
So He Zhengjun decided to put his work aside and get ready to accompany his wife and children.
At that time, many people also approached He Zhengjun, but he said: "I decided that I would do nothing for a year and a half, so I would accompany my child and send her to university." ”
And He Zhengjun did exactly that, making breakfast for his daughter every morning, driving the child to school, and then going to the supermarket to buy vegetables at noon.
Those days were the longest time the two had been together, and they were very cherished by both father and daughter.
03
Fan Yu and He Zhengjun are happy after marriage, even if there is a conflict between the two people, it can be solved quickly.
According to He Zhengjun: "What my wife is right is right, and what is wrong is also right." "With He Zhengjun, Fan Yu can always be the one who is taken care of and loved.
But there is only one point, Fan Yu has always felt that He Zhengjun is not romantic enough. She once said of her husband: "He is indeed a good husband and a good father, but he is not a good lover." ”
In daily life, He Zhengjun can't even say "dear", and he also says that he is a person without interest, and he is really a little more wooden in terms of romance.
But rather than using words to express feelings, He Zhengjun prefers to prove himself with practical actions.
The refrigerator at home has always been pasted with He Zhengjun's advice to Fan Yu: Go to bed before 12 o'clock, eat regularly, be sure to eat full, don't be afraid of gaining weight...
He Zhengjun's care and love for his wife are all in a sentence of advice, as long as he is at home, these things are done by He Zhengjun personally "supervising" Fan Yu.
Now the two have gone through 30 years of married life, and there have been no scandals or gossip in these thirty years, only two people love each other and are unswerving.
In recent years, He Zhengjun has returned to his family, occasionally coming out to film and make a cameo role.
"The Age of Awakening", "Armageddon", "Ace Force", as well as the movies "My Father Jiao Yulu", "Gunner Burning Soul" and so on all have the figure of the political army.
In addition to work, He Zhengjun often shares his life on social platforms.
Recalling his past movies, taking his daughter to the museum in honor of her father, posting photos of playing with his wife, life is also tasteful, and the couple often comment on each other on Douyin.
Looking back at the love between Fan Yu and He Zhengjun, it is like a fairy tale as simple and heartwarming.
The throbbing of love at first sight, the persistence of two years of long-distance relationship, and the life from poverty to wealth, the husband and wife have walked hand in hand for decades.
Fan Yu, who was only 24 years old at the time, was the age of a girl, married He Zhengjun, who was poor and white at that time, washed his hands and soup, gave birth to children for him, and also accompanied him through the most difficult times.
Now that life is better, the children have grown up, and the two have gone from young to old.
But no matter how much time has passed, the relationship between Fan Yu and He Zhengjun has never changed, and they still love each other as they did back then.
That year, the two became a couple from summer to autumn, and in the next few decades, the two became husband and wife from spring to winter, and there are many more seasons in the future, waiting for the two to spend hand in hand, watching the spring flowers and the warm winter sun together.