In a program, Guo Degang sighed enviously:
"Wang Yinan married the right person, and she found a good husband."
Presumably, many people do not know that "Xiao Qin" and "Erhao" are actually a couple, and they also have a daughter together.
But perhaps more people simply don't know the names Wang Yinan and Gao Xin.
But if you watch the recent hit TV series "The Bottom Line", you will definitely have an impression of Wang Xiufang, a warm-hearted, righteous and terrierous senior clerk inside, and even be impressed by her natural and vivid acting skills.
Wang Yinan, who has debuted for more than 20 years, is a veritable and underrated excellent actor, and her works in film and television that have been struggling in drama performance are indeed few, but the works in recent years are indeed very good.
Especially the Xiao Qin clan in "Knowing or Not", hypocritical, unwilling to accept fate, sinister, strong, hateful and pitiful, from calm, calculating, to grievances, and finally to the outbreak, Wang Yinan can be described as "killing madness".
Not only is Wang Yinan a "pearl of the sea", Gao Xin is a treasure actor, and in recent years, his performance is also amazing.
In addition to the well-known "Erhao", Gao Xin played roles such as "Prince Xiao Jingxuan", "Su Mingzhe" and "Pi Dan" are also deeply rooted in the hearts of the people.
Gao Xin, 46, is a late bloomer and is far behind his 41-year-old wife Wang Yinan in individual awards.
This is confusing:
At the beginning, the male actors of "Love Deep and Rainy" all skyrocketed, why was Gao Xin the only one who was still "struggling"?
Not only Gao Xin, Wang Yinan also has controversy:
Why are the injection marks on the face so heavy? Loose and crumbling?
This may seem like two problems, but in fact it is one problem:
Because Wang Yinan was disfigured, Gao Xin chose to retire during the fire.
One is the "young master" from Beijing, the other is the "big girl" from Yunnan, one is gentle and elegant, and the other is wind and fire.
In 1998, because of a play of "Wind Yang Restaurant", they met.
Somehow, maybe he felt that the two people were too different, or maybe the two people were too similar, Gao Xin began to think of Wang Yinan unrequitedly.
The means of pursuit are very "clumsy".
In the crew, they eat together, and Gao Xin will always let her wash the dishes.
Wang Yinan was puzzled:
"Why?"
Gao Xin is not ashamed:
"You're a sister, you have to wash the dishes for me."
There is a kind of liking that is clearly "bullying", but in fact "possessing".
When taking a taxi together, Wang Yinan sighed in his heart when he saw Gao Xin personally driving her to the back door:
"Eh, he's still a gentleman."
Then the next second, she was dumbfounded, and Gao Xin sat directly in the co-pilot.
"If he had to make love, shouldn't he sit in the back seat with me?"
One thinks he's flirting, one thinks he's going wrong.
No wonder Gao Xin felt that picking flowers was more difficult than picking cacti.
What's more, Wang Yinan also has an ironclad principle:
"Never look for a peer."
But she also felt that Gao Xin's tutor was particularly good, and her parents also liked him, so she moved her brain:
"Fertile water does not flow to outsiders' fields."
So she matched Gao Xin and one of her good friends.
And Gao Xin thought that he could go to dinner together in order to be close to her, and he really agreed.
Because he had no money to date, he also borrowed money from Wang Yinan.
Wang Yinan can be described as paying and contributing, well-intentioned matchmaking, and also provided perfect "after-sales service".
But these two people just didn't look at each other.
Wang Yinan's head is very sad, but Gao Xin's head is very energetic.
I often told her:
"If you can't get married, and you can't find someone in a few years, marry me."
And every time Wang Yinan was very perfunctory.
At that time, the whole crew was matching them, the filming was secondary, and the main task was to make them together.
However, after the scenes were filmed, Wang Yinan was unmoved, and the two of them developed into friends.
Until 2002, Wang Yinan had an accident in filming.
In the filming of a circus, she accidentally fell off the horse, accidentally hit the ground with her face, the bones were deformed, the cervical vertebrae were bent, and the collarbone to the mandible bone had a crushing fracture, and the face was directly misaligned and deformed.
After the initial bandaging in Yinchuan, Wang Yinan rushed back to Shanghai for better treatment.
At this time, it was Gao Xin who went to the airport to pick her up, and appeared next to Wang Yinan for the first time.
Wang Yinan had just finished removing the thread, and her whole face was swollen beyond recognition, and she wrapped herself in layers with a scarf.
Gao Xin didn't even recognize it at first glance, and later blamed himself when he recalled this paragraph:
"I'm ashamed I didn't recognize her at the airport."
At that time, he was shocked at first, and then immediately patted her on the shoulder and said:
"It's okay, it's okay, it's okay, it's gone."
Because her parents were far away in Yunnan, Gao Xin took on the responsibility of taking care of her without saying a word.
Wang Yinan's injury was too serious, not only did his speech speed slow down, his cheeks also lost his senses, and everything he ate would flow out unconsciously, and his mouth was constantly tearing and vomiting blood every day.
Seeing this situation, Gao Xin could not be distressed.
Because of the "Erhao" fire, he also did not shoot dramas, and went to her dormitory every day to guard her.
He kept wiping her blood, wiping her mouth, getting fat, not shaving his beard, and spending almost seven hours a day in the kitchen.
At that time, there was no air conditioning in the dormitory, and Gao Xin was bare-chested, sweating like rain, and boiled blackfish soup for her.
He also did not understand, after all, he was a pampered young master who had been pampered since childhood, and he did not know anything about chai rice oil salt sauce vinegar tea and ten fingers that did not stick to the spring water of the yang, that is, he heard that blackfish soup was conducive to recovering wounds, so he manipulated it according to the recipe.
But after all, Gao Xin did not know anything about cooking and had no talent, so the result was a pot of coffee-colored "fish soup" with a strong fishy smell.
The finished product is quite "dark cuisine", but he is very careful.
Wang Yinan said,
"He's a guy who either doesn't do it or takes it extra seriously."
Gao Xin personally picked out all the thorns and made the fish and children thin in the soup.
Because she couldn't eat, she carefully prepared two straws.
A thick straw to suck fish meat and fish soup, and a thin straw to drink orange juice.
Because it was so hard to drink, I had to deal with it with orange juice.
This lasted for more than a month, until her mother came over, and they learned that the blackfish soup was milky white.
When Wang Yinan himself had no confidence in himself, Gao Xin took great care of her, regarded her as a treasure, and said that it was false not to be moved.
Someone asked Gao Xin,
"Don't you mind? She was all disfigured. ”
He said:
"It's good that she can live, it doesn't matter what she looks like."
What is a real like? Maybe it's not because of looks, not because of money, not because of power, like is just like you yourself, nothing else.
So, of course, the two of them were together.
In the following years, Wang Yinan's injuries repeatedly needed treatment, but Gao Xin still did not give up.
Finally, when he really didn't know how to help her, Gao Xin also went to the temple to pray and make a wish:
"If she's in good health, I'll be a vegetarian."
He ate vegetarian food for 5 years.
Seeing you here, you may think, why, Wang Yinan, can have such a good husband?
But in fact, they never have a single arrow.
In 2007, they were licensed to get married.
Gradually recovering, Wang Yinan continued to achieve gorgeous results in drama performance, and also won the Wenhua Award, the highest award in the field of professional stage art in China, and finally became a national first-class actor.
Every time Gao Xin went out to shoot a scene, she always teased him:
"It's hard, it's hard, and the whole family is pointing out that you can open the pot."
And Gao Xin will always fight back:
"Where, I'm just going to work, like you're doing art."
He knew how much effort she had put in order to overcome her injuries.
He affirmed her, and she would fully support him.
Once, Gao Xin made a TV series and was co-operated by several friends to invest in the drama.
But, unexpectedly, everyone ran away, and he was the only one left.
In fact, he also wanted to run, but, he thought:
"Since you promised someone else, you have to finish this matter." I smashed the pot and sold it down, and I want to continue to complete this matter. ”
So I consulted with Wang Yinan, who was in charge of money, and what I didn't expect was that she agreed without saying a word.
"I feel very proud."
Wang Yinan admired her husband's courage and righteousness, but she also knew that
"It takes courage to stand up for him."
"I support him in doing all things that make sense."
Husbands and wives are to support each other, which is a very simple truth that they have always adhered to.
If he didn't become an actor, Gao Xin's dream was to open an Internet café, and Wang Yinan would be the one who helped him manage the Internet café.
They never felt that "husband and wife are the same forest birds, and the great disaster is about to fly separately."
Although the couple threw all the family money into it, there was no return.
But isn't life like this, it's not so hard to go, and it's not too bad that there are people who come back with you.
They are also people who have walked through a low valley, and once again, they all seem to be a lot more familiar with the road.
Wang Yinan said:
"After working for a long time, especially the people closest to you, I especially hope that it is not that he is how good he is, but that he can live a little more comfortably and happier." 」
Like a person is like this, just want him to really be himself, rather than trying to think of changing him and using him.
Gao Xin and Wang Yinan became dual workers, slowly working hard from scratch, and their lives were still quite comfortable.
Among them, the biggest help is Wang Yinan's optimism and love of life.
In a couple, a person with an optimistic attitude is needed to regulate all kinds of unsatisfactory and tolerate all kinds of small disputes.
Gao Xin is a pragmatic "straight man", and Wang Yinan is a person who yearns for romance.
But they don't clash.
Once, she prepared a candlelit dinner and created a little sense of ceremony.
Who knew Gao Xin said coldly:
"Wife, can you turn on the lights, it's too dark."
Wang Yinan just felt that he couldn't cry and laugh.
The host asked Wang Yinan:
"You make romance, and if he doesn't give feedback, will you get angry?"
Wang Yinan is stupid:
"No, it's okay, I'll renovate the tricks."
Once they had an argument, Gao Xin was so angry that he "snapped" and dropped the phone and went out.
Wang Yinan is also a god man, and she does not care:
"Hmm, what's so great about going out, I will too!"
Then he went out, and as soon as he got home, he forgot all about it.
She has a good state of mind.
Once, Wang Yinan recorded a catalog for more than ten hours, and the parking exceeded the time and was pulled away by the police.
She said she was lucky:
"Pull well, the parking money is more than the police pulled away."
With Wang Yinan, it is easy to feel happy, she is a person who loves life.
When she was traveling to Lhasa alone, she chartered a car herself in order to go to Mount Everest.
Thinking of saving money, I posted a note on the door of the hotel:
"A beautiful woman, a good car, if you are willing to participate, please report to a few zeros."
She also became an interviewer.
Say to those who look "cut":
"I'm sorry, I've found a travel companion."
To someone who feels good, say:
"Do you have any other friends?" You can come together. ”
Wang Yinan can always play tricks with his days.
Many times, when the two of them do talk shows together, Wang Yinan always talks non-stop, and Gao Xin will always "be dumb".
One is making trouble, one is laughing, incomparably harmonious.
They are not the same, but they are all the same, they all have a good heart.
The so-called "different ways do not conspire with each other", naturally it needs some soul resonance.
Once, Gao Xin, who has always been uninterested in romance, suddenly hugged a bunch of "don't forget me" and went home, and Wang Yinan thought he was enlightened.
Who knew that he said that it was because it was so cold, and he thought that the flower seller could go home early, so he bought all the flowers.
This is more than buying it personally to send her to make Wang Yinan moved.
All along, they have been doing some good deeds that they can:
Adopting baby pandas, participating in various forms of public welfare activities, during the epidemic, the two also embarked on the assembly line of mask production and volunteered for the night shift.
After 20 years, their feelings are still as deep, but they are more and more low-key.
Gao Xin and Wang Yinan are both similar and complementary, affirming and tolerating each other.
They all say, "Living as two people is actually a science."
But it is not difficult, like it, naturally it will be tolerated, and it will think of solving all difficulties together.
Marriage is not sacred, it just makes you have one more person around you to accompany you to constantly fight monsters.
There is no perfect fairy companion, what suits you is the most perfect, cherish the person in front of you can never be wrong.