On October 16, 2018, Zhao Liying and Feng Shaofeng officially announced their marriage, although the outside world has been mocking "the man is not worthy", but it can not resist Zhao Liying's footsteps without hesitation.
When the two were married, there was no diamond ring, no wedding, no honeymoon, and even the "prenuptial property agreement" had been signed, and everything was strange.
It was not until January 1, 2019, after the two sons thought about their birth, that everyone understood that they were originally "married by their sons".
Sure enough, the couple, who was not optimistic from the beginning, the marriage lasted only more than 2 years before it ended, leaving countless speculations on the outside world.
Today, Zhao Liying and Feng Shaofeng have been divorced for 3 years, and looking at the situation of the two, the gap is really clear at a glance.
Perhaps, all these variables have a certain relationship with the "growing environment of the two people, family education and attitudes towards feelings".
One
Feng Shaofeng, whose original name was Feng Wei, was born in Shanghai in 1978.
I believe that everyone has heard of Feng Shaofeng's family background, before the Internet rumors that Feng Shaofeng's father is Feng Yueping, the boss of Shanghai Silver Shield Textile, worth up to more than a billion.
However, Feng Shaofeng later came forward to refute the rumors, saying that his father was just an ordinary state-owned enterprise leader.
Of course, no matter what the truth is, Feng Shaofeng's family situation is far beyond ordinary people. After all, how many people who can drive supercars and live in villas just after their debut have looked at the entire showbiz circle?
As the only son in the family, Feng Shaofeng has been pampered since he was a child, and the elders in the family have high hopes for him.
In particular, Feng Shaofeng's mother not only responded to her son's needs, but also enrolled him in various interest classes, hoping that her son could develop in an all-round way.
In such an environment, Feng Shaofeng did cultivate a lot of talents, but also developed a dependence on his family. In a later interview, Feng Shaofeng also admitted frankly: I have not suffered any hardships since I was a child, and I am very dependent on my family.
It is this excessive dependence that makes Feng Shaofeng's mind immature, and also lays the groundwork for his failed marriage with Zhao Liying.
Compared with Feng Shaofeng, Zhao Liying's family situation is much worse.
Zhao Liying was born in 1987 to an ordinary family in Langfang, Hebei Province, her father was a police officer at the local police station, and her mother has been farming at home.
As for the meaning of the name "Zhao Liying", it is also very simple, and her parents hope that she will be beautiful and intelligent in the future.
Like other children in the countryside, Zhao Liying has to follow her parents to do various farm work from an early age, cutting wheat, picking cotton, watering the land, harvesting corn, etc. She has all come to hand.
When she is idle, Zhao Liying's favorite thing to do is to watch TV. At that time, it was the hit of "Huan Zhu Gege", and Zhao Liying was very fond of imitating the characters in the play.
Therefore, Zhao Liying's grandfather made a pair of flag shoes for her with two pieces of wood, and when she walked, she would make a "clucking" sound, and the simple gadgets made Zhao Liying happy for a long time.
At that time, Zhao Liying could not have imagined that she would become an actress in the future and also participated in "Huan Zhu Gege".
Two
In 1994, at the age of 16, Feng Shaofeng was admitted to a key high school in Shanghai.
Because of his excellent academic performance, he was sent to the Shanghai Theater Academy and became classmates with Yang Rong, Tong Dawei and others.
It seems that such a story can only take place in a novel or TV series, properly "Chosen Son" plot.
During college, most of the students went to run the crew and find roles in their spare time, but Feng Shaofeng was always unmoved, as if he had a lot of confidence in his heart.
Sure enough, in 2001, feng Shaofeng just graduated, he received an invitation from the "Love Code" crew, and he was also the male number one in the play, and his partner was Wang Ji, who was 12 years older than him.
This is a TV series with the theme of sister-brother love, and basically there are intimate shots in every few episodes, which makes the fledgling Feng Shaofeng both shy and excited.
Unfortunately, the age difference between him and Wang Ji is too much after all, so the ambiguous relationship only stops in the play and does not develop further in real life.
However, not long after filming this play, Feng Shaofeng met his first love girlfriend Xu Qiwen.
In fact, the two are alumni of the drama, but they have little intersection during the school period, and their first encounter was in the crew of the TV series "Rise".
At that time, Feng Shaofeng was very fond of Xu Qiwen, the little sister. However, due to the fact that both of them have just debuted, in the spirit of career-oriented ideas, this relationship did not last long.
Bidding farewell to his first love, Feng Shaofeng, who was not bound by love, wanted to show his fists in the entertainment industry, but fate abandoned him for the first time.
In the years that followed, Feng Shaofeng's good fortune seemed to run out, and he had been messing around in the supporting role circle, not even touching the side of the protagonist.
On the other hand, Zhao Liying's life was not very good.
Three
Unlike Feng Shaofeng, Zhao Liying has not been a piece of learning material since she was a child, and it took half a day to be admitted to a secondary school.
At that time, Zhao Liying was studying flight attendants, and just when she fantasized about becoming a flight attendant in the future, a sister from the same school broke her dream.
It turns out that not all students can become flight attendants, and more people can only do some ground work at the airport, and there is no chance to go to heaven.
Such a reality makes Zhao Liying unacceptable, so she can only give up her "flight attendant dream" and honestly find a job after graduation.
During that time, Zhao Liying handed out flyers, worked as a waiter in a restaurant, and finally gained a foothold in a pipe anti-corrosion materials company.
However, because Zhao Liying is not good at words, her usual performance is very general, basically in a mixed day.
By chance, Zhao Liying saw an advertisement for the Yahoo Star Search Contest on the Internet, and she saw that the registration process was very simple, as long as she uploaded a photo, so she signed herself up.
This game of that year, the use of online voting, Zhao Liying with pure looks to win the love of many netizens, the number of votes is also a ride, all the way into the top 50.
It didn't take long for Zhao Liying to pass the primary election and qualify for the rematch.
Because she had to go to Beijing to participate in the training camp, Zhao Liying could only quit the job at hand. At first, Zhao Liying was not at ease, worried that she would be deceived, and in the end she lost her job.
It was not until she stepped on the stage of the competition that the stone in Zhao Liying's heart was put down, but seeing the big coffee under the stage, Zhao Liying became more nervous.
Although the popularity of this game is relatively low, there are many celebrities who are present, and well-known directors such as Feng Xiaogang, Chen Kaige, Zhang Ji and so on are basically all on the scene.
With the momentum of the newborn calf not afraid of the tiger, Zhao Liying reached the final all the way, and finally was assigned to the Feng Xiaogang group, and also won the championship of this group, which was really lucky.
Immediately after, Zhao Liying starred in an advertisement directed by Feng Xiaogang and contributed her debut on the screen. At this point, this girl from the countryside has transformed into a new star in the entertainment industry.
Four
On the other hand, although Feng Shaofeng has not yet been able to become a small student in the circle, his scandal cannot be stopped at all.
In 2007, Feng Shaofeng starred in the Hong Kong drama "Years and Clouds". In this drama, there are many Hong Kong goddesses, such as She Shiman, Deng Cuiwen, etc., but Feng Shaofeng is partial to the "ugliest" Hu Xing'er.
At that time, Hu Xing'er had just broken up with Huang Zongze, and Feng Shaofeng's appearance could be said to be just right. In the face of media questions, Feng Shaofeng said bluntly, "Huang Zongze is not worthy of Hu Xing'er, but I can."
Unfortunately, Hu Xing'er has not been able to put Down Huang Zongze in her heart. Under Huang Zongze's re-pursuit, the two soon reconciled, and Feng Shaofeng became a joke.
In desperation, Feng Shaofeng had to return to the interior. Soon, his next gossip girlfriend, An Yixuan, was officially online.
In 2008, Feng Shaofeng and An Yixuan collaborated on "Yunniang", and the scandal between the two did not go away. According to media reports, at that time, Feng Shaofeng took the initiative to pursue An Yixuan, and the two often interacted on social platforms.
However, at that time, An Yixuan only had Lee Seung-hyun in his heart, and Feng Shaofeng was once again reduced to a background board.
The year 2011 is of great significance to both Feng Shaofeng and Zhao Liying, and can be called a turning point in their fate.
Feng Shaofeng exploded with "Palace Lock Heart Jade" and became a well-known first-line student.
And Zhao Liying also starred in "Qing'er" in "New Zhu Gege" and began to be well known by the audience.
In fact, Zhao Liying's role in the initial audition was "Xiaoyanzi", but because the line skills were not solid enough, she could only retreat to the second place and chose Qing'er, who had fewer lines.
When filming "Palace Lock Heart Jade", Feng Shaofeng was not idle, and he once again had a scandal with the heroine of the play, Yang Mi.
In fact, the relationship between the two was not good at the beginning, because Yang Mi hated Feng Shaofeng for acting too badly, so he often lost his temper with him in the crew.
But somehow, scolding and scolding out of feelings. The two not only have a sense of CP in the play, but also interact frequently in real life.
Feng Shaofeng also said in an interview: Sometimes I can't tell the difference between the role and myself.
During that time, it was often seen that Feng Shaofeng and Yang Mi interacted online, and the two were also very sweet when they attended the press conference, and even their eyes carried various sparks.
However, this scandal between the two is, after all, thunder and rain, and there are all kinds of revelations but no substantive progress.
And Feng Shaofeng seems to be unable to wait, and in 2012, he finally took the initiative and took a proper girlfriend: Ni Ni.
Five
Feng Shaofeng and Ni Ni met at a fashion week, when Ni Ni was in the limelight with "Jinling Thirteen Chao", and Feng Shaofeng fell in love with her at first sight.
Immediately after the clichéd drama, Feng Shaofeng launched a fierce pursuit of Ni Ni, and Ni Ni quickly threw herself into his arms.
And just when Feng Shaofeng and Ni Ni were sweet, Zhao Liying on the other side was not idle.
When filming "The Legend of Lu Zhen" in 2013, Zhao Liying and Chen Xiao passed on a scandal.
The two are similar in age and look very husband and wife, so they have been recognized by many netizens, and cp fans are even more excited.
The two participated in the variety show together and discussed the script together, and Chen Xiao also painted many portraits for Zhao Liying.
All indications are that the relationship between the two is indeed in a state of "friendship is not enough lovers".
However, when it came to key issues, Chen Xiao was always hesitant, and the scandal between the two was fried for two or three years, but Chen Xiao still refused to admit it.
Fans are waiting, waiting, waiting, waiting, etc., the result is not waiting for Zhao Liying and Chen Xiaoguan to announce, but waiting for the marriage news of Chen Xiao and Chen Yanxi.
I have to say that in this relationship, Chen Xiao's behavior is indeed quite disappointing, and it is estimated that Zhao Liying also thinks so.
At the same time, Feng Shaofeng's relationship with Ni Ni also came to an end.
After breaking up with Ni Ni, Feng Shaofeng was sad for a long time, after all, this is also the relationship he has talked about for the longest time.
But who Feng Shaofeng was, the beautiful women around him had never been broken. So after stepping out of the shadow of lost love, Feng Shaofeng began his own hunting journey again.
Sun Xinya, Song Qian, Lin Yun, several gossip girlfriends in a row change non-stop, netizens are a bit unable to keep up with his frequency.
Especially the love affair with Sun Xinya, it seems to be a bit "catty", even if Feng Shaofeng is in contact with other girls, the relationship between the two has always been very ambiguous.
And Feng Shaofeng and Lin Yun's love affair, there are photos and videos as evidence, Lin Yun has also posted photos of cooking at Feng Shaofeng's home, basically everyone knows.
From the love experience of Feng Shaofeng and Zhao Liying, it can be seen that the attitudes of these two to career and life are completely different.
The man is not very concerned about the career, he will do it if he has a job, and he will fall in love everywhere without work; The woman is very enterprising, and even if she is in love, she does not want to affect her career.
Perhaps it was this gap in all aspects that caused the subsequent outcome of the two.
Six
In July 2017, Feng Shaofeng finally slowed down his "hunting Yan" and aimed at Zhao Liying.
At that time, the media photographed the two walking together on the street, and they seemed to be wearing a couple's coat.
Then in October of the same year, Feng Shaofeng publicly celebrated Zhao Liying's birthday. At the end of the year, they collaborated on another "Knowing or Not", and the relationship between the two became more and more ambiguous.
Finally, in 2018, the two were exposed to the news of vacation and cohabitation, and this relationship can be regarded as a complete hammer.
Interestingly, the two always punched themselves in the face. For example, some netizens broke the news that they were in love, and the two came forward to refute the rumors, and it didn't take long for them to get married.
Some media broke the news that Zhao Liying was pregnant, the two came forward again to refute the rumors, zhao Liying also specially posted a "split fork photo" to prove her innocence, but half a year later the child was born.
Even the two eventually divorced.
At the beginning of 2021, some netizens broke the news that Feng Shaofeng and Zhao Liying were married, and then Zhao Liying sued the "rumor-monger" in court.
However, in the past month alone, the two have actually divorced.
For this sudden news, netizens are also difficult to accept for a while, from the beginning of love to marriage and children to divorce, the two did not leave any buffer time for everyone, everything happened too fast.
Therefore, it was not until the news of the divorce of the two spread that netizens began to review the problems they had encountered in the marriage.
Looking back carefully, it is not difficult to find that the relationship between the two is indeed inferior to those so-called "loving couples".
At first, the two did often show affection on various occasions, but as time went on, the interaction between the two became less and less, as if they had become a pair of strangers.
Some people say that the two people have become less and more emotionally weak due to work reasons, which is undeniable as one of the reasons, but the more important and fundamental problem is that they are not in harmony in family, personality, way of doing things and three views.
First of all, Feng Shaofeng's mother has always looked down on Zhao Liying, thinking that she is from a rural area, her upbringing is not good, her education is not high, and she is not worthy of her son at all.
And Feng Shaofeng's personality is not strong enough, and he does not dare to refute his mother's views, which leads to a contradiction between him and Zhao Liying.
Secondly, although Zhao Liying has a sense of enterprise, she is also a woman after all, and she still hopes that someone can rely on her heart.
However, as mentioned earlier, Feng Shaofeng's mentality has not been mature enough to give Zhao Liying enough security, so the two will gradually drift apart.
Now the two have been divorced for 3 years, and their respective situations have also undergone a major reversal, which can be called "huge gap".
After the divorce, Zhao Liying did have a short period of exhaustion, but she seemed to adjust quickly, and she also took over several film and television dramas, which was also welcomed by the main drama market, which can be described as a smooth development.
On the other hand, Feng Shaofeng, before the divorce, the resources were really good, but after the divorce, it was as if "the world disappeared", there were no new works, nor on the variety show, was it because the family had more money and did not need to come out to struggle?
However, in early September 2022, some media actually filmed the two people in the same frame, and they did not know whether they were partying because of work or because of children, and the relationship was confusing.
Although many fans clamored to "hope that the two can get back together", Ye Gongzi felt that it was unlikely, after all, good horses do not eat back grass, and Zhao Liying is a very sober girl, and she will definitely not let herself fall into trouble for the second time.
Of course, whether the two maintain the status quo or reunite, only their own happiness is the most important.
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