When moms have been all these years, the two most envious moms:
Someone helps to bring the baby, and the baby looks for her mother from time to time.
In the first three years of giving birth to a baby, the old mother looked at the baby, looked at the incense, was afraid of melting in her mouth, held it in her hand for fear of falling, wanted to hold everything, and wanted to carry it wherever she went.
Wait until you are three years old...
I heard that the "Mars Colonization Plan" is about to be realized, can I send the bear child first?
On the "Bear Baby Encyclopedia", the bear child is also known as: humanoid pendant, sticky mother crazy demon, Fei Ma artifact...
Bear children are creatures that are born with "mother positioning".
If the old mother is around, it is "mā·ma, má·ma, mama."
(mǎ·ma), mà·ma..." The four tones look for you without accent.
If the old mother is not around, it is:
"Dad, what about my mom?" Milk, what about my mom? Oh, my mother..."
Whenever she was chased and intercepted by all kinds of "encirclement and blocking" and "there was nothing to hide", the old mother, who was physically and mentally exhausted, only wanted to sigh to the sky:
"Take the baby away, save me for a while, and win the seventh-level floating massacre."
Fortunately, there is no end to the mother's road, and every time when the old mother is on the verge of collapse, someone can always help me "take away" the baby.
"Throw" the baby to his good friend
A long time ago, I realized a truth:
"The easiest way to bring a baby is to let the child play with the child."
I remember that it was a sunny day, the child and her second aunt brought her baby to my house, the two babies met and hated each other late, and played until dark.
Although there are countless episodes in the middle of "baby flying egg beating" and "you cry and I appear", the whole can also give me a breathing opportunity.
The old mother no longer has to play a monster that can be killed by Ultraman, and a monster that cannot be killed by Ultraman at once.
But the good times are not long, I remember that it was a sunny day, the child her second aunt took her baby away from my house, and since then the two babies have been high and long, and it is difficult to see each other again.
The old mother reopened the days of sparring, playing, chatting, and the baby's big eyes and small eyes.
In the middle of this, the old mother is also looking for playmates for the baby everywhere in the community, so that I can temporarily get free.
However, in the community, the baby under the age of three is not seen before, and the baby over the age of three is not seen in the back, and it is difficult for the baby to find a playmate, and the old mother is alone but drooling.
Fortunately, kung fu pays off.
Under the unremitting efforts of the old mother, my baby finally met his destined fate.
From that day on, every night at the fixed time, the old mother would take all kinds of guys, pick up the baby, take a pleasant step, and stride to the place where he and his little friend had agreed.
Throw the bear child away, let him into the doll pile as deep as the sea, and the mother is a passerby from then on.
A group of babies are playing, a group of mothers are around.
The old mother's free time was finally back.
During that time, every night when he and his friends were separated, the old mother was sadder than him.
Moreover, since the baby and the little friends have played for a while, the courage has also increased, and the personality has also been cheerful.
The old mother no longer has to worry about his social skills, no longer needs to find friends for him, lurking in the community every day, in all corners of the interest class, looking for the mother of the same age to go up to the set, pretending to be a "social cow".
"Throw" the baby to the book
If it is said that "throwing" to his good friend can make the old mother breathe free air again, then "throwing" the baby to the book will save the old mother's brain nerves.
Really, you can never imagine how many problems a child can have:
"Mom, why is there a sun in the sky?"
"Mom, why isn't the sun the pink I love?"
"Mom, why do you say that it's okay for adults to drink Coke, but children will be poisoned when they drink it?"
Peeking at the brain cells of the husband's mobile phone, there are not more brain cells that are expensive to answer the baby's various questions.
At the beginning, the old mother was still willing to act as an encyclopedia, using the wisdom I had accumulated for more than 30 years to answer her doubts one by one, and if she could not answer them, she would also seek the help of her friend Du Niang.
Gradually, however, the problem of the baby went off the rails:
"Mom, can you give me a kitten as a sister?"
"Mom, after you die, will the jewelry in your jewelry box be mine?" Can you see it when I wear it? ”
"Mom, why is your face green?"
Sometimes I think about it, but I am a pity that I was young, I was already born early, and it is estimated that half of me was angry and half was asked.
Until I was angry, I ordered books from the Internet and stuffed the shelves, and seized various opportunities every day to read them to the baby.
This is good, the baby's time is filled at once.
Every day when I come back from kindergarten, I will read the book first, play with the children after reading it, and then look at the book when I am tired.
As soon as the eyes are closed and opened, a full day passes.
Although from time to time, Baba will also ask for confusion:
"Mom, but I have a problem..."
But old mothers will deal with it skillfully:
"Reading books breaks ten thousand volumes, children smash, all your questions, time will give you answers, books will give you answers." This is a man, no, a baby, to endure the loneliness of reading. ”
"Mom, I didn't understand."
"If you don't understand, keep reading!"
Sure enough, after insisting on it for a while, the knowledge of the baby was enriched, and the freedom and happiness of the old mother returned to two blocks.
"Throw" the baby outdoors
The happiness of the old mother has just returned for 5 days, and the weekend has arrived.
Let the baby play for a day, there are not so many babies in the community who can match his energy.
Let Eva read a book for a day, I am afraid that the books will annoy him.
The old mother was worried, and she saw a news item on the Internet:
"A mother takes her child to take the high-speed train, afraid that the child will noisy others, this mother will let the child wipe the ground the whole time, trying to exhaust the child's energy."
Between the sparks of the electric stone, the old mother's seven meridians and eight veins were opened, yes, after consuming the energy of the bear child, he could not fall asleep, quiet, not noisy, not annoying the mother, not annoying the mother.
Say late and fast, outdoor sports immediately arranged.
After that, every weekend from morning to night, either climb the mountain, or ride a bicycle, walk the dog, or naughty fort.
In short, we must take the baby to a place where he can't go back if he wants to, and don't go home without releasing his energy.
As for the old mother, hehe, the baby is playing, I am laughing, happy to spend the weekend.
Moreover, since the baby was "thrown" outdoors, the baby's energy has been consumed every time, her temper has become better, and her voice has been gentle.
The old mother also had a new harvest: 300 pounds of weight, finally lost 0.1 pounds, 100 square meters of large face plate, now look small circle.
However, everything cannot be happy too soon.
Although after a period of outdoor stocking, every time she comes home, she sleeps deeply from the time she gets in the car. However, his physical strength was also exercised.
Previously, he was charging for 5 minutes, fei mom all day.
Now he is charging 1 minute, energizing for a weekend.
However, for the old mother who has experienced many battles, what is this difficulty, this is not, the magic trick is again...
"Throw" the baby to his father
In view of the previous three trials, the bear child has become fearless after getting along with the boys.
After reading a hundred volumes, the ability to think critically has also improved by a notch, and after various outdoor exercises, the physical fitness has also risen more than one level.
Nowadays, the old mother is frightened and can't be frightened, scolding can't be scolded, and she can't beat it.
It seems that the parent-child time of racking their brains, fighting wits and courage, and exerting themselves is about to begin again...
However, happy, the old mother is to be exclusive, painful, the old mother must be thrown to the baby in time to his father.
The child is difficult to carry, throw it to the baby and his father;
The child is too annoyed and throws it to his father;
In short, when there is difficulty, throw the baby to his father, and when there is no difficulty, create difficulties to throw the baby to his father.
No, the freedom and happiness of the old mother, isn't it back!
Besides, this is not to get rid of the responsibility of being a mother, this is the decision made by the old mother after careful consideration, and there is a very professional scientific basis.
Because countless parenting experts have said:
"Fathers are more involved in the family in child-rearing, and the children's physical and mental development is healthier, and the family atmosphere is more harmonious."
However, although this method is good, the effect is short.
Because before, you had to deal with a bear child, but after handing over the baby to his father, maybe after 5 minutes, you had to deal with two "bear children":
"Mom, Dad plays with my toys and doesn't play with me."
"Mom, Dad snatched my remote control car away."
For the sake of the child's physical and mental health, the old mother's blood pressure considerations, bear with it, endure it.
"Throwing" the baby to others, to put it bluntly, is the mother in the parenting, to borrow more power, more let go.
"Throwing" the baby to his friends is actually to let the baby participate in social activities;
"Throwing" the baby to the book is actually to let the baby sit still and broaden her horizons;
"Throwing" the baby outdoors is actually to let the baby exercise more physical fitness and have more ways to vent emotions and energy;
And to "throw" the baby to his father, in fact, in fact, in fact, in fact, the benefits of this article, the old mother has to make up a good compilation.
Saying goes:
"I don't want children to trap wolves."
The old mother said:
"If you are reluctant to 'throw' the baby out, the baby will not get real growth."
Being a mother is a practice, and being a baby is not a practice.
Let go properly, let go reasonably, let the children "go out" from the mother's side, they can grow better.
Of course, the most important thing is that the old mother "recharges" in time in order to "continue to work hard" and "create brilliant with the baby".