This child does not write homework, collects the mobile phone and is going to jump off the building, and then rescued by the firefighters under the persuasion of the strong persuasion, then, how should the parents get along with the child in the later stage?
It's really hard to be a parent now, I'm also a mother with children, to be honest, in the face of my child's education, I often feel powerless and mentally broken, especially when my child doesn't write homework
Modern children are a happy generation, but also a generation that is not easy to feel happy. Because the usual life is monotonous, there is no pain to hone the will of these children, coupled with the current parents of this generation of their own pressure, let the children feel from childhood is the pressure of family transmission of life, there will be complaints, when the child is small, our little by little complaint psychology will actually transmit the child, so now the child does not have any lofty goals for life, hope, because the goal has imperceptibly become consistent with adults to make money, do rich people, but also feel the difficulty of making money from a young age. So early frustration, gave up the right to think of a better life, many unconsciously live the same boring and boring life as their parents, parents are reluctant to go to work, after work to play mobile phone entertainment, let the body and mind release the pressure, in addition to no other entertainment projects. Slowly, the child is also like this, the absent-minded district school perfunctory, go home and play games to find some fun. Maybe it started out as an hour a day. Then 2 hours a day, slowly out of control, the waste of life began. In the face of playing mobile phones, there are really words of suffering, not to mention whether parents can control the play of mobile phones, although we hold mobile phones a lot of times for work, but there are not so many details in the eyes of children, he only knows that when we take the mobile phone, it is at ease, it is stable, it is comfortable. He feels the same way, sometimes it's school things, homework ah what to use mobile phones, such as English listening, I bought a learning machine for the child, but she will also be addicted to playing the small games inside for a while, no small games are extracurricular reading, novels, no this and the scanning pen can also let her find the browser, even the phone watch can also chat with people, play games, write novels. You simply can't control, there is, my own heart is also contradictory, this is the electronic information age, the era of science and technology, children out of these, it may appear to be a fool, information backward, a lot of things are also lagging behind their peers, the future development is not good, children play with a big heart, fundamental control is not good, this degree is sometimes over, it is really difficult to control, with this habit to develop, children grow up, it is more difficult to control the time and posture of children playing mobile phones and other electronic products, Finally lying like an endless addict like an opium ghost. At this time, parents want to control, want to reverse, it is difficult, will make the child angry, the child is at a loss, will be excited to do stupid things. Far from it, that is to say, our current difficulties, so after threatening the parents like this child now, how should we get along after we save him? The child has no self-control, even if the psychotherapy, do not want to find short-sightedness, but how to put him on the right track? After all, he is still young, he can't control it or is he addicted to electronic devices? Parents or no matter, if it doesn't matter, it completely becomes a home lying down? What to do, I have a child around me is also the third year of junior high school, he came out to pretend to study, that is, in the room to play games and the like, no other activities, no social play no vitality, eyes are also harmed, the future of the soldier is not qualified, the school is also abandoned, what to do after this, his life is so everyone watched and gave up? I want to help such a child, but I am also afraid that my child will develop into such a child without paying attention, how to get along with the child in the end, the responsibility of contemporary parents is too great to bear
