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You are all a mother
"Only mothers are good in the world, and children with mothers are like a treasure." Every mother conceives in October, undergoes various painful reactions during pregnancy, and then risks her life to give birth to her own child. They were originally one, a piece of flesh on her body! Some have a vaginal birth, some have a caesarean section!
I remember when I first gave birth to Dabao, because I didn't understand, after the due date or did not move, I listened to the doctor's choice of caesarean section! Before said that caesarean section is good, no pain...! But when I have experienced it, I know that it is not so at all, caesarean section is only not painful when I am born, and after giving birth, the anesthetic is too effective, it is not easier than a normal delivery! The two long openings kept bleeding, and I could feel the pain in the flesh there. After that, you have to lie in the intensive care unit like a living dead for at least 24 hours, only to hear the beeping of various instruments. At that time, my husband was busy with business and took my mother to take care of me. People in the mother's day had never seen a caesarean section, so there was no experience, and after the child was born, the mother took the child in another ward. Other people's homes are taken care of by a few people, but I have no one to take care of, I don't understand anything, I stand up for myself, just lie flat and motionless! Finally, I saw the big sister next to me taking care of her sister-in-law, and I knew that I had to change the urine bag and the paper on the bed, because there were two wounds bleeding, and blood in the womb. At this time, I asked the eldest sister to call my mother, my mother saw so much blood, they were stunned, before we did not know that the blood from the caesarean section was more than three times that of the smooth birth!
Mom's greatness
The next morning, we were going to go to the general ward, and we didn't understand it and got out of bed directly, and the blood flowed directly to the heels! However, there is no way but to move to the ordinary ward step by step, and if you toss and turn hard, you will pull the wound!
So after giving birth to the second child, I made up my mind not to have a caesarean section, and it was good that in the hospital I went to this time, there were acquaintances in the obstetrics and gynecology department! Go to other hospitals without saying a word, it is the first fetal caesarean section, the second fetus is undoubtedly a caesarean section! This time I was lucky to meet an experienced old doctor, and all the indicators were normal, but although it was also very expensive. Because the first birth is a caesarean section this time when it is the first birth of the same, and then the age is older than before plus anemia, after giving birth to the child, people almost faint, no strength, so the loss of two bags of blood to ease up!
In this way, I changed from a flower girl to a complete "housewife, mother". Since I have children, my 24 hours belong to children, and no one has taken the handle, taken the children, and done the housework all by myself, and I have given them all my youth and all my love. During the heartache and pain only you know! A person with two children, 24 hours a day, children when they are young to take out to buy vegetables are one hand to hold the child and one hand to carry vegetables. Often hold the child, the hand strength is a lot bigger!
I remember that when Erbao was still eating breast milk, my teeth hurt badly, but because he wanted to breastfeed, I could only bear not to take medicine for fear of side effects on him! Toothache eating is not good, sleeping is not good, but also to give the child milk to eat, the body suddenly crossed, see people said that I lost a lot of weight! In the end, I really couldn't stay up, afraid that if I dragged on like this, the two children would not be taken care of, so I was weaned fiercely.
As long as the child grows up healthy and happy, it is my greatest happiness
In the blink of an eye, Dabao read junior high school, and Erbao read primary school. They are part of my life. When I was a child, I gave them all my love as much as possible, but as time went on, they grew up. Slowly, I will leave me and enter the society and live their lives!
Especially now that the school has just started, the school is 8 kilometers away from home, most of the children have chosen to live in the school, unless they are students near the school! I was only in the second grade because of the second treasure, and I couldn't rent a house to take care of his life and study, and I could only let him live in the school. But when I went to pick him up a week later, I obviously felt that he was sullen and unhappy, and at first I didn't want to talk to me more, and after a while, he said that he didn't eat well and sleep well at school. I used to sleep at home until 6:30 a.m., and now I was woken up at 5 o'clock, sometimes I got up at 4 o'clock, I got up at the earliest 10 o'clock at night, and sometimes I was noisy until 12 o'clock in the morning to sleep, and I was seriously sleepy, and listening to the teacher's lecture in class was like singing a lullaby! Eat is not good, early porridge, buns, powder, but can eat only buns, porridge sometimes have a bad taste, smell are want to vomit, powder what taste is not, no taste at all! I said then eat the bun, he said not to take more, the bun is limited! Many students will be hungry if they don't have enough to eat. When I heard these words, my heart felt so bad!
The baby that I held in the palm of my hand since I was a child poured out all my love. Now to suffer this sin, my heart is really not a taste, tears wet my eyes, but I don't want to be discovered by him. I still told him that people are not happy in the world, and if we can't change it, we can only face it positively and optimistically. You are only in school now, and there are still many difficulties you can't think of when you go out of society in the future! When the time comes, you will have to face it, and you can't escape it.
I said this with my lips, but my heart was in a mess. Parents give their children all their love when they are young, but when they are older, they have to push them out to suffer!
When I sent him to school again, I couldn't stop crying when I got home. Why torture me like this! Let the mother use up all her love, and then let him go through all kinds of tribulations, let them suffer the cold and warm of the world, and the world is cold! All mothers are suffering from this kind of torture again, which is why the phrase "loving mothers are more defeated" appears. It's really hard!
The mother's hand is threaded, and the wanderer's body is clothed
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