The family has a daughter, poor or rich, has become a different attitude for many people.
Some people believe that a girl should be rich, meet her material needs from an early age, and grow up to have a higher aesthetic vision.
Some people also believe that the renminbi cannot pile up potential children, and if they want their daughters to have a better life, they need to increase their self-motivation, rather than good material conditions.
Compared with ordinary people, the second generation of stars always lives in the spotlight, some people call Wang Shiling and Sen Di as the representatives of poor and rich, they have participated in "Where Daddy Goes", and now they have grown into big girls, what kind of life do they have?
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The wealthy Wang Shiling grew into the look her mother longed for.
Wang Shiling is 12 years old, and her mother is Li Xiang, a typical career-oriented woman.
Li Xiang is most interested in buying a house, after she came out of school, she realized that she wanted to invest, and she saved up her income to own her first apartment.
With the spirit of hard work, Li Xiang's career is also smooth sailing, becoming the female host of Kuaiben, her popularity once soared, and she gained a good love, married into the Shuxiang family, and her husband is still a director.
After having a daughter, Li Xiang found that she could not fight the young female host, but became a behind-the-scenes planner, completed the transformation of her career, and when the Internet became popular, she was keenly aware of the future of live broadcasting and took the initiative to become a female anchor.
Looking at Li Xiang's development, it can be seen that she is a woman with a strong sense of purpose, even if there is a problem in the marriage, she does not complain about herself, but still maintains a high degree of professionalism and is active in the live broadcast room.
Her daughter Wang Shiling, who grew up wearing brand-name clothes, when she participated in the show, careful netizens found that Wang Shiling's dress was more than 20,000, a mini small handbag, which is a limited edition and worth 5 figures.
Some people questioned Li Xiang for being too rich to raise his daughter, and Li Xiang responded domineeringly: "I spend my own money to dress up my daughter, I am willing." ”
Clothes are famous brands, Wang Shiling's experience is also rich, Li Xiang attended the fashion show, will also take his daughter to participate, sitting under the stage to see is not addictive, find the opportunity to let Wang Shiling on the stage to walk the catwalk, I have to say, the little Wang Shiling catwalk is still quite a princess Fan.
Wang Shiling celebrated his birthday, Li Xiang invited the children of the second generation of stars to attend, and arranged a luxurious birthday banquet, and Wang Shiling was cared for like the stars holding the moon.
Of course, in terms of reading, Li Xiang is also very willing to work hard, she to her daughter to attend an international school, to the middle school stage can go to the United Kingdom to study, in the time of enrolling her daughter, Li Xiang sent a circle of friends, saying that her daughter stayed in the room where Princess Anne lived, warm and ancient.
Princess Anne, the daughter of Elizabeth II, can become Princess Anne's little sister and live in the same dormitory, and anyone who changes will also be excited to the hair ring.
Judging from Wang Shiling's appearance, she faded the baby fat and became a big girl, Li Xiang proudly told netizens that her daughter lost 58 pounds, really a female big eighteen changes, more and more beautiful.
In Wang Shiling's body, we can see the shadow of Li Xiang, who perfectly interprets her favorite princess Fan on her daughter.
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Poor forest butterfly, working hard for his dreams.
14-year-old Sen Di is the daughter of athlete Tian Liang, she is also on the hot search, in the photo, Sen Di holding a donation certificate, the appearance is fresh and unworldly, with the affinity of the girl next door.
Tian Liang is notoriously fond of his daughter, but not materially rich, but patient companionship.
In order to let her daughter find her own hobbies, Tian Liang accompanied her to participate in many sports, athletics, swimming, tennis, football, etc. After trying, Mori found her own hobby, that is, playing tennis.
In order to practice with his daughter, Tian Liang transformed into a pick-up player, practiced with his daughter on the court during the day, and exercised his daughter's balance when he went home at night, perhaps because of sports, The height of The Forest Butterfly is higher than that of children of the same age, and it is already one meter seven.
In addition to training, Sen Di likes skateboarding, she walks on the road, it is a beautiful landscape, her brother is also her little follower, both sisters and brothers like skateboarding, but it is difficult for the younger brother to catch up with the speed of Sen Di.
In addition to sports, Sen Di also likes to play the violin, as long as the daughter practices, Tian Liang will transform into a "piano score holder", but also intelligent page turning, this patience is estimated that many fathers are difficult to do it.
Seeing that his daughter is excellent, Tian Liang also makes no secret of his pride, sometimes taking his daughter to participate in activities, his face is full of joy, as if to say: "My daughter is great!" ”
In such a relaxed environment, Sen Di found her own direction in life, she loves sports, has love, has a persistent spirit of doing things, even if the training is injured, she does not give up lightly, she does not have the squeamishness of a rich woman, more of a determined temperament for the future, and her positiveness is also praised by CCTV.
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Poor or rich, has nothing to do with material things, but the degree of inner wealth.
Someone asked, "Is a girl rich or poor?" ”
The following netizens are talking about it, many people agree with the rich, but in the end what is the rich, but few people can say the accurate answer.
I asked a colleague next to me that he had a daughter who also had a wealthy attitude.
When his daughter was studying, in addition to the necessary meals, he also gave 100 pocket money a week, and after his daughter worked, he still had everything he needed, as long as the daughter spoke, he transferred money to her daughter, in his words, he could not let her daughter suffer poverty.
Under his doting, his daughter has no ability to control, buying clothes is a brand, the food in the canteen refuses to eat, every day to go to the restaurant, at noon must order a cup of Starbucks, obviously the salary is not enough to spend, see the new mobile phone still have to buy.
She dressed up every day, not knowing that her father was not even willing to buy a bottle of mineral water, and her clothes were washed to fade, which was the wealth that had gone astray.
True prosperity is not to give her daughter a material enjoyment of arrogance, but to let her daughter have enough spiritual drive to cope with the storms of life.
Li Xiang has enough strength to give her daughter a princess-like life, if you take her as a model of wealth and nurture, and also wear a famous brand for your daughter, then the second half of your life may be crying, because the desire is endless, when you do not have the ability to support the bottom, your daughter is prone to detours.
In contrast, cultivating the spirit of self-reliance and tapping the potential of her daughter with an appreciative attitude is the best gift to her.
Mr. Tao Xingzhi once said: "Life is education. ”
Words are short but full of philosophy, we cultivate children to be grounded, let children participate in the labor of life from an early age, and have suffered hardships in order to taste sweet happiness.
In the process of raising children, but also the process of parental cognitive correction, you think that the future, sometimes not necessarily the child's preferences, respect the law of children's growth, bend down to listen to the child's inner voice, sometimes there will be unexpected surprises.
A good education is not only measured by money, but also whether the child is happy.
The key to abundance is not material, but how to raise.
For example, whether you are willing to spend time with your child to do things that interest you, whether you are willing to use curiosity to accompany your child to play games, when you let go of the authority of parents and learn to be friends with your children, your children can grow up in a loving environment.
On each child, there are more or less parental shadows, Wang Shiling has a princess fan, Sen Di is very sunny, Huang Duoduo is full of personality, which education method do you prefer?