Behind the fame and fortune of the entertainment industry, there are often many untold stories.
Especially some radiant male stars, there are always one or two women behind them who have sacrificed for them.
Since ancient times, the four words "wife of chaff" have been filled with many sorrows and helplessness.
A woman uses her entire youth to accompany a man who is at a low point in her career, and when the man is successful, your efforts are in vain, and he rushes to the arms of another woman with full of glory.
I have always seen new people laughing, and where I smell old people crying.
When the chaff wife wakes up, the youth is no more, the people go to the empty building, only infinite sighs and regrets are left, but life can never come again.
The girl took stock of ten abandoned "chaff wives in the entertainment circle", each virtuous and virtuous, and each youth fed the dog, sad.
The first: Xiao Hua | marry Zhang Yimou despite his family's opposition
Xiao Hua and Zhang Yimou are classmates of Xi'an Thirty Middle School.
At that time, Zhang Yimou suffered poverty and discrimination because of his poor family composition.
The kind Xiao Hua only had heartache for Zhang Yimou's experience, which later developed into love.
After graduating from junior high school, Zhang Yimou was assigned to the countryside to join the team, and Xiao Hua also followed without hesitation, and the two lived in the cave and lived a married life in advance.
Three years later, Zhang Yimou was assigned to carry cotton in the factory, and the days began to have hope, so he thought about proposing to Xiao Hua.
But Xiao Hua's family strongly opposed it, and in that era, marrying someone with a bad family composition would inevitably be implicated.
Zhang Yimou heard about it and wrote a 40-page love letter to keep Xiao Hua's heart.
In this way, Xiao Hua married Zhang Yimou as she wished, but she would never have imagined how desperate her husband would be in the future.
Zhang Yimou has a hobby of photography, and Xiao Hua saves money from between his teeth to buy him a camera.
At that time, Xiao Hua originally had an opportunity to go to Shanghai for further study, but because of Zhang Yimou, she chose to give up.
After the college entrance examination system was restored, Zhang Yimou was admitted to the directing department of the Beijing Film Academy, and he went all the way north, leaving only Xiao Hua to guard the home.
After graduating from film school, Zhang Yimou was assigned to guangxi film studio and began to contact film, and also had some achievements.
At the same time, Xiao Gave birth to a daughter for Zhang Yi and named her Zhang Mo.
The picture of a family of three enjoying themselves only lasted for 7 years.
In 1987, Zhang Yimou planned to shoot "Red Sorghum", and formed an indissoluble relationship with the youthful and beautiful Gong Li.
Zhang Yimou won countless awards with Gong Li, and the scandal between the two did not go away.
Xiao Hua even turned out Zhang Yimou's love letter to Gong Li in Zhang Yimou's clothes pocket, and every word was full of affection.
At first, Xiao Hua did not want to divorce, but Zhang Yimou's determination was great, and he also said: "The combination between me and you is a misunderstanding when I cut in line. ”
Helplessly, the next year, Xiao Hua left Zhang Yimou with Zhang Mo.
Years later, Xiao Hua wrote in his autobiography "Past Events": "'Red Sorghum' has shaped a director with achievements, and finally extinguished a heart that was once sincere. ”
Later, Zhang Yimou rode in the dust on the road of the famous director, and Xiao Hua, who accompanied Zhang Yimou through the dark moment, has long been forgotten.
Second place: Zhu Weiyin | crossed the ocean in exchange for scars
In the 1980s, Zhu Weiyin and Li Zongsheng met.
At that time, Chu Weiyin was a famous DJ in Hong Kong, and Li Zongsheng was a well-known musician in Taiwan.
Because of the connection of music, the two quickly sprouted love, and then came together and had a long-distance relationship for two years.
The two are still married by Zhu Weiyin, she is not willing to have a long-distance relationship with no end in sight, she said to Li Zongsheng on the phone: "Either get married or break up." ”
In 1988, Li Zongsheng married Zhu Weiyin, and Zhu Weiyin also followed Li Zongsheng to Taiwan to live.
In order to take care of the family, Zhu Weiyin chose to give up her career and become the woman behind Li Zongsheng.
As everyone knows, Li Zongsheng has never been a man suitable for marriage, and his affectionate singing voice needs fresh love to spawn.
In 1992, Li Zongsheng and Lin Yilian met because of their cooperation in "When Love Has Become a Thing of the Past", and the two cooperated tacitly, and the singing mixed together was even more direct to people's hearts.
For this winking singer, Li Zongsheng really couldn't resist, and the flames of love were everywhere.
In those two years, the cooperation between Li Zongsheng and Lin Yilian became more and more frequent, and the scandals between the two were also full of storms.
Watching them sing affectionately on stage, Zhu Weiyin's heart was like a knife cutting off the stage.
Even so, Zhu Weiyin still gave birth to a second child for Li Zongsheng, and she was eager to use the child to keep Li Zongsheng's heart.
It's just that Li Zongsheng's soul was taken away by Lin Yilian, and in the face of public opinion, he still abandoned Zhu Weiyin under pressure.
1997 was the most painful year for Zhu Weiyin, losing her marriage and losing her parents.
Li Zongsheng and Lin Yilian then went to Canada to get married, Zhu Weiyin did not sink, she picked up her career again, became a host and DJ, and she also founded the "Woman Forever 28" growth class.
Zhu Weiyin is a woman with a big pattern, she once published "True Love Does Not Die", telling the experience of meeting and falling in love with Li Zongsheng to divorce, there is no complaint between the lines, only relief.
In 2013, Li Zongsheng held a concert at the Taipei Arena, and Zhu Weiyin praised the concert and gave a high evaluation: "He is witnessing history for himself." ”
Interestingly, Li Zongsheng and Lin Yilian did not come to the end, but instead he put his old age into a wife who was 27 years younger than him.
Li Zongsheng has been inseparable from women all his life, and the women who left him have long been reborn and become their own queen.
Third place: Cai Qin | ten years of marriage, a lifetime of regrets
In 1984, Yang Dechang was still a new director in Taiwan, and Cai Qin was already a hot Taiwanese singer.
At that time, Yang Dechang was preparing to shoot a "Green Plum Bamboo Horse", and found Cai Qin, hoping that she would play the heroine.
In this way, Elder Yue pulled a red line for Cai Qin and Yang Dechang.
After the scene was filmed, Cai Qin and Yang Dechang were also inseparable.
That year, 28-year-old Cai Qin wanted to have a home, so she asked Yang Dechang what she meant.
Unexpectedly, Yang Dechang hesitated, hesitated, and after several considerations, he still married Cai Qin.
But Cai Qin did not enjoy the sweetness of the newlywed Yan'er, only the contract of "platonic love" proposed by Yang Dechang.
Cai Qin thought that Yang Dechang's move was to maintain the purity of love, but she did not know that this was a conspiracy.
Later, Yang Dechang stumbled in the film industry, and Cai Qin used the money earned by singing to fully support Yang Dechang's achievements in movies.
However, as Yang Dechang's fame grew, his attitude towards Cai Qin became more and more indifferent.
In 1994, Yang Dechang and Peng Kaili felt sorry for each other because of the movie "Independent Times", and the scandal between the two passed into Cai Qin's ears.
Yang Dechang did not care about the love between husband and wife, resolutely proposed divorce, and then had children with Peng Kaili.
Referring to his relationship with Cai Qin, Yang Dechang said that "ten years of marriage, a blank".
These few words broke Cai Qin's heart, and in the next decade, she has been healing her love wounds and has suffered from breast cancer twice.
Of course, Yang Dechang's retribution was also very fast, and when his career and family were both harvested, he suffered from cancer and eventually lost his life.
For Cai Qin, no matter how Yang Dechang failed her in the past, she still retained a trace of pity: "I knew this earlier, I would divorce him earlier and let him go free." ”
Over the years, Cai Qin has had a relationship, but she is no longer married, she said that she has already married herself to the stage.
Fourth: Zhang Di| and Feng Xiaogang's abusive relationship changed the fate of her life
Speaking of Zhang Di, Feng Xiaogang once said bluntly: "I have especially wronged my ex-wife, the most important thing is the opportunity for me, I am definitely happy with the new and tired of the old." ”
In 1984, when Feng Xiaogang and Zhang Di met, Feng Xiaogang was still working as a trade union officer at the Beijing Urban Construction and Development Corporation, poor and white, and his future was uncertain.
At that time, Zhang Di was a nurse at a hospital in Beijing, gentle and kind, quiet and lovely, and Feng Xiaogang almost fell in love with her at first sight.
At first, Zhang Di's family did not look up to Feng Xiaogang, but Zhang Di loved him very much and had to marry him dead or alive.
The two did not fall in love for long, and then entered the palace of marriage.
In the first few years, Zhang Di and Feng Xiaogang lived a simple and unpretentious married life, the two were together, and the poor days were also sweet.
Six years later, Zhang Di gave birth to a daughter for Feng Xiaogang, and the two of them had a more complete life.
However, Feng Xiaogang is not a person who is willing to be mediocre, he has been flipping the script and wants to be a director, and at the same time he has also caught up with Wang Shuo, Zheng Xiaolong and others, and his career has gone up step by step.
In 1992, Feng Xiaogang took the script of "The Great Satan" and found Xu Fan as the heroine.
Looking at the beautiful Xu Fan, Feng Xiaogang and her began an underground love.
Zhang Di heard that she was not in a hurry, she thought that men loved to play, and they would come back after playing enough.
Unexpectedly, in the following 7 years, Feng Xiaogang and Xu Fan were inseparable and openly talked about love.
In 1999, Zhang Di was disheartened and divorced Feng Xiaogang, which fulfilled him and Xu Fan.
Later, Xu Fan did indeed become Feng Xiaogang's xiannai assistant, of course, Feng Xiaogang's lace news is also a lot.
On the other side, Zhang Di has long been disappointed in marriage, and for so many years, she has taken her daughter and parents to live in Beijing in a low-key manner.
Fifth place: Luo Xiuchun | 6 years of marriage, a lifetime of pain
In the 1980s, Zhang Guoli and Luo Xiuchun held a small hand in the Repertory Theatre.
Luo Xiuchun's family is very well-off, her parents are all characters with heads and faces, and she is a professional actor with a salary.
The combination of Zhang Guoli and her is simply a toad eating swan meat.
After marriage, Zhang Guoli and Luo Xiuchun had a very happy life, giving birth to a son Zhang Mo on the one hand, and Zhang Guoli was given a house on the other hand.
Until 1984, Zhang Guoli and Deng Jie met in the TV series "The Password Was Not Leaked", and Zhang Guoli began to have an external heart.
In the following years, Deng Jie became popular all over the country because of a "Dream of the Red Chamber", and Zhang Guoli also won the highest award for drama, he finally straightened his waist and proposed a divorce with Luo Xiuchun.
Zhang Guoguo is not without conscience, he chose to go out of the house, Luo Xiuchun also has a request: "Can't have children anymore, we must cultivate Zhang Mo well." ”
Later Zhang Guoli and Deng Jie did not have children, but the rebellious and unruly Zhang Mo became the pain of Zhang Guoguo's life.
For so many years, Luo Xiuchun has always been intoxicated with the drama career, did not remarry, and the best years of her life were paid to Zhang Guoguo.
Sixth place: Gao Xiaoying| Qingmei Bamboo Horse is not a reality
In the 1980s, Man Wenjun fell in love with his junior high school classmate Gao Xiaoying, and under a fierce attack, instead of knocking on Gao Xiaoying's heart door, he also let Gao Xiaoying report to the school.
Man Wenjun was originally inferior and his family was poor, and he felt that Gao Xiaoying's refusal made him very faceless, and he dropped out of school in a huff.
Later, Man Wenjun became a bricklayer, and Gao Xiaoying looked at him who was hard-working and hard-working, but he was moved.
At that youthful age, the two men talked about the purest love.
Man Wenjun was born with a good voice, and in 1986, he participated in the Rural Singer Competition, won the first place, and won a prize of 300 yuan.
Since then, Gao Xiaoying has accompanied him to participate in many singing competitions, with good results, and gradually opened up his fame in the local area.
In 1991, Gao Xiaoying accidentally became pregnant, and Manchu enlisted a license from him.
After giving birth to her daughter, Gao Xiaoying took care of the child while working, and Man Wenjun went north to chase his dream of singing.
Gao Xiaoying thought that Manchu Wenjun would give her and her daughter a good future, but she did not expect that Manchu Wenjun would change her mind after three years of wandering outside.
In 1994, After establishing a foothold in Beijing, Manchu Wenjun filed for divorce from Gao Xiaoying and offered to pay Gao Xiaoying 30,000 yuan in child support.
As a result, after the divorce, Manchu Wenjun did not keep his promise.
Later, Gao Xiaoying remarried and changed her daughter to her own surname, and Man Wenjun fell on Li Li, and her career soared.
Years later, Both Man Wenjun and Li Li were arrested for drug abuse, and his past with Gao Xiaoying was dug up, and his daughter Gao Jing bluntly said that she was not familiar with Man Wenjun.
In recent years, the Manchu Army has been destroyed because of the negative news cause, which can also be regarded as a kind of retribution for being a "negative man" in that year.
Seventh place: Shen Dianxia | half of her life as an Autumn Official, and finally ended up with hatred
In the 1970s, Zheng Shaoqiu experienced two love injuries and came together with Shen Dianxia.
Shen Dianxia was strong and strong, and she couldn't get along with beauty, but she had her heart and lungs for Zheng Shaoqiu.
At that time, Shen Dianxia was more prosperous than Zheng Shaoqiu, and she used her resources to push Zheng Shaoqiu to the position of male number one.
In the back, Shen Dianxia simply put down her job and became Zheng Shaoqiu's agent and personal assistant, making him the most prosperous young student in Hong Kong.
But Zheng Shaoqiu still lost Shen Dianxia after all.
In 1984, Zheng Shaoqiu went to Taiwan to shoot "The New Biography of Chu Liuxiang" and met the actress Guan Jinghua in the same group.
The scandal between the two was boiling over, but Zheng Shaoqiu did not admit that he had two hearts.
In order to show his loyalty, he also married Shen Dianxia, but after the marriage, Zheng Shaoqiu soon revealed his true face.
He knew that Shen Dianxia's body was not suitable for childbearing, but he had to force her to have a child.
During Shen Dianxia's pregnancy, Zheng Shaoqiu and Guan Jinghua fought fiercely.
When the child was born, Shen Dianxia and Zheng Shaoqiu's marriage came to an end.
Zheng Shaoqiu ran to Taiwan without turning back and tied a knot with Guan Jinghua.
In 2008, Shen Dianxia died of liver cancer, and Shen Dianxia's eldest brother Deng Guangrong openly accused Zheng Shaoqiu: "Qiu Guan, in the past few years, what have you paid to Ah Fei?" What did you do to your daughter? ”
In the face of questioning, Zheng Shaoqiu looked embarrassed, not knowing whether there was a little guilt in his heart.
Eighth: Li Lie| the man who resembled my father hurt me the most
When Li Lie and Luo Dayou fell in love, the two had known each other for many years, and both had experienced emotional pain, and there was a sense of pity for each other.
It is not surprising that Li Lie will fall in love with Luo Dayou, at that time, Luo Dayou is no longer a poor and white medical student, he has become a music director, fame and fortune, and radiance.
More importantly, Li Lie saw the shadow of her father in him, and for her who lost her father at a young age, Luo Dayou had a different kind of attraction.
For the first six years of their time together, Luo Dayou was busy making music and Li Lie was busy making his own garment factory.
But Li Lie still lacked some luck, and in the end the business did not come to fruition, and he still owed a bunch of debts.
After her career was completely destroyed, she simply stopped running around, but returned to Luo Dayou's side and lived a life of husband singing and singing with women.
In 2000, Li Lie and Luo Dayou had gone through ten years, and the middle-aged Luo Dayou was eager to set up a family, so he took Li Lie to get a license.
After marriage, Li Lie and Luo Dayou did not get along happily, Luo Dayou was short-tempered, emotionally unstable, and often spoke ill of Li Lie.
Moreover, the two men disagreed on many things and values.
A year later, Li Lie couldn't bear it anymore and ended his marriage with Luo Dayou.
In the face of the crusade of public opinion, Luo Dayou said that he would not remarry or have children, and won the sympathy of the public by selling miserably.
Later, Li Lie became an excellent filmmaker, and Luo Dayou reneged on his promise, he married a wife, had children, and played a good father and husband of others.
Ninth place: Buy red sister | hot love is just a scam
The encounter between Mai Hongmei and Sun Nan is a fairy tale.
In 2000, Sun Nan met with Buy Red Sister at an event, because they were all insiders and knew each other well, and the two chatted hotly for a while.
Sun Nan's love is very direct, the two know each other for less than a day, he proposed to buy red sister.
Soon, The Red Sister and Sun Nan got married.
At that time, Sun Nan was not very famous, and he did not have much money in his pocket, and he could not even afford a wedding.
But buying red sister did not mind, she took the initiative to pay for a grand wedding for herself.
After marriage, buying Red Sister gradually gave up her career, she gave birth to a daughter for Sun Nan and became the woman behind Sun Nan.
With the passage of time, Sun Nan's shortcomings have been revealed, he is not a man who cares for the family, and there is a very serious machismo.
Just when the marriage between the two entered the seven-year itch, Sun Nan met Pan Wei, the host of the golf tournament.
Sun Nan has always preferred golf, and naturally and Pan Wei are very close, and when they come and go, the two will look at each other.
In 2009, Sun Nan filed for divorce from Mai Hongmei and also took Mai Hongmei to court to fight for custody of a pair of children.
After divorcing The Red Sister, Sun Nan quickly married Pan Wei, confirming the notoriety of betraying the marriage.
Later, Sun Nan's career and family double harvest, but after buying Red Sister's comeback, she no longer had the previous scenery.
Tenth place: Wei Zhen | life is full of difficulties
In 1999, Wei Zhen married Wang Xun, who had nothing.
At that time, Wei Zhen had a stable job as a lawyer, and Wang Xun was not only ugly, but also groped on the way to becoming a comedian.
Later, Wang Xun said cross-talk in the Qu Art Troupe, the salary was low, and it was impossible to support the family, or Wei Zhen supported a piece of the family.
In those years, the days were very poor, but Wei Zhen was happy in her heart, and she looked at the enterprising Wang Xun and felt that life had hope.
In 2006, a "Crazy Stone" allowed Wang Xun to seize the outlet of his career, and he partnered with Huang Bo and staged a lot of comedy movies.
As Wang Xun's career flourished, in order to thank Wei Zhen for his support, he made up a wedding.
At the wedding, Wang Xun and Wei Zhen smiled like flowers, which was the happy appearance of a bad chaff couple.
However, no one could have imagined that Wang Xun's fame was getting bigger and bigger, and the temptations around him were also increasing.
During the marriage between Wang Xun and Wei Zhen, a young girl named Wang Yizi appeared next to her, and the two were like glue, inseparable.
In 2013, Wang Xun and Wei Zhen divorced, and then waited for the wedding of Wang Xun and Wang Yizi.
For Wang Xun's betrayal, Wei Zhen did not reveal a word that year.
It was not until 2015, when someone on the Internet broke the news that Wang Xun was unfaithful to Wei Zhen, that everyone could clearly see his true face.
In the face of public opinion's accusations, Wang Xun admitted everything, a letter of apology, earnest words, but let people see the thin coolness of human nature.
In 2019, Wei Zhen died of cancer, and Wang Xun once again broke the lace news of "Night Meeting Beauty".
Although Wang Xun's private life is full of bad deeds, over the years, he has still been seeking gold in the entertainment industry.
The girl said
The story of these ten bad wives is really lamentable.
They have all used the best youth to accompany men through the trough, they do not dislike each other's poverty, and they are willing to give everything for love.
But people's hearts are unpredictable, and when they are wrapped in fame and fortune to go forward, these male stars abandon the women who accompany them to suffer.
They married wives and lived a good life, but the abandoned chaff wives had to pay the price of their lives, even their lives.
I suddenly remembered a passage from "Green Snake":
"Never bring a man along. Yes, don't bring him up, it's better to love him until he's almost done. Men do not "promise each other", once he is promoted, waiting for the opportunity to break through, you are dangerous. No man is willing to sell his life, he always has the ambition to use the money he sold to buy another life. ”
This passage is enough to warn all women, polish their eyes, never give up their lives for men, and never overestimate men's affection. (End)
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