Pickpocket the three men of Zhao Lusi in the drama.
The official match was Ling Buxian (later he changed back to his real surname and chose to be called Huo Buxian). I like Wu Lei's face very much, and I also feel that he and Zhao Lusi stand together, very CP sense, the play is also countless times by the two of them a lot of interaction moments sweet, I also admit, in terms of Cheng Shaoshang's personality, although marrying anyone will be happy, but can make her deeply fall in love, and her personal growth path match the highest degree, must be Ling No doubt.
But from my personal point of view, I would like to say that if you have a man with a similar personality around you, it is best not to choose. I've always thought that getting married is about going to comfort, and breaking through is just one of the small hurdles. But with someone like Ling Bu, the theme of marriage can easily become a monster escalation.
And the premise must be that you can have the mentality and wisdom of Cheng Shaoshang.
But most girls, after all, are ordinary girls, and with a man like Ling Buxi, it is easy to live without self, and gradually become a victim of marriage.
Because his life experience determines that he must bear a heavy fate, he can't care about love and marriage. He's also good at exploiting, he's still scheming, and with him, you have to bet that his "calculations" are just right, and you have to bet that the best part of his character won't be lost.
But such a bet is too big, so the life with him is too worrying.
What about Lou Yao?
Put it this way, if you just talk about love, Lou Yao may be the best choice for many women. He looks good and cute, has a warm and innocent personality, is not entangled at all, and does not have the stink of ordinary men who have to raise bars with girls at every turn, after liking a person, everywhere to put her first, both to take care of the details of her life, but also to feel her emotional changes.
In the more popular words now, Lou Yao is a person who is very good at providing emotional value.
However, if you want to live together, Lou Yao is more suitable for mature women, suitable for the real big heroine. Because Lou Yao is a person who needs others to support him at a critical moment, he is not an escape person, but he is a person who will shake when the wind and rain come, and he needs someone to motivate him behind him, or make a choice for him, so that he can regain his firmness and tenacity.
Therefore, Cheng Shaoshang and He Zhaojun are very suitable for Lou Yao.
These two girls are relatively tough women.
Soft girls, or girls who are not good at riding the wind and waves, always hope that others will hold an umbrella for themselves, do not choose the building, it is likely that the marriage will become two people overwhelmed together, and finally complain to each other.
In the whole "Brilliant Star", the most universal man is the yuan shen who looks the most unflattering.
Yuan Shen is mean-mouthed and does not know how to express love, which I admit.
But I want to say that no matter what kind of girl, marrying Yuan Shen, there is a high probability that she will have a good life.
Because Yuan Shen, on the whole, is a healthy and mature man. He is not good at expressing love in words, but he is considerate of the people he likes in his actions, he is a man who does more than he says, but Cheng Shaoshang likes sweet words because he lacks love since he was a child, so Yuan Shen can't please her here.
But even though Yuan Shen knew this, he still chose to be silently good to Cheng Shaoshang, rather than using a faster and more beneficial way for himself, so I always felt that Yuan Shen was a rare and unselfish person in the play.
In addition to maturity, Yuan Shen also knows how to respect women.
If you have a serious chase, you should find that for less businessmen, for anyone, Yuan Shen has never been embarrassed, or to persecute, when I chatted with my friend Gan Bei, I said that Yuan Shen knows how to respect a person's will. She said yes, although he always feared Shaoshang, but every time, no matter what Shaoshang did, she was still by her. Even in the end, he accompanied Shaoshang for five years, and never asked for anything, Shaoshang almost wanted to get engaged to him, and finally chose Ling Buxi, he did not feel that he was let down, and he did not show much grievance at all.
How rare is this, in other words, some men, obviously for their own selfishness to pay so much more, once there is no result, they have to hold a grudge, blaming women for making him wronged.
Although it is very unfair to say this, I do think so, that is, Yuan Shen is a person who can withstand offense, and he is indeed a gentleman.
Finally, I like his open-mindedness. He often said that he was not a affectionate person, but he had never done anything petty. His attitude towards love is to do his duty, but not to be too persistent, to gain my luck, to lose my life, no matter what, he can clean up his mood and start life again.
If Cheng Shaoshang can be happy to marry anyone, then Yuan Shen is, whoever he is with, he can live well. Because he has the emotional management skills that an adult needs most, he is a good forgiveman.
His love does not intend to trap himself, nor does he want to trap others.
Writing here, I suddenly felt that in fact, Yuan Shen and Sheng Minglan were a perfect match! They are all people who are not too entangled in love and know how to be kind to life.
But this is not the so-called thin affection, when I was young, I always felt that grasping what was not put down was deep love, but now I understand more and more, many times I know how to let go, choose to let go, but also a kind of heavy love.
Open-mindedness is the most rare affection in this world.
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