Preface:
When the Wenchuan earthquake occurred in 2008, many families unfortunately became fragmented, and at the same time, many good people and good deeds emerged in the land of China, such as the female policemen who nursed babies in the ruins.
After the reporter spread this scene to the Internet, people praised her for a while, and she also won awards one after another, and the leader promoted her out of the box, which can be described as a time of no difference.
But what is unexpected is that at this time, the tone of netizens has begun to change, and the evaluation of her has begun to turn into controversy.
First, the police mother
In the ruins of the Wenchuan earthquake, there sat a female policewoman who was nursing a child, holding two babies in each of her hands, and seven lying next to her.
These are the children who survived the earthquake, and their mothers have some unfortunately died, and some of them have been seriously injured and sent to the rescue.
Jiang Xiaojuan, who was 29 years old at the time, looked at the tragic scene in front of her and immediately set off to start the rescue, and just as she was rescuing, she suddenly heard a baby's cry.
She captured this very subtle sound very precisely, and followed the sound to find a young woman standing in the ruins, holding a baby and looking around.
Jiang Xiaojuan immediately walked over to inquire about the situation after seeing it, and it turned out that the baby's mother was seriously injured and was undergoing treatment, leaving only a child waiting to be fed.
They searched for a long time in the resettlement site and did not find milk powder, and the child cried when he was hungry.
Jiang Xiaojuan walked up to them, took the child and said:
"I'm breastfeeding now, let me feed it."
As she spoke, she found a place in the ruins with her child in her arms and sat down, unbuttoning her child to feed her.
"Obedient, eat slowly, no hurry."
Jiang Xiaojuan gently patted the child in her hand, slowly shaking, the child in her arms soon quieted down, she looked at the child in her arms, she thought of the beanie at home.
By learning that the child's name is Yaoyao, she is only more than two months old, and because of this earthquake, the mother and daughter are temporarily separated.
Not far away, the cry of the baby pulled her thoughts back, and not far away an old man was holding the child anxiously walking towards this side.
"Comrade policeman, this child's mother was frightened and cannot breastfeed now."
Jiang Xiaojuan looked at the child who had been crying in the old man's hand, and took one in one hand to feed.
The two children nursed quietly in her arms, and after a while they fell asleep, and the two parents gently took the children, sat next to them and looked at the tragic scene around them, and both sighed deeply.
Jiang Xiaojuan got up to continue the rescue mission, and after a while, another parent found her holding the child, and seeing such a situation, she applied to the leader to add a task to feed the children.
They gathered these young children, and Jiang Xiaojuan sat under the shed that had just been erected, and there were several children who were crying and crying next to her.
Soon the children were asleep after feeding under her comfort, and the parents took the children and smiled at her:
"They'll talk later and they'll definitely call you Mom."
Jiang Xiaojuan looked at the children with a smile and said that she also liked them very much.
Such a warm scene was filmed by reporters and put on the Internet, and soon people noticed the police nursing in the ruins, and people said that they were the most selfless mothers in the world.
Because netizens did not know her name, they affectionately called her "police mother".
For a time, people were in awe of the policewoman, and they all thought that she was the most beautiful policewoman.
It is worth mentioning that she can support Wenchuan so safely because she has a very strong backing at home to help her take care of everything in the family.
So, who is that powerful backer in the family? How do you keep your home in order?
Second, the sensible mother-in-law
Jiang Xiaojuan entered the police station at the age of 23 and began to work, her attitude towards work has always been very serious, not long after entering the police station, someone introduced her to the object, and soon she and her husband entered the palace of marriage.
In December 2007, Jiang Xiaojuan gave birth to a white and fat son, named Doudou, who was still concerned about the work of the police station when she was confined, and Doudou returned to the police station to continue working just 6 months ago.
In May 2008, when Jiang Xiaojuan was in the office, she was suddenly pulled outside by her colleagues, and she heard her colleagues say:
"Earthquake, run."
Her biggest concern at this time was the safety of the home, and when she ran to the clearing, she immediately called home, and the sound of the mother's panting and the cry of her son came from the other end of the phone.
Jiang Xiaojuan's heart immediately tugged, and she wanted to go home immediately to see the situation of the children and the elderly.
Soon the police station received news that an earthquake had occurred in Wenchuan, 100 kilometers away from Jiangyou City, and the house had collapsed badly and needed to go to support.
After Jiang Xiaojuan received the task, she told the family the news, and she just wanted to explain it to her mother-in-law when she heard her mother-in-law say:
"You go quickly, I can take care of this side of the house, and pay attention to safety outside."
Hearing her mother-in-law's advice, she reluctantly said goodbye to her family and immediately went to the disaster area for support.
The mother-in-law took the beanie to rest in the set up shed, did not see the mother's beanie for a day, and at night has been crying, due to the earthquake, there is no milk powder in the material, the beanie is not used to the taste of rice soup has been crying and refusing to drink.
Doudou cried all night, and her mother-in-law did not sleep all night, even so, she did not want her daughter-in-law to come back to see, in the face of the reporter's interview, she just smiled and said:
"She's doing this job, and she's a party member, and she's definitely going to stand among the people."
In order to let Jiang Xiaojuan have no worries, she took Doudou to her brother's house, and in order not to let her daughter-in-law worry, she never called her daughter-in-law.
It wasn't until she got into the car that she took out her mobile phone to tell her daughter-in-law the news, and when Jiang Xiaojuan heard it, she just choked softly and didn't speak.
After arriving at the brother's house, they vacated the bed for the two of them to sleep, and worked on the sofa by themselves, and the younger brother took good care of them both, and gave them any good things in the family at the first time.
The mother-in-law was playing in the yard with the beanie, and she heard someone say:
"Isn't this the daughter-in-law of that family?" Now I'm a big red man. ”
She quickly went forward to inquire about the situation, and it turned out that Jiang Xiaojuan's feeding in the disaster area was reported on the TV media, and neighbors praised her.
When she learned of this, she just smiled and said:
"She is a policeman, it is right to do good things for everyone, there is nothing to say, if it is true, it is all a mother, she also understands the mothers in the disaster area, I support her."
After many people learned about this incident, they sent them a lot of milk powder and bottles, but the mother-in-law thought that the children in the disaster area needed these things more, so they gave these to the disaster area.
With the strong support of her mother-in-law, Jiang Xiaojuan carried out rescue missions in the disaster area with peace of mind and helped people in the disaster area to get out of danger as soon as possible.
She not only had to help with the rescue, but also nursed 9 babies, and she felt very tired every day, but she did not complain about these difficulties.
So, how did Jiang Xiaojuan solve these difficulties?
Third, difficulties
On May 12, 2008, a magnitude 8 earthquake occurred in Wenchuan, and the building collapsed into a ruin in an instant, and many people who had no time to escape were crushed under the rubble.
The ruins were full of groans of crying and groaning, and many people on the ruins were shouting and shouting with tears in their hearts, and everywhere they looked, there were ruins and broken walls everywhere, and some people were frantically using their hands to desperately plan the ruins.
Soon the people who came to help arrived, they carefully searched for the traces of the people, rescued the people from the rubble one by one, and the living family members watched the rescue team work, and they waited anxiously.
Jiang Xiaojuan quickly put into work after coming to the disaster area, they rescued some babies in the rubble, there was no milk powder in the disaster area, and the children were hungry and crying all the time.
At this time, Jiang Xiaojuan stepped forward and took the initiative to take on the responsibility of feeding these children, usually taking care of a child at home made her feel very tired, taking care of 9 children in the disaster area, but she did not complain in the slightest.
At night, as long as the children have a little movement, she will quickly get up to check the situation, and some children will get up in the middle of the night when she is hungry to feed.
The materials in the disaster area are not enough, each person is given at most a bucket of instant noodles and a loaf of bread, the nutrition cannot keep up, the milk is not enough, plus she has to feed 9 children at the same time, even so, she still insists on feeding every day and carrying out rescue work in the disaster area.
She didn't know that what she had done had spread online until a reporter approached her one day and wanted to do an interview.
At first, she was very confused and did not know what was happening, and her colleagues took out the newspaper for her to read, and then she realized that many people knew about these things she had done.
Faced with the reporter's invitation, she simply declined, saying that this is what a police officer should do and that there is nothing to say.
The reporter had no choice but to give up when he saw such a situation, and left after a while, and after a few days the disaster stabilized somewhat, and Jiang Xiaojuan immediately got into the car and went home to see her son.
After receiving the call, the mother-in-law took Doudou to the station very early to wait, and as soon as she got off the bus, she saw her mother-in-law and son, and happily reached out to hug Doudou.
But Doudou hid directly behind her mother-in-law, looking at Jiang Xiaojuan in front of her vigilantly, it turned out that she had been away from home for too long, and Doudou had already somewhat lost her.
Looking at her son in front of her, Jiang Xiaojuan had to withdraw her hand, this time she could not stay too long, the people on the other side of the disaster area still needed her, and in a few days she went to the disaster area again.
She watched in the car as the figures of her mother-in-law and son continued to pull away, and her heart was very uncomfortable, her children drank milk powder at home, and the children in the disaster area drank breast milk, and she felt very guilty about Doudou in her heart, but she could only put these aside for the time being.
The children in the disaster area have become white and fat under the feeding of Jiang Xiaojuan, during which time the reporter visited again, this time she accepted the interview, in her opinion, the reporters are also the first group of people.
After the disaster stabilized, Jiang Xiaojuan returned to Jiangyou City to continue her work as a police officer, and soon after she was awarded the honorary title of Second-Class Heroic Model of the National Public Security System.
After that, she was promoted all the way, directly to the position of deputy political commissar.
However, at this time, her reputation suddenly changed, and some people on the Internet began to question her, thinking that she should not sit in such a position.
So, in the face of these doubts, what kind of response will Jiang Xiaojuan make?
Fourth, questioning
"My own children don't care, run to the disaster area to feed, it's all a show."
"I see that so many hard-working warriors in the disaster area do not have such a high honor, so why should she breastfeed ..."
As soon as the news of Jiang Xiaojuan's promotion broke, two voices appeared on the Internet, one side praising her, and the other side constantly questioning her.
Someone even posted her phone number online, and during that time, she would often receive some strange text messages and phone calls in the middle of the night, all of which were insults to her.
During that time, Jiang Xiaojuan did not dare to open the mobile phone at all, and her body and mind were greatly hurt, even to the point where she needed psychological treatment.
Fortunately, with the encouragement of her family and friends, she quickly adjusted her state, began to ignore the evaluation of people on the Internet, and she did her job every day.
Sometimes I think of the 9 children who were rescued in Wenchuan at that time, and I don't know how they are now.
On August 17, 2008, Jiang Xiaojuan took a car to Wenchuan to successfully find the four children she was feeding at the time through the local police station, and her life began to slowly return to the right track.
Jiang Xiaojuan moved to her new position, still buried in hard work every day, her main thing is to serve the people.
When someone mentioned a breastfeeding incident, she would always say that she had done what a police officer and mother should have done, and if there were other mothers present at the time, they would have done the same.
She was directly promoted from the grassroots to the position of leader, but she did not have any leadership shelf, often communicated with colleagues, and the grassroots police were very willing to find her to solve problems.
In order to do a good job in the ideological work of the grass-roots police, Jiang Xiaojuan also specially studied psychology and conducted psychological guidance for the police, due to the adjustment of the position, the work of fire protection also fell on her head, for which she specially forced herself to learn fire knowledge.
In 2013, due to work reasons, she was interviewed by the media again, and during the interview, the reporter could feel the sense of approachability in her body, without a little official shelf.
It was because of this that she was able to sit firmly in the position of deputy political commissar, during which time she remained in touch with the families and often inquired about their situation.
In 2017, the director of the Jiangyou City Public Security Bureau sent her to lead the chairman of the trade union and his party to the fire brigade and the armed police squadron to visit the veterans who were about to retire.
Jiang Xiaojuan personally conveyed the concern and greetings of the party committee of the Municipal Public Security Bureau to these veterans.
In the post for more than ten years, she has always maintained her original intention, treated the work seriously and responsibly, and in 2020, she was transferred from the deputy political commissar of the Jiangyou City Public Security Bureau to the director of the political office.
In the new post, she still adheres to the low-key style of acting, the 9 children at that time have become junior high school students, they can not forget the grace of nurturing at that time, they all affectionately call her "Mother Jiang".
For Jiang Xiaojuan, she just did what mothers all over the world would do, she not only nursed 9 children, but also saved 9 families, if she did not come forward, then the fate of these children can be imagined.
5. Conclusion
When Jiang Xiaojuan needed support for the Wenchuan earthquake, she gave up her small family and did not hesitate to go to Wenchuan for support.
After arriving at the scene, there was a shortage of supplies, and the children were hungry and crying without food, but fortunately, she stepped forward and nursed these children in time.
As she said in the ruins of Wenchuan:
"Adults can still be hungry and tolerant, but as little babies they can't, and as mothers I think they are too pitiful." 」
Under such harsh conditions, she insisted on feeding every day, and through her continuous efforts, these children not only survived, but also became white and fat.
Jiang Xiaojuan has been promoted because of this matter, and at the same time she has been insulted, fortunately, she has made adjustments in time, not affected by these, and is very serious and hard working hard in the subsequent work.
Now that Jiang Xiaojuan is 43 years old, although she has sat in a very high position, she still works seriously, studies with an open mind, finds that her subordinates are in difficulty, and helps in a timely manner.
This spirit in her is worth learning from all of us, in her view these honors are nothing, what she wants is to return to ordinary life and do what she should do.
During the Wenchuan earthquake, many heroes emerged, some of them came to support the People's Liberation Army, some were ordinary people, but their deeds are worthy of praise.
There are many ordinary people in life who do extraordinary things, if Jiang Xiaojuan's deeds have not been put on the Internet and not known by people, perhaps she is still an ordinary policeman.
Jiang Xiaojuan often said that she was very lucky, because she just happened to be photographed by reporters doing this, and reported it, making her a "police mother" in people's mouths.
After these achievements, she is not proud, still does her job, treats people kindly, and colleagues and leaders around her like her.
There are many ordinary people in life, but when danger comes, they may become heroes, and so does Jiang Xiaojuan.