In 2021, He Chaolian was invited to attend the event with Qin Lan, Zhou Yutong and others, and raised a small glass, so that He Chaolian was once again enshrined as a "top celebrity", and the gap between stars and celebrities was also clear at a glance.
As the name suggests, Mingyuan is a famous girl, and few people call it that now, but in the early Republic of China, there were many, and Yan Renmei was one of them.
It was only in that turbulent era that Yan Renmei, who longed for freedom, did not live the life that a celebrity should have, the marriage was not smooth, she was entangled by the Japanese, and her children could not bear the joy of kneeling, until she met her second husband.
In 1915, Yan Renmei was born in Shanghai to a prominent family, great-grandfather Yan Xinhou was Li Hongzhang's staff, and "Miss 84" Yan Youyun was her aunt.
Yan Renmei is the eldest daughter of Yan Zhiduo and Liu Chengyi, when giving birth to Yan Renmei was not smooth, Liu Chengyi was in pain for three days and three nights to usher in his first child, but it was a handsome film, and there was no hair, and the couple was a little unhappy in their hearts.
Fortunately, they still did not give up on this child, and named her "Renmei", hoping that as she grew up, she could grow up and become more beautiful. In order to make Yan Renmei grow hair, her mother took her to abroad for treatment, and later she actually grew a green hair.
At the age of 6, under the expectation of her parents, Yan Renmei ushered in a younger brother, but her mother died due to difficult childbirth, her father was busy with business, and no one cared about Yan Renmei, and finally her mother-in-law saw her pitiful, so she took her in as a companion.
In those years, Yan Renmei had been locked up in the courtyard, looking at the sky outside the courtyard wall in a daze every day, only when her aunt taught her to study, she felt happy, she longed for the outside world, and she also wanted to learn at school like her aunt Wu Jing.
At that time, people were not as enlightened as they are now, advocating that women without talent was morality, so Yan Renmei could only study in her own private school.
With the passage of time, Yan Renmei became more and more beautiful, behaved decently, and had the demeanor of everyone. After her aunt returned from school, she taught at the Shanghai Zhongxi Girls' High School, which was a famous school founded by the three sisters of Song Qingling, and Yan Renmei was even more eager after hearing about it, and begged her to go to school.
Yan Renmei is different from other rich girls, she really likes to study when she goes to school, her grades have always been very good, and she has become friends with many famous girls. For her, those years at school were the most pleasant short time of her life, because the rest of her life was up to her.
Second row, second from the right, Yan Renmei
Yan Zhiduo has always disliked her daughter going to school, and when Yan Renmei was happiest, her father gave her a blow and asked her to quit school and wait for marriage at home.
Yan Renmei grew up living under her father's arrangement, living like a puppet, but she was absolutely unwilling to let her marry, and she was always gentle and lovely, and she rejected her father for the first time.
The father and daughter were deadlocked for a long time and refused to budge, and the father bet: "As long as you score more than 95 points in all subjects at the end of this period, I will promise you not to marry." ”
Although this request was not easy, Yan Renmei refused to let go of a glimmer of an opportunity: "Yes, as long as you keep your promise." ”
In order to meet her father's requirements, Yan Renmei studied every day without sleeping or eating, and really achieved a good score of more than 95 points in each course at the end of the semester.
What she didn't know was that her father had already arranged a family affair for her, the other party was a rich and powerful Ma family, and the family marriage was undoubtedly a strong alliance in Yan Zhiduo's view, so he couldn't care about his daughter's wishes.
Yan Renmei happily went to find his father with the report card, but he did not expect to exchange it for a sentence: "You have to marry, and if you don't marry, you have to marry." Yan Renmei never expected her father to be so unsure of his promise, and she only dropped a sentence of "I will not marry" and locked herself in the room.
For several days, Yan Renmei did not eat or drink, and Yan Zhiduo, who originally thought that his daughter was a child's heart, was also frightened, and in desperation, he thought of a two-pronged method: "You can continue to go to school, but you have to marry the Ma family." ”
His arms could not twist his thighs, not to mention that it was a period of backward thinking, yan Renmei had to compromise with his father.
When Yan Renmei was 20 years old, she married Ma Guanliang, who was in love with her at the wedding of Yan Renmei's aunt, and after marriage, she was also cared for in every way, as far as possible to tolerate Yan Renmei to go to school, go out on dates with friends, etc.
Unfortunately, yan Renmei became pregnant in less than a year, and the Ma family forced her to raise a fetus at home on the grounds that she learned to move tire gas, and in just a few years, Yan Renmei gave birth to three children in succession, from a new era of women to housewives.
If so, at least for the sake of the children she can endure, but Ma Guanliang actually went out to find flowers and ask for willows, and all day long with some warblers and swallows, which Yan Renmei could not accept as a wife, she was not as backward as the Ma family, thinking that men should have three wives and four concubines, and what she advocated was a lifetime of one or two.
Yan Renmei and the Ma family's ideological level is completely out of the same class, she can not stand such a husband and in-laws, under the encouragement of friends, Yan Renmei and Ma Guanliang divorced, but failed to get the custody of the child.
At that time, the situation was turbulent, the Japanese were running amok in the street, and Yan Renmei was not welcomed by her mother's family after her divorce, so she had to go to the house of her mother Sheng Guanyi to live for a while.
But I didn't expect that the good-looking Yan Renmei was looked at by a Japanese officer, she hid around or was entangled by the Japanese, she could have fled to Chongqing with the help of her friends, but the Ma family always refused to give her the child, yan Renmei loved her son and how could she leave.
Thinking about it, she had to bow her head to her mother's house for help, and after everyone's consultation, only by remarrying Yan Renmei could she avoid the Japanese, so she decided on the marriage between Yan Renmei and Li Zumin.
Li Zumin's family is also in business, enough to match the Yan family, because the marriage proposal abroad in the early years has been delayed, he is diligent and down-to-earth, erudite, and Yan Renmei's ambition is the same.
In 1943, the two held a wedding in the church, Li Zumin did not mind Yan Renmei's divorce, and also knew that she wanted to return to the custody of her children, and knew that she was forced to marry herself, but Li Zumin still wholeheartedly treated her and invited 10 bodyguards to protect Yan Renmei on the wedding day.
Although the two did not have feelings before marriage, they were also happy after marriage, Yan Renmei gave birth to a son and a daughter, and gradually the two also had true feelings.
When the country is in crisis, the couple fights together for the patriotic cause, takes the lead in collecting donations for those in need, and does their own modest work in times of national crisis.
They set up a nursery and a refugee service to take care of people displaced by the war, and although they came out early and returned late every day, Yan Renmei was happy from the bottom of her heart, accompanied by her husband Li Zumin, even if the fire was on her.
The second from the right is Yan Renmei
The deeds of Yan Renmei and her husband are obvious to all, she was elected as one of the first people's congress deputies, after the establishment of the new marriage law, with the help of Li Zumin, Yan Renmei finally returned the custody of the three children through a lawyer, and the family was finally reunited.
Li Zumin likes children and regards Yan Renmei and her ex-husband's 3 children as her own, and the family and Hemei are also very happy.
Later, the children gradually grew up one by one, and Yan Renmei and Li Zumin also lived a rare two-person world and became a good story in the mouth of friends.
At the end of the 20th century, Li Zumin died of illness, and before leaving, Yan Renmei took her husband's hand and kept murmuring in her mouth: "Thank you, I spent more than fifty years with me, I had a very happy time." ”
Li Zumin did not think so, under Yan Renmei's confession, Li Zumin left peacefully, he knew that even if he was not there, Yan Renmei could live strongly, she was different from others.
After the death of her husband, the younger daughter followed in her father's footsteps not long after, and the children were afraid that she would not be able to accept the cruelty of reality, so they took Yan Renmei to live with their son. The children are very filial and often visit her and accompany her to relieve her boredom.
Now Yan Renmei is 107 years old, there is a great potential to catch up with aunt Yan Youyun 112 years old, four generations in the same house, children and grandchildren filial piety, every birthday there are many people to send sincere greetings.
Beauty is not a native sin, she is the earliest new era woman, as the last celebrity of the Republic of China, Yan Renmei's life is legendary.
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Author: Gu Xinyue
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